European vs. American standards of dates/dating come up in another thread, so I'm curious about where you're from (generally speaking) and what's considered low/high value in your culture.
I'm from the US south and in my 30s. I would never even think of paying for/splitting a first date. I would consider it a strong signal that a guys not interested if he asked. Even when I go out with completely platonic male friends, they often still pay or will even pay for the whole group if they can. In my experiences, it's like a combination of status and hospitality, like, "I'm so fortunate that I get to treat my friends to dinner" type thing. Female friends who are from or who have moved to northern states say it's normal to split the bill there. Also, down here, most guys I've matched with will at least ask you out to lunch at least, not just coffee. (Also curious if you're from the US south if you agree/disagree.)
So what's your normal on this?
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