(using a throwaway because my friends know my acc)
Short introduction to me and my bf. We're both 19, and have been together for 6 months. The strange thing is... I can't find anything wrong with him..?
LONG POST Gonna try and shorten it as much as possible girls.
HOW WE BECAME A COUPLE
I have gone to another city to go to college. It's 3.5 hours away from my hometown. (Not the US). I started college 2 months into our relationship. It was originally planned to be a short one, but... I just couldn't let go.
We met in a social circle. He asked me out, and took me to a coffeehouse of my choosing, and a walk afterwards as a first date. It wasn't anything special, but we enjoyed our time together (neither of us likes anything fancy). His reasoning for a cheaper first date (although he did pay for everything) was to see if we were a good match. Long story short, our first date lasted 5 hours. So yea... It was good lol.
The second date was a Chinese restaurant. It was a really nice place. It's very unusual to take someone to a restaurant in our country (because it's expensive), so I was surprised. We had a great time. Went for a nice walk after too.
On the third date, I had to get some papers sorted out in that town I was gonna start my college at. He offered for that to be our third date. I was shocked. I knew this guy for a month. And we dated for less than a week... And he offered to go on a trip to a town 3.5 hours away, by bus.
We went, spent most of the date, hours and hours on the burning sun, running around town, doing paperwork. After that he took me to a beautiful little restaurant and asked me to be his gf.
It was one of the best days of my life. He even timed it to be the 18th (day of my birthday).
INTIMACY
After we got into a relationship, we waited 2 weeks before getting more intimate than kissing. He wasn't pushy about it. We clearly both wanted it.
The first time we ever did anything, he was clueless. He never had a gf before. All he had were 2 kisses. At 15, and 18.
I had an ex I never had sex with, but did the other stuff.
I did my thing first, and he was the happiest dude alive lol. And when we were done, he was eager to learn how to please me. I was pleasantly surprised. I showed him what to do, and he did well. Didn't make me finish, but it was his first time.
After that we had those "encounters" every week or so, until I had to go to college. 2 months into our relationship. He waited, and didn't push for sex (it hurt me when we tried penetration because I'm small). We finally did it though, couple days before I had to leave. It was great...
Now he makes me finish every time we do it. Really good in bed.
LONG DISTANCE
I went off to college.
We stayed in contact EVERY day over video chat for 1 to 2+ hours, and texted the rest of the day.
He started visiting every or every other weekend.
He earns 700$ (it's normal for our country, we have low earning power). And the trip to me is 25$. He spent 60+$ on me for lunches, buying me small things, etc.
He give his parents 100$ and saves 200$ for the future. He's really good with money.
FAMILY AND FRIENDS
He's in one of the same social circle as I am. And he's good with everyone.
He's good with my cousin, sisters and parents. My dad and him went for a bike ride, my mom invites him for sunday lunches, and my sisters hung out with him multiple times.
Never had any bad experiences.
FUTURE FOCUSED
He told me that in 2.5 years (when I finish the first part of my college) I can move back into his apartment (yes, his apartment, not the one he lives in right now with his parents) in our hometown. So I can finish the last 2 years in peace, living with him.
He also talks about hoe he wants to marry me, and how he wants to have kids with me.
I'm super happy about that... Like... Really happy.
COULD HE REALLY BE THE ONE???
there doesn't seem to be anything here