I used to be a pickmeisha but to help me stop being that I have started reviewing this in my head to identify the ways I should’ve handled past situations.

I feel like if I didn’t play then out in my head I wouldn’t be natural and confident about things when the time came. Now with new guys I think of what things I would expect from the guys I’m dating and think of different ways in which I would handle their LVM actions if they came to do them.

So I wanted to know if any of you girls did the same thing.