I’ve run into a few guys who are not willing to cater to your needs/preferences when setting up a date. For example, I matched with a guy online and he asked me to get drinks and a pizza with him. I was choosing healthier lower carb options plus I’m gluten intolerant so I have to watch how much bread I eat. I told him that I prefer to eat healthier and if they had salad options that would be fine with me. He replied saying that it’s okay to cheat on my diet and that I already look great in my pictures. When I said I was gluten intolerant he questioned if that was really true or if I was just making excuses not to go out with him. I said, you know what, we’re not on the same page so I don’t think this is going to work out and I’d rather not waste your time. I moved on. Next.

My point is, if he’s not willing to work with you or make compromises when setting up the first date, that is a major red flag. We should never do anything we don’t feel comfortable with just to make him happy. Also, never be ashamed of choosing healthier options or letting them know you have a specific diet you’re following. It does not mean you are stuck up or picky. You are doing what’s best for you. Don’t forget that you also have needs and that you should never feel like you have to change yourself just to make a man happy. You are worthy of someone who is understanding and will respect you.