Don't marry someone who isn't proud of your accomplishments.

chklcfybmoib · 2020-01-11T11:33:51+00:00

Wow. You can just tell how jealous he is of her. I hope that she got out of this marriage ! (If this isn’t you !)

2020-01-11T11:46:07+00:00

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lafemmeviolet · 2020-01-11T14:31:16+00:00

Holy shit this my ex husband. He would never EVER give me credit. Discouraged me from going to medical school. Never acknowledged my fitness or academic accomplishments. In fact when I ran my first 5k he mocked me for being one of the last finishers. When I ran 13 miles he said yeah but at what pace? Meanwhile he was a couch potato slob who had never run more than like, 100 feet. "I got a 98! " "Why not 100? "Or just... Silence When I had an eating disorder he would constantly tell me how his sister weighed 90 lbs and how skinny her arms were. That was REAL anorexia. My bmi was 19 so clearly I was "faking for attention."

But guess what? When I left him and kicked him out he threatened suicide constantly, stalked me, and ended up in the psych ward twice.

Guess he just never wanted me to realize he was LVM and I was high value.

hilariouslystated · 2020-01-11T13:19:10+00:00

Wow. He probably displayed this kind of behavior before they were married and she ignored it. I hope she doesn't have kids with this man. She needs to RUN.

usernamewhichisfree · 2020-01-11T14:29:45+00:00

My ex was a bit similar like that (but not THAT extreme). When he heard I had a 1,9 on my final tests he said "yeah if I continiued school I would have at least the same result". Like fuck you. You don't even have a graduation at all.

Diamondsareagirlsbff · 2020-01-11T11:13:38+00:00

‘The frog took a shit on the patio’ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ryan89- · 2020-01-11T14:11:49+00:00

Wow fuck that. That’s so terrible and makes me so sad... you can tell how excited she was to share such an accomplishment and he completely disregarded that... fuck him

darkhorse8419 · 2020-01-11T15:16:37+00:00

Damn, this is just plain hateful to me.

jalapenopancakes · 2020-01-11T12:20:16+00:00

God I couldn’t imagine being with someone like this.

For reference my husband (we were dating at the time) drove me an hour and half to my testing center to sit for the GRE, and picked me up later with flowers, balloons, and a card when I walked out after I had finished. I had just about cried. Then he took me to get some chicken wings because I had mentioned how tasty they sounded on the drive up.

It is incredible to feel supported when you accomplish a goal. Don’t give jealous men like this the time of day.

grimreapersdtr · 2020-01-11T15:27:41+00:00

David is the OP's husband?
I'd GTFO of that "relationship". You KNOW he will undermine any and all employment opportunities for her down the line.

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-11T17:01:05+00:00

I would block and send divorce papers. Life is too short.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-11T14:31:31+00:00

My ex for real. He went over his work evaluation with me and basically got told he has ADHD lol. Mine was absolutely glowing, so I didn't share it with him. That man never learned anything about me in 1.5 yrs because he made it absolutely clear he wasn't interested in hearing me talk. I didn't tell him about my bonus or my raise. Sometimes I would try to relate to a conversation and he would stop me with "we're talking about ME right now" or he'd call me a one upper. Good luck to that troll. He'll definitely spend the rest of his life alone. I only tolerated him to get away from my roommate and to go on the overseas trip he purchased for us after his first meltdown caused me to dump him.

butterflymeadowzz · 2020-01-11T17:37:41+00:00

Lol the frog shit on the patio 😭..funny

While it may be funny, ladies, let us remember to learn to laugh and walk away when we hear these types of jokes. When a man starts to develop this kind of sarcastic, cynical sense of humor, directed towards you in conversation, it is only a matter of time before he uses it to treat you like an idiot.

Sense of humor is mandatory and sarcasm can be fun, just not when used as a weapon against your mate when she’s trying to share her accomplishments with you: someone she considers important. You will be dismantled.

Very glad to read in other comments that you left his ass, OP.

desertraton · 2020-01-11T18:53:11+00:00

Wow! I take so much pride in my grades as well. This is heartbreaking to see. But a man who also values their education will celebrate with you. Amazing job btw! Like someone else said he seems jealous.

TheDeadlyBeauty · 2020-01-11T19:07:08+00:00

Citadel

Military marriage?

teeteereads · 2020-01-11T20:56:06+00:00

Congratulations on those grades! You worked hard, made highest grades! incredible!

2020-01-12T00:06:52+00:00

Jesus fuck, hope she dumped him right after this. You are so fucking smart! Damn.

2020-01-12T01:11:52+00:00

I did! Thanks!

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-12T01:45:41+00:00

Hateful jealous loser.

ThatsWhat__I__Said · 2020-01-12T03:09:03+00:00

Christ he reeks of insecurity.

2020-01-12T05:57:05+00:00

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heartbreakandseance · 2020-01-12T07:11:50+00:00

I got 99 problems but a frog ain't one.

Connecticut06482 · 2020-01-11T19:14:59+00:00

Omg horribleeeeeeeeeeeee

bubblegina359 · 2020-01-11T17:20:09+00:00

Hold on. Is David asian? lmao

Title	Don't marry someone who isn't proud of your accomplishments.
Author	Mac_n_Cheese_Bucket
Upvotes	232
Comments	53
Date	January 11, 2020 11:09 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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