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FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨

December 27, 2020
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Title FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨
Author MysteriousLife7
Upvotes 2533
Comments 84
Date December 27, 2020 12:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie413 points414 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I didn't text the man who broke up with me 2 months ago. Going strong with no contact.

[–][deleted] 164 points165 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I didn't do that either! let's celebrate!

[–]stronger_smarter_FDS Newbie80 points81 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes! Same <3 Moving on and not looking back.

[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Woohoo!

[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yay!

[–]palczoFDS Newbie101 points102 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Didn't text mine back either! Although it made me laugh that after years of complaining about this time of the year (e.g. His Majesty didn't like to give neither receive gifts), he suddenly is 'into' anything Christmas-related and was thoughtful enough to send me greetings at 7:22AM (dad had a theory that he texted me so early in the morning hoping we'd invite him for the Christmas dinner, lol) 🙄

[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice40 points41 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hahaha! In French we say « l’espoir fait vivre » for people who are truly delusional.

[–]PasdepromessesFDS Disciple4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We have that same saying in Dutch!

[–]academinxFDS Newbie22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m at 6 weeks post-breakup and I’ve been no contact as well! Way to go ladies!

[–][deleted] 235 points236 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Hahah I’m like “what ex” 💅🏼 blocked and forgotten

[–]misty-museFDS Newbie55 points56 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Channeling this energy!🤩

[–]Serendipiaa129 points30 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Girl! How do you do it?! Please share your insight!

[–]muludnepgnicnadFDS Newbie54 points55 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I changed my number. Huge weight off my shoulders. You need to rededicate to your own self!

[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Change your mindset to one of abundance and not scarcity :)

[–]4E4MEFDS Apprentice5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes! I'm all about abundance now!

[–]Summerisle7FDS Disciple22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

LOVE this! He’s not “my” ex. He is not “my” ANYTHING

[–]MysteriousLife7FDS Newbie[S] 98 points99 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Keep up the streak past New Year’s Eve as well and turn it into a no-go in 2021 ladies! Stay strong and don’t compromise 💅

[–]FirePreferredFDS Apprentice6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yasss!!

[–]college3709FDS Newbie90 points91 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Finally blocked my ex on Christmas as a gift to myself lol

[–]astromucThrowaway Account13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol 🤣

[–]CrazyPaineFDS Newbie177 points178 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Thank goodness. I almost gave into the temptation but I remember why I left him.

[–]MysteriousLife7FDS Newbie[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes so much yes. If it worked well ones wouldn’t have broken up!

[–]astromucThrowaway Account10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha! I was about to write so. Same here.

[–][deleted] 148 points149 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I halfway regret texting it back to my ex MIL, who helped my ex husband after he cheated and hit. She still tried to get me to stay with him, and has accepted his affair partner - turned wife.

It's a shame how long it takes modern women to reprogram ourselves not to absolutely sabotage our own lives.

[–]SexypinkfluffballFDS Newbie73 points74 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This truly. Along with the happy birthdays, happy New Years, and when they reach out during these times, DO NOT GIVE IN AND ENTERTAIN THEIR LOW EFFORTS OF TRYING TO WORM THEIR WAY BACK INTO YOUR LIFE.

[–]ChocolateBiscuit96FDS Newbie87 points88 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Nor did I text him happy birthday 🤢

[–]S_plineFDS Newbie81 points82 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

My ex texted me a happy birthday a week ago. Ignored both that and the Christmas message... I felt a little rude for a second then I saw this post haha

[–]riricideFDS Apprentice79 points80 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They would rather send meaningless wishes than take any accountability for past or future actions. Remembering this helps me remember that the message might as well be gibberish because their words don't hold any meaning.

[–]palczoFDS Newbie11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sad, but true.

[–]GettingOffTheCrazyFDS Newbie41 points42 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I texted my ex husband unfortunately. He wrote back you too with the thumbs up emoji.

"crawls under the Christmas tree"

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Eww, thumbs up? That’s kinda, I dunno, dismissive? Cold? Anyway, it’s a hard time for a lot of people. Loneliness can get the better of us plus nostalgia. Go easy on yourself! ❤️

[–]Blackrose_FDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So you were even braver and cooler by not responding to a thumbs up emoji. Celebrate small wins!

[–]LiquidxDreamsFDS Newbie108 points109 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Definitely didn't but he sure texted me! 😂

[–]MysteriousLife7FDS Newbie[S] 57 points58 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Resist resist resist the urge to respond!!! 😂

[–]LiquidxDreamsFDS Newbie65 points66 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh I'm good, I laughed and left him on read just like I always do. That relationship was over for me long before I actually left. Thanks though boo!

[–]Cafrann9416 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao same girl 😂 boy bye

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH23 points24 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Same, he texted Merry Christmas then texted again in the middle of the night wanting to talk. I was sleeping, which is good because I may have called him just to see if he was ok.

[–]Summerisle7FDS Disciple44 points45 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Pro tip, they are ALWAYS ok. And if he’s not...... not your job to worry about it.

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just posted something similar before reading this. Had an ex always threatening suicide but he never did it. All my exes are forever alone, no joke. I attract or am attracted to these types. They can’t let go of me cause I was the only woman who showed them love maybe in decades. My boyfriend now deserves it, he treats me so damn well. But the others, we had fun but they were never relationship types and I didn’t see that and wasted a lot of my time. Lots of guys have problems getting truly close to women. They don’t even see they’re pushing them away on purpose. Then after I’m gone, they remember our good times and to them that’s love. No. Love is far deeper than that. When you really love someone you will move mountains to be with them. That’s it.

[–]Claire-ZachanassianThrowaway Account9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

^ this

[–]LuciannaVampFDS Newbie7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Best advice!

[–]fdsonlynoscrubsFDS Newbie32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not one text to an ex was sent since this pandemic started!! One DM received and ignored. Just have to brag about this here because it’s not like I can send an announcement about it, but I want to!!!!

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

there's always a bright side !

[–]Mayonegg420FDS Newbie28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He didn’t wish me happy birthday in November so he easily cemented to never hear from me again. My new man did come over and bring me homemade treats and kisses just because. We love a man with secure attachment!! 🥰

[–]umbralgardenFDS Newbie73 points74 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was having so much fun with my new man this thought totally slipped my mind. No texts from any exes either. Blessed.

[–]Mayonegg420FDS Newbie13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Period!

[–]SlumberAddictFDS Newbie24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol! I considered it, but then asked myself “WHY?! Why open up that line of communication? He’s an ex for a reason. Step the fuck on.”

[–]stg21987FDS Newbie21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m so glad I didn’t give in to texting my ex Merry Christmas! Stay strong!

[–]Angrboda229FDS Newbie20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not an ex but the guy who tried to start an fwb with me (while his gf was living in the same house bc we're college students, who he claims they were on a break at the time) texted me Merry Christmas and I haven't responded 😂. They moved out in October and I have not heard from either until then. I'm not a holiday texter. Text me all year round or you're blocked.

[–]Solid-LiquidFDS Newbie19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Surprisingly, I didn’t get a thanksgiving or Christmas text. Got one last year when we freshly broke up...must have moved on to some other poor girl 😂😂

[–]lavender_icicleFDS Newbie18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My abusive ex wrote my parents Merry Christmas even after wanting me to stay out of his life lol. A true LVM

[–]dkarmFDS Newbie18 points19 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

2021 is the year I get =/> energy.

[–]PearlEarringGirlFDS Newbie8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don’t get it, could you explain ? Hehe

[–]dkarmFDS Newbie5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

2021 is the year I get equal or more effort than I’m putting out.

[–]mitzislippersFDS Newbie18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

WHO??? idk them 💅🏽

[–]KarenWalkrTXRanger17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I literally almost did! even thought about sending him a card and instead I deleted his number, huzzah 🥳

[–]BreesashaFDS Newbie15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Usually I get one from an ex but this year I was spared!

[–]crypytotoadsFDS Newbie31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I texted people I haven't spoken to in 6+ months but not any of those.

[–]academinxFDS Newbie14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought about him on Christmas, but texting him never even crossed my mind lol. It’s been almost 6 weeks since the breakup and I haven’t texted him, or even thought about it tbh.

[–]mtotheizzo25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

None of my ex’s even have my #. Ladies start changing your phone number more frequently and don’t be accessible for people from decades past

[–]frogchickenhorseFDS Newbie11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It didn’t even occur to me 🤷 to text anyone

[–]marasloveFDS Newbie10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lolololol bitch been happily blockedT for a year now.

[–]Alternative_Basil990FDS Newbie7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

6 months no contact this month with my NVM ex and i’ve never felt more connected to myself, my purpose and where i’m going. i’m finally giving myself the respect, care and attention i deserve instead of giving it to someone else who doesn’t deserve it. i am so motivated to reach my personal and life goals and i’m wishing all you queens the same!

[–]alienflowercatzFDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

hi five.

[–]Claire-ZachanassianThrowaway Account7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I was thinking about it a couple of times these days, but I didn’t do it because fuck this and fuck him. Yay us ladies!

[–]kcookie94FDS Newbie7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If I hadn’t found this sub I definitely would have! Thanks for lifting me up and showing me what I’m worth! 💜

[–]Rasaya87FDS Newbie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even think of texting my exes dumb ass 😹👍 It's been nearly 6 months.

[–]Maude2010FDS Newbie4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ve gotten so many random texts in the past few days. I don’t even know who some of them are from. The only people saved in my phone are my family, friends and doctor. Why do men hang on to women’s numbers for years? It’s so weird. They’re all blocked now but damn, I didn’t know I needed to block these random people.

[–]matte_personalityFDS Newbie4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m not gonna lie. I was toying with the idea a bit but then I kept busy and kept moving. Figured it was just holiday blues and it’s much better to spend Christmas with my best friend and her family than having to decide whether I want to fight or not because he canceled last minute to “study for his exams”.

I’m not stupid. I knew he had to have known about those exams at least two weeks before and could have studied any time during that period but he left it to the night before to get out of having to put effort in. Not to mention he didn’t get me anything either 💀

[–]LuciannaVampFDS Newbie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahh but did your ex text you Merry Christmas? 🤔😂

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I did, but in my defense, my ex and I developed an amicable relationship for the sake of our daughter. He's engaged to someone else, I'm enjoying being single, and I'm probably not even interested in men, so I didn't think it was much of a risk.

[–]snowvemberFDS Apprentice2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Broke up about 6 weeks ago and every time I feel like texting, I just put all that energy into journalling and it has helped. Stay strong ladies!!

[–]PasdepromessesFDS Disciple2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Blocked all my ex’s numbers, Facebook, Insta and shadow/second accounts, so I wouldn’t even know if they texted. They sure tried before tho. New phone, who dis?

[–]PhilosophyCharming77FDS Newbie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We didn’t even think about them

[–]PM_ME_UR_PUPPY_PICS_FDS Newbie6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jokes on u I’ve never been in a relationship

[–]ginnnnieFDS Newbie4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hellll no I didn’t but I bet he wanted to text me 😎😌 thank you FDS

[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

hahahahaha! of course I didn't!

but what does that say about the exes who messaged from another number and texted Merry Christmas towards the end of the year? I mean... does that qualify as dumbness?

of course, I didn't reply. what does one say 5 days after Christmas anyway? " It was a merry one?"

[–]Thejasminedragon1215FDS Newbie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My birthday gift to myself is to completely FORGET about him/it and everything associated with him/it. No talking about it, no thinking about it, no writing about it. IT NEVER HAPPENED :) IT DOESNT EXIST.

[–]quirkypinkllamaFDS Newbie-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I texted mine and got me a lil lovin. 😅🤣

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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