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[–]n3rdgir7FDS Newbie93 points94 points95 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I heard such terrible things about FDS from everywhere else on Reddit. I'm really glad I checked it out for myself instead of being a lemming. This place is an oasis away from toxic men and we need more spaces like this in the world ❤️
[–]nonchalance77FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Even in subreddits like the purple pill, they say it a neutral space, but all men do over there is seek to verbally overpower women with their unfounded claims about how put upon they are. They mansplain constantly. No where is safe from them, they can help themselves.
[–]RabidWenchFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is no surprise: any place named "debate" is just begging for dudes without sources to out-yell women. I'm not sure how they conned anyone into thinking it was for legitimate conversation or good faith arguments.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
<3 <3
[–]Hateorade_FDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Y’all are my safe space, I’m so glad I found this amazing group ❤️❤️
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
<3<3
[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Likewise :D ❤️❤️❤️
[–]ApfelEsserinFDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
FDS has been like coming out of the cave and seeing feminism in all its 3D technicolor glory. What I saw before was merely its shadow playing on the wall. 💖
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
<3
[–]Mella_20FDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am eternally grateful for this amazing wonderful subreddit. I came here because I heard something about it being "toxic", and all I found was perspective that changed my life for the better and gave me the strength I need. I have never felt more empowered, and I am so glad I found this at my young age. I feel like I have gained thousands of older sisters who I can look to for guidance.
Love this subreddit and everyone who is a part of it ❤❤❤❤
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too
[–]soundslikeautumnFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I completely agree! I've seen more genuinely loving, caring, helpful, hilarious, honest, strong, encouraging, empowering and truly supportive posts and comments on this sub than anywhere else on Reddit. The women on here care about each other and are constantly lifting each other up. A beautiful sub!💖
[–]CatusCactusFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I found this subreddit because someone said it was toxic. I checked out FDS, found out it was everything I secretly believed but had nowhere to express, and I never looked back.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same me too
[–]Summerisle7FDS Disciple69 points70 points71 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I see women posting in other parts of Reddit, dutifully kowtowing to males, being so careful with their words and still getting insulted and mansplained to. I feel so bad for them and wish they’d come here.
That happened to me too.
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is how I feel when I read our comment section versus just about every other sub. Even a sub with cute cat pictures devolves into perverted abusive trash with these men on here.
Oh man that's so true it's always perverted somehow.
[–]TheSuspiciousChardFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yupppp other subs it’s like yOurE inSeCuRe aLL mEn wAtcH pOrn
Swat them like flies. Ignorant shits lmao 😂
[–]millennialpink2000FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can practically hear the angels singing in FDS utopia
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
^_^
[–]relationship_redditFDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm so glad I found FDS. It has been so helpful during my breakup.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too ^_^
[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Here’s a great example: yesterday I replied to someone with an innocuous French correction on here, just for conversation? Because I’m French? Because I like it when people tell me I’m using an idiom wrong?
Anyway I’ve posted stuff like that before on other parts of Reddit and most of the time I get ignored or downvoted. Here I actually got upvotes. The ladies in here are communicating and exchanging about all sorts of things with a sense of profound shared empathy. It’s a very nice feeling.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah u corrected me haha. But yeah it's definitely a safe space here.
[–]glacieszFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
haha seriously, how are the mods here so efficient? i’ve never seen a single man on here. not even for a few minutes.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They're like ninjas, nothing slips by.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unicorn Paradise Vs. Toxic Wasteland.
[–]VillanellohFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
An oasis of the Internet <3
♥️
[–]verusckaFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If the banhammer ever falls on FDS I’m deleting my account and never looking back, there’s literally nothing else that’s worthwhile or valuable in the same way FDS is.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100%
[–]Lunarfalcon025FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel so safe and heard here. I’ve never met anyone else (aside from my parents, thankfully) who loathes pornography and the normalization of violent sex as much as I do. I always thought it was about intimacy, not dominance and competition. Good to know I was right. And I appreciate greatly how much you amazing ladies call men out on their bullshit. I’m just a teenager, but I love your guys’ wisdom. It’s so reassuring. <3
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😊♥️💪
[–]moon-drag0nFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would say the rest of it is more like Mordor; full of goddamn orcs, uruk-hai, trolls and goblins fighting amongst each other
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ahaha next time I'll do a LOTR version
[–]moon-drag0nFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you did a good job though. I never really thought of it like that. All the women centred forums are pleasant places to be. Meanwhile the other male dominated ones are volatile.
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[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's true there are some nice subreddits. And they're usually mostly populated by women or they're usually about something women tend to be interested in like knitting and gardening.
No need to be so black and white based on a cute picture someone made.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're right, there are some lovely subs out there, but I meant the other dating subs can be a little toxic. Anyway yeah let's stay positive.
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♥️♥️💪
[–]nonchalance77FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ain’t that the truth
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👍
[–]LevelingUpQueen_FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m so glad I’ve found this place. Finally somewhere I can express what I truly believe after so much pain, I thought everyone else was seeing life differently than me. How could you normalize being used, disrespected and treated like shit? FDS is life changing. I love all the women here and the discussions we have, you are so amazing.
[–]Angeli_33FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
♥️💪
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