It's hard to catch yourself but you have to be aware.

I used to think it was a green flag when a man posted lots of pictures of me on social media or flaunted me in front of his friends. IT'S NOT. Not necessarily. It feels good because it's validation. Because we've been pushed to believe that our highest aspiration in life is to be pretty for men. So when a man appreciates our beauty PUBLICY we enjoy the feeling. But remember: He can adore you and admire your beauty in private, in an intimate way, in a classy way. THAT is fine. But parading you around for his friends, bragging about how hot you are, posting only the hottest pics of you is about ego and objectification. He should be proud of being with you without making it all about your looks. It's a green flag if he'd posting about the actual YOU, not just your face or body.