I’ve always been a marriage minded person. For years now I thought I’d meet someone and remarry eventually.These days, I’m starting to question that, but I’m also having trouble imagining what NOT getting married or living together looks like.
For reference I’m over 40. I have all the children I want. My children still at home are girls, which 100% factors into my thought process on this. I know so many adult women who were abused by stepdads.
I would really appreciate perspective on this from people who are doing this or plan to do this when they find someone.
The handbook doesn’t address the idea of this for those of us who are middle aged, with all the kids we want. Research seems to indicate marriage isn’t a great prospect once you already have kids and a career.
To be clear the LIVE OUT is important. I refuse to live with men unless we are married.
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