Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.

divination__ · 2021-01-08T12:11:16+00:00

that sounds abusive to me... any man who gets angry at you for spending your own money on yourself feels more entitled to happiness than you are. she is posting this because on some level she understands this is deeply wrong and is looking for confirmation of that and a sign to leave him. i hope she does and he gets fuck all for his birthday.

HoneyBouquet · 2021-01-08T13:12:45+00:00

Not only is this lady stunning but why is she taking flack from some broke dusty ass???

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UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-01-08T12:07:21+00:00

"36?! But last years I got 37!“ Dudley Vernon from Harry Potter

TheSuspiciousChard · 2021-01-08T12:12:23+00:00

There’s nothing about how much he spent on her. I bet he got a play station “for them” that stays in his house

daisy_0720 · 2021-01-08T16:08:56+00:00

Girl, if you're gonna look that much like Daenerys Targaryen, you'd better be roasting LVM with dragon fire.

Pasdepromesses · 2021-01-08T12:15:41+00:00

Why is she even spending these amounts on a boyfriend? And why are they even talking about it?

If my boyfriends had a birthday, I would decorate the house, bake a cake and their favorite dinner and if they were lucky I also had some gifts. The gifts were always something I picked out for them myself and they meant something. Never more than 100 euros. He never knew what was coming and he'd better be grateful for it.

Who are these entitled boys who see birthdays and holidays as occasions to golddig from their SO's? It's a birthday, not an excuse to get shit that you desperately want but are to dusty for to buy yourself.

She looks beautiful and she's very generous imo. She can do so much better.

Edit: I bought a HVM I dated a book and his favorite high end bonbons for his birthday. It was a very specific book about a style of architecture, because he just bought a house like that and was renovating. We didn't work out because of life goals, but he recently brought it up again, because he thought it was so thoughtful of me. HVM value gifts the way they're meant to be and this tool in the TikTok gets upset about 200 dollars. I just can't.

thruawoo90210 · 2021-01-08T12:00:16+00:00

It's her right to spend her own money on herself wtf. This guy is an asshat!

Xlunas · 2021-01-08T13:33:08+00:00

Men choose women who spend money on their looks, then shame them for doing it.

_Twixes_ · 2021-01-08T14:18:05+00:00

Wow a Man upset that his girlfriend isn’t spending more money on him??? We’ve really descended into the dark ages part 2.

burpleseaurchin · 2021-01-08T12:09:29+00:00

Wait... Who are the golddiggers again? 😒 Smfh.

GlamorKiss · 2021-01-08T12:33:57+00:00

She needs to dump him and side note she seems GORGEOUS and sweet

Lord all the tiktok pretty girls slay with their charisma and looks

TheDaughterOfFlynn · 2021-01-08T13:19:34+00:00

Wanna bet how much HE spent on HER birthday/Christmas?? 🙄

maraslove · 2021-01-08T16:45:52+00:00

This is sad to see. She is such a stunner. My money is my fucking money and it will NEVER be yours. She knows what she needs to do.... she just hasn’t done it yet.

eaucitron · 2021-01-08T14:50:25+00:00

Girl looks like this and spends any money on a dude? Nah hahaha no.

AyemHerself · 2021-01-08T17:59:08+00:00

Men are gold diggers.

slythergin23 · 2021-01-08T14:02:26+00:00

oh god, i just want to give her a big hug. that poor woman, seriously. we should go on a rescue mission and get her the hell out of there.

autumnxo92 · 2021-01-08T15:58:59+00:00

Bets on him not looking half as good as she does?

And I guarantee it she stopped getting her hair done he'd be hounding her about 'letting herself go'.

DUMP HIM YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER

NurseBubbleGum · 2021-01-08T17:43:04+00:00

And she can buy a lot more for herself when he's gone...boy bye 👋

esthermaniii · 2021-01-08T13:36:44+00:00

She’s so pretty and can get a better man in a heartbeat

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2021-01-08T14:54:28+00:00

Financial abuse.

localgirlcult · 2021-01-08T17:30:13+00:00

I ain't saying he's a golddigger, but...jk that's exactly what I'm saying.

cat_lio · 2021-01-08T14:51:53+00:00

How is he not embarrassed? Ugh.

favoritesound · 2021-01-08T15:52:14+00:00

Well...she IS in the wrong for not immediately leaving him after that. Fuck the entitlement of that guy.

CompetitionMedical70 · 2021-01-08T19:36:51+00:00

I’ve seen women my age, (early twenties) spending hundreds of dollars on gifts for their boyfriends of like 6 months, and 1st HOW tf do they have this much money to blow at such a young age?? And eww why are you spending that much money on a man you’re not even married to?

JaeJRZ · 2021-01-08T14:25:02+00:00

Oh lawd!! Someone please save this girl

Nessigrrrl · 2021-01-09T00:13:28+00:00

Why do beautiful women like her end up with scummy bfs. I want to date her and I'm not even lesbian. It's just so sad how much heartache and energy we waste on stupid, ugly and abusive men.

ms_monquis · 2021-01-08T17:18:52+00:00

"I don't even make that much money."

Irrelevant. Completely, entirely irrelevant. He's her boyfriend, not her child, not even her husband — she owes him none of her income (and he owes her none of his).

balladwilds · 2021-01-08T15:47:35+00:00

shes so sweet and pretty she deserves so so much better

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-01-08T18:36:07+00:00

Yo.....this boyfriend is not masculine at all if he expects her to spend large amounts of money on him like that. He should be happy about the thoughtfulness put into it and not the dollar amount.

I have a pretty good salary but spent less than 50 dollars on my boyfriend for Christmas. They are unique gifts that I put a lot of thought into and relate to conversations we have had and dates we went on. I'm dating him to get to know him and establish a deeper relationship, not be his sugarmama.

staywiththecrown · 2021-01-08T22:09:51+00:00

Bruh, this guy is unreasonable as fuck. I have to budget every year for Christmas and for the multiple birthdays that are in February in my family, so I know the struggle. I'm sure he hasn't even spent 1/30 of that amount on her and always "forgets" her birthday.

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-01-09T05:05:52+00:00

GIRL YOU'RE TOO PRETTY FOR THIS SH*T, SPEND THAT MONEY ON YOURSELF

onceuponasea · 2021-01-08T15:23:21+00:00

I hope she dumps his ass soon

discochicken87 · 2021-01-09T10:57:36+00:00

Ugh. Men. I bought my husband a coffee machine, he didn't even say aww thanks. Guess what I got for Christmas? After draining my tax return savings to buy for our kids, his family and mine, begging him to chip in, (he makes 6 times my wage), he didn't give me a damn thing and you know honestly I'd have been thrilled with a fucking candle. Or even just a display of happiness to receive his friggin coffee machine.

MiaNaim · 2021-01-08T15:57:05+00:00

The audacity...the entitlement...I can't.

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oscine23 · 2021-01-09T08:50:28+00:00

Poor thing. And she probably doesn't even realize she's too beautiful for him.

SN: I dated a stupid narc who was also kind of a hotep (b4 I knew what hotep was) who didn't believe in celebrating birthdays because 'tImE Is a CoNsTrUCT' (jackass). So, I respected his position and didn't buy his ass anything but a cake. This fool had the nerve to be salty! Told me my presentation of the cake could have been better. Like, he literally wanted fanfare along with the cake. 🤣 IYDGTFOMYWTB

Title	Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.
Author	eveningceremonyhshs
Upvotes	439
Comments	53
Date	January 8, 2021 11:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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