I just finished watching “The Good Place” and it really got me thinking.

The whole point of the show is about how to be a good person.

And the conclusion is that you do it by just working at it every day. As best you can. In small ways and big ones.

And I decided that I want my partner to be someone who, like me, tries to be a little bit better every day. I want him to care deeply about making the world better in the ways he can.

I have been separated from LVX for about a month now. It’s the first time I have been able to express what I mean by being kind.

My LVX just wasn’t kind. At all. To anyone, including himself. I feel bad for him but it is not my problem.

I feel like if I get that in a person, it will make a lot of other things more likely to be true too.