I have a friend who's literally drop dead gorgeous and she knows it. She tells me stories all the time about how every guy who meets her tries to get with her or get her number and date her and that it's a little hard for her to stay friends with girls because girls always feel like she's going to take their boyfriend. I saw it first hand when I introduced her to my guy friend and he immediately starts chasing her and they're together now. Every time we go out and there are guys around, they always ask for her number or try to ask the other guys there if she's single and if they can set them up with her. I'm always ignored but it's fine cause I don't care about those guys.
Obviously its a little different when it's a guy you like/are seeing... We're meeting up with her and her boyfriend for the first time this weekend and I cannot drop this fear from my head that he's going to see her and feel like he's missing out and settling for me. She's every guy's dream girl and has giant boobs and I'm below average looking and flat chested.
The guy I'm seeing has been the one to chase me and payed for everything and introduced me to his friends and not been shy about talking about introducing me to his parents, and I know he's only done that with very few of the girls he's dated. It's too early to say HVM but so far he has treated me pretty respectfully and showed a lot of interest in me and only me. I know this insecurity has more to do with myself than either him or my friend, but it's really making me upset to imagine him seeing her and deciding I'm not good enough.
How can I navigate these emotions?
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