I thought the same and the way she summarized the comments she received from men, generally sums up Reddit. There’s no point in seeking advice on Reddit outside of FDS. It’s basically all garbage.
There really should be an FDS_advice subreddit. This could be a good space for all the newbies and generally confused women like the one in the OP. The only people allowed to give advice would be high ranking members of FDS main subreddit, like disciples, strategists, and mods for example.
LOL LVM's chorus of outcry about 'privacy' is nothing but a desperate cover up to deter women from finding out their nefarious antics.....why else would they be SO concerned if they had nothing to worry about?
At the rate men lie and cheat- you want me to ignore their phones when I get a chance to snoop? HAHA yeah right bucko
This is why I’m marrying up. If my husband ever does this to me I’m taking him for all he’s worth and yes this will be explicitly stated in a pre-nup or else I won’t get married.
Cheating clause and children clause.
For every child I have of his = $100,000 For cheating? Half of your retirement accounts & $500,000
Seems as if most men are controlled by their desires. I’m controlled by my best interest 🤷🏽♀️
WhatsApp is the principal messaging platform for much of the rest of the world outside the US (preferred over texting). You can make your own standards, but there are very legit reasons for using it (family overseas for instance).
I saw this post and read it but something felt off about it, sounds fake like a LVM fantasy or something. Why would any women even post this shit asking for advice.
I agree it's weirdly detailed like a story. She could have just said "My husband and I both teach at a university and I found out he bought nudes from an online sex worker who is one of our students".
I agree. I think the details of this sound a bit like LVM fantasy too. There is too much tension and the story is long with excessive details, even details that could be identifying for both parties.
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I thought the same and the way she summarized the comments she received from men, generally sums up Reddit. There’s no point in seeking advice on Reddit outside of FDS. It’s basically all garbage.
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There really should be an FDS_advice subreddit. This could be a good space for all the newbies and generally confused women like the one in the OP. The only people allowed to give advice would be high ranking members of FDS main subreddit, like disciples, strategists, and mods for example.
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LOL LVM's chorus of outcry about 'privacy' is nothing but a desperate cover up to deter women from finding out their nefarious antics.....why else would they be SO concerned if they had nothing to worry about?
At the rate men lie and cheat- you want me to ignore their phones when I get a chance to snoop? HAHA yeah right bucko
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This is why I’m marrying up. If my husband ever does this to me I’m taking him for all he’s worth and yes this will be explicitly stated in a pre-nup or else I won’t get married.
Cheating clause and children clause.
For every child I have of his = $100,000 For cheating? Half of your retirement accounts & $500,000
Seems as if most men are controlled by their desires. I’m controlled by my best interest 🤷🏽♀️
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What did I tell ya!!! It pays to snoop when the opportunities arise. Never trust their lip service. Liars always lurk in private
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I automatically distrust men who use SnapChat and WhatsApp. 🤷🏻♀️ Even excessive IG use gets a thorough side eye and deep-dig for red flags.
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WhatsApp is the principal messaging platform for much of the rest of the world outside the US (preferred over texting). You can make your own standards, but there are very legit reasons for using it (family overseas for instance).
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This shit had me SHOOK. Like I don't even know how I would respond.
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I saw this post and read it but something felt off about it, sounds fake like a LVM fantasy or something. Why would any women even post this shit asking for advice.
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I agree it's weirdly detailed like a story. She could have just said "My husband and I both teach at a university and I found out he bought nudes from an online sex worker who is one of our students".
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I agree. I think the details of this sound a bit like LVM fantasy too. There is too much tension and the story is long with excessive details, even details that could be identifying for both parties.
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