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I said what I said. Stay mad.

April 14, 2021
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[–]amhran_oicheFDS Newbie 633 points634 points  (3 children) | Copy Link


[–]fdsThrowaway2021FDS Newbie 272 points273 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And today they except us to pay for that nasty soup, too. Barf

[–]skyerippaFDS Apprentice 156 points157 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

eThIcAlLy PoLyAmOurS

[–]PirateFairyPants8FDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I swear if I hear 'ethical non-monogamy' one more time I'm gonna spew on myself.

[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie 496 points497 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Polyscamory is just the patriarchy rebranding itself.

[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie 262 points263 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Men will always think of new ways to justify being violent. DO NOT NORMALIZE MALE VIOLENCE!

[–]Chaotic-platypusPickmeisha™️ 135 points136 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oof it's been normalized, it's time we pathologize it.

[–]darling89FDS Newbie 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or any type of abuse.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 269 points270 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Liberal feminists:

- "Sister wives in the mormon communities?" : OPRESSED!

- Polyamorous (specially if suggested by the scrote not knowing yet he'll go through a vagina draught while their girlfriend gets dick right and left and will get mad in the end) : emPowErInG for women!

[–]HumanFondantFDS Newbie 74 points75 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

8/10 the men get mad and want to end the arrangement or have the girl dump her main partner and I’m like WHY, you suggested it/you knew you wouldn’t be her #1. Unless you’re super hot women won’t flock to you but men will flock to the woman.

Mind boggling

[–]totallythrowawayyy 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Man wants harem. Man thinks woman having other partners is slutty due to internalized hatred of women. Suddenly polyamory doesn’t seem so fun to him anymore.

[–]missisabelarcherFDS Apprentice 57 points58 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

But it's MY CHOICE!! 🤣

[–]FeelLikeRollinDiceFDS Newbie 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The main reason I would hear when I would challenge the notion of polyamorous being empowering while polygamist/sisterwives lifestyle is not was that women can take on additional partners in polyamory whereas that is prohibited in polyamory.

That never made sense because in most heterosexual polyamory relationships are a man with 2 women. We need a cultural movement to discourage women from gaslighting themselves.

[–]Nice_Pass2393FDS Newbie 33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey they can fuck all the hoes they want but don't look at me when your rent is due

[–]Khentiamentiu42FDS Newbie 361 points362 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Scrote: I'm Polyamourous *translation * ' I'm a narcissist with an attachment disorder who likes triangulating people'

[–]AcademicMobile1FDS Newbie 101 points102 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I see you met my ex!

[–]Khentiamentiu42FDS Newbie 58 points59 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oddly enough this was me describing my ex too 😂

[–]dogs4ever3546 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same 😂

[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie 19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh you must be dating my ex.

[–]Only_Lime2520FDS Newbie 349 points350 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Excuse me while I go n barf. pOlYaMorY. Such audacity. They can't even please one woman what makes they think they're entitled to more???

[–]wordy_friesFDS Newbie 166 points167 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They can't even find 1 clit, and they expect to get more than they can do 👀

[–]smaller_angFDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe they're trying to surround themselves by so many that ultimately they are able to find one completely by chance?

[–]Only_Lime2520FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Find what? Men would fuck a wall 😕they dont get to “find the one” Just saying.

[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha I think something like that will be my stock response.

"oh goody for you scrote, being able to disappoint multiple women"

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 215 points216 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

The fact that a man is abusing us in bed while having orgasms or jerking off to it, doesn't make it not abuse. Why isn't abusing women in a context of sex or porn not considered as criminal as doing it outside of the bedroom?

[–]EverybodyLuvsANympho 36 points37 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Also, is it just me or does it seem to be a huge trend looking for bdsm??? I never recall it being this bad in the past. I blame that stupid book/movie 50 shade of grey!

[–]womandatory 27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Except that none of them are multimillionaires, just creepy, ugly men in stained underwear who still live in their mom’s basement. That book set women back decades.

[–]Cookie_DuchessPickmeisha™️ 19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I blame porn! BDSM used to be a small subsect of "kinky" 🤢 people. Now porn has normalized EVERYTHING. So sick.

[–]Moira_SpiceFDS STRATEGY COACH 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It def has increased in popularity!

[–]doublerainbow11Throwaway Account 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Because apparently it’s ok as long as dick is involved. IT’S NOT ABUSE!”, said scrotes.

[–]KristeninmyskinFDS Apprentice 216 points217 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

For most of history men were encouraged & sanctioned ..... to use violence against women.

Does everyone know the origins of the phrase ‘rule of thumb’?

It was legal for a man to beat his wife so long as the stick was no wider than his thumb.

[–]MonkeBusiness5 49 points50 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Incredible, I thought this rule only existed in my country. It went like "You can beat your wife as long as the stick won't break and she won't bleed" 🙄

[–]doc-2-beFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is that an existing rule? :/

[–]Honestly_th0FDS Newbie 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yikes 😳

[–]doc-2-beFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

😳 I never knew! we use that phrase quite a lot in my line of work and just 🤢 I don't think I'll ever use it again

[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 141 points142 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The entire Greek pantheon of Gods

Did you know back then, all the raping and cheating WASN'T meant to be polarizing? That was literally how the men were ENCOURAGED to behave.

And people wonder why so many men use religion to justify treating women like garbage.

They've been using that tactic to justify hating women for EONS.

[–]redwineandsolitudeFDS Newbie 23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Okay, but why hasn’t this been said so concisely before. I feel like we’ve been bamboozled.

[–]flufferbutter332 71 points72 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love when I’m shamed by BDSM men and women because I’m vanilla. I don’t like being abused in the name of pleasure. So what?

[–]missyou2017FDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not having mental and physical trauma from being abused for someone's pleasure is sooo broing.

[–]alife404FDS Newbie 68 points69 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I just think these men are boring. They can say that they're so ✨✨kInKy✨✨ for liking threesomes and BDSM, but really it's the same ol' "jackhammering my 5.4 inch monster cock in and out for a minute till I coom, but I'm choking you during" Just admit you have shitty lame sex and no amount of hitting and leather is going to spice it up. Because always it's the submissive, masochist girl, and the "dominant" loser who wants to play Alpha.

[–]fistfulloftoscaFDS Disciple 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Every "kinky" guy ive slept with was awful in bed

[–]doublerainbow11Throwaway Account 20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Lurked into another subreddit and they’re angry with this post. Lol I love seeing those people get ballistic with us. It just made my day 😂

[–]Lavender_flowFDS STRATEGY COACH[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

hahaha I have gotten PM's, but I have it turned off. I don't care, the scrotes can stay mad 😂 I feast on their low value tears.

[–]Lavender_flowFDS STRATEGY COACH[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Also "Mad we are not mad!" - scrotes continue to post about it and comment it. Yes dude, nothing says "not mad" as obsessively typing about it 🤣🤣🤣

[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 61 points62 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have always thought the same thing. Since when has men not had more than one women when having opportunity and beating ,raping ect us? Giving women oral is real kink for men.

[–]CroneRaisedMaidenFDS Newbie 61 points62 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely all bdsm I’ve seen has been women subs, hmmm I wonder why it’s almost as if women are the target imagine that...just look at that disgusting sexually broken sub, it’s all women. 85% of men are disgusting sex pests and I made that statistic up so it covers “not all men” or whatever lol

[–]mitskiismygfFDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

like literally lol. why aren’t there more male subs?? like TRUE subs, not men with a femdom kink who still expect to be in control of the whole situation (99% of them). oh yeah, it’s because bdsm is just a socially acceptable way for men to take out their frustrations on women like they’ve done for millennia, and women are either A) brainwashed or B) traumatized into going along with it.

[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Sex pests” is a 100% accurate description

[–]Lazy-Design1979FDS Newbie 145 points146 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. Any man that's into stuff like this (threesomes included, even one time) gets an automatic dump and block from me, no questions asked.

[–]Ok_Meringue9724FDS Newbie 281 points282 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Any man who likes BDSM is a sexist and an asshole, trust me. I would hang around in groups of people like this and even though I never engaged in it myself (even in my pickme days I was self aware), I talked to a lot of couples who did. Most of the guys were old, and I mean OLD. like 35, 45 and with a girl who was 19, 26. And yes, those ages are specific because i saw couples like that 🤮 the guys were egotistical assholes who always crossed boundaries even when I was just conversing with them. The girls had one thing in common. They were insecure and didn't have self respect. Just listening to the guys describing their girlfriends made me feel weird. They would describe them as a toy, a sub, never a lover or a partner. Even though they had been together for years. These guys had kids (The one who was 45 had a 7 year old son from his first wife and the 35 year old had a 2 year old son) and still never felt shame. I was very young and I would get approached by couples for threesomes (🤮) one time I declined this 30 year old's request and he blamed me and said I hurted his feefees. I was so kink friendly but now I know it's just trauma bonding. I considered myself one of the cool girls Because these guys liked that I let them do things to my asshole. I really wanna cry when I look at my past. 😣

[–]Sana_Del_Dre 138 points139 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same here! I thought it would give me some sort of freedom, but all I got was trauma and abuse.

[–]HeroForHire369FDS Disciple 86 points87 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I really wanna cry when I look at my past. 😣

You're not alone trust me. I think it's rare to find a woman or a girl that hasn't been through some level and variation of that.

[–]Turbulent-Leave9596FDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

90-95% of couples on Tinder looking for their BDSM partner or “unicorn” are nearly always a man in my age demographic (40’s) with a younger woman who looks to be in her early to mid 20’s. Scrotes like those DO NOT deserve to have our youth (any time period between 18-70) wasted on them. And these scrotes are always overweight, never sees sunlight pale, balding, punching way above their league as is, rotten patchy beard they can’t give up, and just rancid looking. (Trolling through profile pics when you live next to a major metropolis is amusing, 10/10 recommend to ease boredom)

[–]Golden_LavenderFDS Newbie 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There is nothing remotely unique, empowering or enlightening about open relationships, polyamory or any other sexual deviant lifestyles outside plain old vanilla monogamy.

[–]Nice_Pass2393FDS Newbie 47 points48 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes except now they use fancy words to sugarcoat their immoral tendencies and trying to force us to accept it or we're not pc

[–]ProtoetypeFDS Newbie 41 points42 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, it's about as edgy and unexpected for a man to be into those things as it is for a woman going through menopause to enjoy houseplants.

I already like houseplants, I'm gonna be a full on hoarder once I go through menopause.

[–]saylortwiftaylorswif 29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Any BDSM, "daddy, sir, master, king, toy," shit....EW NOPE GTFO


[–]Moira_SpiceFDS STRATEGY COACH 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just hate it so much that they use those kinda terms in normal contexts, within hearing of others. No shame whatsoever.

[–]dogs4ever3546 27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah looking back now my ex that was into pOlY shit was the most narcissistic and misogynistic man I’ve met. He legit gives me the shivers now when I think back to our relationship remembering how creepy he was. He would tell me that he’d totally be okay with a threesome with a friend. Hint: almost ALL his friends were women. 😑

[–]womandatory 21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A guy with mostly or only female friends is a gigantic red flag. Guaranteed he’s tried to bang all of them.

[–]thatoneladythereFDS Newbie 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yessss. Ugh that stupid news nerd Marcus Dipoala (I probably spelled that wrong) on tiktok comes to mind.

[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally every poly guy you come across looks like him. If it wasn’t scary it’d be hilarious.

[–]poison_snaccFDS Newbie 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The funny thing is that incorporating what they would probably already be doing if they weren’t so lazy/worried about repercussions— cheating with multiple people, beating the shit out of random women— isn’t even kinky or original or radical in any way whatsoever. They’re just doing the terrible shit they already want to do in a controlled setting and with “rules” they made up themselves and telling on themselves before it happens so they won’t get into trouble.

From my experience with this shit I don’t think scrotes even know what kink actually means. Kink is supposed to be sexy. Acting out a scrote’s fave porn and being repeatedly whipped/banged/etc in a special way only he likes, using the same set of sexual tools he regularly uses on 4 other girls, and being subjected to verbal abuse and/or erectile dysfunction if I just want to have normal sex... remind me HOW is that sexy? How is that spontaneous? How is it kinky?

The more males that enforce what they call “kink” as a standard and normal behavior, the more women will be coerced into subjugating themselves into something completely unnatural and unhealthy that will actually end up being a traumatic experience that they may carry with themselves for years. This leads us to a whole generation of young women who are traumatized not just by sexual assault and harrasment and abuse but also by the torture they endured in seemingly “normal” sexual interactions and relationships.

It’s like at this point being a kink-positive pickme comes with its own set of serious physical and mental consequences that will have to be ensured on top of all the other crap you already endure. Men are just sick.

[–]darling89FDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing surprises me anymore #entitlement

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092FDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Suspicious only? I would order a restraining order without even knowing their names

[–]HmtnswAt-Risk Pick Me Youth 26 points27 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Straight men on some other shit. Fr.

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Straight men would fuck a man or an animal or a tree. They don’t care as long as there’s a hole.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Turbulent-Leave9596FDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I watched a YouTube (during the start of the panorama and height of boredom) about a couple opening their marriage at his repeated urging. The woman finally caved and was able to find multiple partners quite easily, who were subjectively head and shoulders more attractive and nicer (obviously they didn’t have to give her anything more than physical) than her primary partner. The scrote was having a more difficult time finding anyone who would even give him the time of day and make it past the “coffee date” with him. He began making more and more low-key disparaging comments towards her and her actions. I had to stop, I knew exactly where it was going.

[–]smaller_angFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]CoffeeAndCorpsesFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're not wrong.

[–]UnstrirringCoffeeFDS Apprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to do multiple FWB, because I no longer wanted a relationship. Reason I did not want a relationship, is because I was investing more of my time and energy in the relationship while feeling like I got very little in return. I don't even think any of my ex-boyfriends knew who I really was or cared.

FWB was better, but I think ultimately not worth it, because with each new guy I had to run through the list of things I was not willing to do and inform them that if they wanted that they should do that with women who wanted it to.

I still don't know what that says about my mindset, but I don't feel that either relationships or FWB are worth it.

[–]dnd1stractedFDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

this was you?? queen i think of this post at least twice a week

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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