I said what I said. Stay mad.

amhran_oiche · 2021-04-14T17:39:29+00:00

SAME SOUP JUST REHEATED!!

skyerippa · 2021-04-14T20:30:55+00:00

eThIcAlLy PoLyAmOurS

sassenachpants · 2021-04-14T17:18:26+00:00

Polyscamory is just the patriarchy rebranding itself.

2021-04-14T21:15:17+00:00

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Khentiamentiu42 · 2021-04-14T19:29:57+00:00

Scrote: I'm Polyamourous *translation * ' I'm a narcissist with an attachment disorder who likes triangulating people'

Only_Lime2520 · 2021-04-14T18:34:23+00:00

Excuse me while I go n barf. pOlYaMorY. Such audacity. They can't even please one woman what makes they think they're entitled to more???

AnniaT · 2021-04-14T18:44:58+00:00

The fact that a man is abusing us in bed while having orgasms or jerking off to it, doesn't make it not abuse. Why isn't abusing women in a context of sex or porn not considered as criminal as doing it outside of the bedroom?

Kristeninmyskin · 2021-04-14T20:33:48+00:00

For most of history men were encouraged & sanctioned ..... to use violence against women.

Does everyone know the origins of the phrase ‘rule of thumb’?

It was legal for a man to beat his wife so long as the stick was no wider than his thumb.

the-worst- · 2021-04-14T18:43:53+00:00

The entire Greek pantheon of Gods

Did you know back then, all the raping and cheating WASN'T meant to be polarizing? That was literally how the men were ENCOURAGED to behave.

And people wonder why so many men use religion to justify treating women like garbage.

They've been using that tactic to justify hating women for EONS.

redwineandsolitude · 2021-04-14T23:00:49+00:00

Okay, but why hasn’t this been said so concisely before. I feel like we’ve been bamboozled.

flufferbutter332 · 2021-04-14T19:35:13+00:00

I love when I’m shamed by BDSM men and women because I’m vanilla. I don’t like being abused in the name of pleasure. So what?

alife404 · 2021-04-14T23:43:24+00:00

I just think these men are boring. They can say that they're so ✨✨kInKy✨✨ for liking threesomes and BDSM, but really it's the same ol' "jackhammering my 5.4 inch monster cock in and out for a minute till I coom, but I'm choking you during" Just admit you have shitty lame sex and no amount of hitting and leather is going to spice it up. Because always it's the submissive, masochist girl, and the "dominant" loser who wants to play Alpha.

doublerainbow11 · 2021-04-15T02:52:17+00:00

Lurked into another subreddit and they’re angry with this post. Lol I love seeing those people get ballistic with us. It just made my day 😂

slayeroftruth · 2021-04-14T20:58:57+00:00

I have always thought the same thing. Since when has men not had more than one women when having opportunity and beating ,raping ect us? Giving women oral is real kink for men.

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2021-04-14T22:55:48+00:00

Absolutely all bdsm I’ve seen has been women subs, hmmm I wonder why it’s almost as if women are the target imagine that...just look at that disgusting sexually broken sub, it’s all women. 85% of men are disgusting sex pests and I made that statistic up so it covers “not all men” or whatever lol

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-04-14T19:56:14+00:00

Agreed. Any man that's into stuff like this (threesomes included, even one time) gets an automatic dump and block from me, no questions asked.

Ok_Meringue9724 · 2021-04-14T17:41:10+00:00

Any man who likes BDSM is a sexist and an asshole, trust me. I would hang around in groups of people like this and even though I never engaged in it myself (even in my pickme days I was self aware), I talked to a lot of couples who did. Most of the guys were old, and I mean OLD. like 35, 45 and with a girl who was 19, 26. And yes, those ages are specific because i saw couples like that 🤮 the guys were egotistical assholes who always crossed boundaries even when I was just conversing with them. The girls had one thing in common. They were insecure and didn't have self respect. Just listening to the guys describing their girlfriends made me feel weird. They would describe them as a toy, a sub, never a lover or a partner. Even though they had been together for years. These guys had kids (The one who was 45 had a 7 year old son from his first wife and the 35 year old had a 2 year old son) and still never felt shame. I was very young and I would get approached by couples for threesomes (🤮) one time I declined this 30 year old's request and he blamed me and said I hurted his feefees. I was so kink friendly but now I know it's just trauma bonding. I considered myself one of the cool girls Because these guys liked that I let them do things to my asshole. I really wanna cry when I look at my past. 😣

Golden_Lavender · 2021-04-14T17:24:57+00:00

There is nothing remotely unique, empowering or enlightening about open relationships, polyamory or any other sexual deviant lifestyles outside plain old vanilla monogamy.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-04-14T21:10:43+00:00

Yes except now they use fancy words to sugarcoat their immoral tendencies and trying to force us to accept it or we're not pc

Protoetype · 2021-04-14T21:35:04+00:00

Yeah, it's about as edgy and unexpected for a man to be into those things as it is for a woman going through menopause to enjoy houseplants.

I already like houseplants, I'm gonna be a full on hoarder once I go through menopause.

saylortwiftaylorswif · 2021-04-14T17:44:45+00:00

Any BDSM, "daddy, sir, master, king, toy," shit....EW NOPE GTFO

BIG RED FLAG

dogs4ever3546 · 2021-04-14T22:05:16+00:00

Yeah looking back now my ex that was into pOlY shit was the most narcissistic and misogynistic man I’ve met. He legit gives me the shivers now when I think back to our relationship remembering how creepy he was. He would tell me that he’d totally be okay with a threesome with a friend. Hint: almost ALL his friends were women. 😑

thatoneladythere · 2021-04-14T19:11:47+00:00

Yessss. Ugh that stupid news nerd Marcus Dipoala (I probably spelled that wrong) on tiktok comes to mind.

poison_snacc · 2021-04-15T00:15:57+00:00

The funny thing is that incorporating what they would probably already be doing if they weren’t so lazy/worried about repercussions— cheating with multiple people, beating the shit out of random women— isn’t even kinky or original or radical in any way whatsoever. They’re just doing the terrible shit they already want to do in a controlled setting and with “rules” they made up themselves and telling on themselves before it happens so they won’t get into trouble.

From my experience with this shit I don’t think scrotes even know what kink actually means. Kink is supposed to be sexy. Acting out a scrote’s fave porn and being repeatedly whipped/banged/etc in a special way only he likes, using the same set of sexual tools he regularly uses on 4 other girls, and being subjected to verbal abuse and/or erectile dysfunction if I just want to have normal sex... remind me HOW is that sexy? How is that spontaneous? How is it kinky?

The more males that enforce what they call “kink” as a standard and normal behavior, the more women will be coerced into subjugating themselves into something completely unnatural and unhealthy that will actually end up being a traumatic experience that they may carry with themselves for years. This leads us to a whole generation of young women who are traumatized not just by sexual assault and harrasment and abuse but also by the torture they endured in seemingly “normal” sexual interactions and relationships.

It’s like at this point being a kink-positive pickme comes with its own set of serious physical and mental consequences that will have to be ensured on top of all the other crap you already endure. Men are just sick.

darling89 · 2021-04-15T00:55:31+00:00

Nothing surprises me anymore #entitlement

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-04-15T00:05:21+00:00

Suspicious only? I would order a restraining order without even knowing their names

Hmtnsw · 2021-04-14T20:32:22+00:00

Straight men on some other shit. Fr.

2021-04-15T10:12:27+00:00

Polyamorous ( humor)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4

Turbulent-Leave9596 · 2021-04-15T18:50:00+00:00

I watched a YouTube (during the start of the panorama and height of boredom) about a couple opening their marriage at his repeated urging. The woman finally caved and was able to find multiple partners quite easily, who were subjectively head and shoulders more attractive and nicer (obviously they didn’t have to give her anything more than physical) than her primary partner. The scrote was having a more difficult time finding anyone who would even give him the time of day and make it past the “coffee date” with him. He began making more and more low-key disparaging comments towards her and her actions. I had to stop, I knew exactly where it was going.

smaller_ang · 2021-04-15T07:25:52+00:00

🏆THANK YOU

CoffeeAndCorpses · 2021-04-16T04:25:37+00:00

You're not wrong.

UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-04-15T13:17:01+00:00

I used to do multiple FWB, because I no longer wanted a relationship. Reason I did not want a relationship, is because I was investing more of my time and energy in the relationship while feeling like I got very little in return. I don't even think any of my ex-boyfriends knew who I really was or cared.

FWB was better, but I think ultimately not worth it, because with each new guy I had to run through the list of things I was not willing to do and inform them that if they wanted that they should do that with women who wanted it to.

I still don't know what that says about my mindset, but I don't feel that either relationships or FWB are worth it.

dnd1stracted · 2021-04-19T14:24:01+00:00

this was you?? queen i think of this post at least twice a week

Title	I said what I said. Stay mad.
Author	Lavender_flow
Upvotes	2907
Comments	75
Date	April 14, 2021 5:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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