sooo many men say this or some variation of it. "women are golddiggers", "women only want to date the top 10% of men" blah blah blah

EVERYBODY wants money and success. money and success are the keys to freedom, independence, and not having to put up with other peoples sh*t. NOT EVERYBODY wants to be viewed as sex objects bc its humiliating and doesnt garner any ~real~ power, obviously

Men will say that women who DARE pursue anything besides wanting to be a sex object "want to be men", when in reality we want to be financially independent so we dont have TO DEAL WITH men. they say this to gaslight us and keep us subordinate to them.

being successful is a HUMAN TRAIT. having a good job is a sign of being driven & intelligent, and it ensures me that you have your own things going on & that you won't be too clingy. nobody looks at a house or any object and says "wow that thing is SO successful and driven". successful people are respected and looked up to. elon musk, bill gates, and jeff bezos have millions of social media followers and a platform of people who listen to them and take their advice. they have REAL power and influence. Young men will learn all about the lives of the CEOs / politicians they respect because they view them as WHOLE HUMAN BEINGS. do you see them learning about the lives / reading the wikipedia pages of their favorite pornstars? NO, because they dont respect them and dont care about anything but their sex appeal.

women are viewed as sex objects without any agency over who does it and when. every day i walk down the street and have creepy 50 year olds stop whistle out their windows to me like im some dog. EVERY DAY. you dont see men walking down the street and having women catcalling them saying "wow, look at the size of his wallet/success." it just doesnt happen.

How is being viewed as successful ANYTHING like being viewed as a sex object? how is being on the cover of Forbes and having million of people wanting your wisdom/mentorship ANYTHING like being on the cover of Playboy and having millions of creeps jerk off to you? seems like a giant cope to me...