I'm a recovering pickme and I wanted an opinion from you great ladies on this situation.

There is a guy that I have occasionally been talking to all throughout the quarantine. We had gone on 3 dates before that. He is with his parents for now so he is about 6-7 hours away but he expressed wanting to drive down and spend a weekend with me. He calls me special all the time, basically tells me all the things I want to hear. We had this weekend planned out for a couple of weeks and every night he would call me and tell me how excited he was to see me. Since he has some friends in the area he was going to go see them one day but he made it clear to me that I was the main purpose of the visit.

I asked him if he was excited to see his friends and he would brush that off saying that he doesn't even care about that and that he's just excited to see me.

The day before he was supposed to drive down he texts me in the morning saying how excited he is to see me. But then at night he calls me and cancels because his friends won't be in the area and he feels like it's "moving too fast" to see me. I pretty much put my foot down and told him what he did was really shitty and that none of his words match up with his actions and he promised he'd see me another weekend but I told him that his promises hold no weight to me and that I've heard it all before.

He ended it saying that he's got too much mental health stuff going on and that he's not ready for a relationship right now and can't give me consistency or time to which I told him that's not a lot to ask for. He agreed.

Is he LVM or did I have too high expectations thinking he would drive down for me?