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[–]threedotloveFDS Apprentice673 points674 points675 points 3 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
I changed my whole wardrobe to skirts & tights & knee high socks & sexy lingerie for my last ex & he wore the same pair of jeans every day & rotated through 5 shirts 🤦🏻♀️
[–]VeronaMoreauFDS Newbie270 points271 points272 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My wardrobe has largely switched over to a lot of skirts and tights but that's because lockdown made me realize how much I hate pants
[–]SearchLightsIncFDS Apprentice58 points59 points60 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What about joggers!?
[–]VeronaMoreauFDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
they don't fit my personal aesthetic
[–]MushroomsInTheAtticFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same, after all of this I decided jeans will never enter my wardrobe again. I only wear comfy pants (joggers as the previous comment said), and dresses/skirts
[–]destineygrayFDS Newbie225 points226 points227 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
ironically I love skirts/dresses/tights and my ex told me my clothes were ‘uncool’ and wanted me to dress in that baggy jean/grungy ‘cool girl’ look (no offense to anyone who dresses like that, you do you, but it wasnt for me)
you just cant win
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Omg same, my ex told me that “dresses are for old ladies” and I should wear more baggy clothes.. 😐
[–]appendixgallopFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I had an ex who wanted "to see me in dresses and floral prints." Not my barn clothes, apparently. Or my clean, PNW sport-type casual wardrobe either. Oh, and nope to dresses in the PNW for the 10 cold, wet months, thank you. Gentlemen, feel all the freedom in your style choices, all you wish. I get to choose what I wear, now that we're adults, and so do you. I get to choose you, or not. Perhaps you'll get rejected for your lack of grooming or attention to fit, condition, and quality of menswear. But it's your choice what you wear.
[–]MrAndMrsCremgroblinPickmeisha™️4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
PNW??
[–]appendixgallopFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry! Pacific Northwet.
[–]Ghost_namesakeFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
PNW girl here too. I've found if I get heavy tights, they work okay if it's above 50°F. LoL! I like to dress up a bit, but it's just too cold to rock a little skirt most of the time. Especially now that there is no dine in at restaurants! Ugh!
[–]PrincessCritterPantsFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pacific north west :)
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he wanted someone who dressed like a “grungy cool girl” he should’ve dated someone who fit that aesthetic. Or get a Barbie
[–]MiaNaimFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had an ex who told me dresses were for moms, and I needed to wear other items. His idea of other items were booty shorts and skintight jeans with bodysuits or cropped tops. He had the typical phuckboi wardrobe consisting of sweats/athletic shorts, slides/yeezys, and random stupid baseball caps
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly what else is there for men to wear?? Their fashion is trash. They need to stop being paranoid of kpop stars and start adopting some of their street style.
[–]Fetia_FDS Newbie180 points181 points182 points 3 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link
Okay is this real? I’ve seen so much stuff about guys having shit in their underwear online but I’ve never seen a battered ripped up pair? Tbh who goes home with someone that looks that sloppy ?
[–][deleted] 195 points196 points197 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I had a boyfriend when I was in my early 20s who hadn't changed his wardrobe since his mom did when he was still living at home (him being in his late 20s). So me, the idiot, went out and bought him new underwear and socks. 🤦
[–]Ghost_namesakeFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Been there. Done that. Never dating a man that can't buy his own clothes again. It's one thing to ask for help with style, but underwear is a personal responsibility.
[–]Fetia_FDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Omfg I can’t I don’t leave the house unless I’m put together, I think I wore heels more than regular shoes all though mid high school-college(still in) They just don’t care about themselves that much it horrible
[–][deleted] 84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
To be fair, heels aren't really good for your feet in the long term so I wouldn't wear them regularly. I don't wear them at all, since I'm a dancer (well, before pandemic and injury put me on hold) so I'm sneakers all the way, but I invest in nice ones that combine fashion and function of course :)
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like to pretend I’m “fixing” the heel problem by wearing chunkier ones that are easier to walk in, but you’re right tho, lol.
[–]Express_Chocolate_60FDS Newbie-2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Hey, I personally wear thick/bulky heels/boots and my feet are just fine. Maybe, this will help you as well? Idk. I'm trying to help.
[–][deleted] 56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh thanks, but wearing anything with a heel is going to be bad for the flexibility of my feet and calves. I worked so hard at getting them in this shape I don't want them to get lazy lol.
[–]IDontAgreeSorryFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ehm why should she wear heels if she doesn’t want to? Stop with these “feminine” expectations that men have no equal equivalent of and harm us in the long run. We don’t have to spend time and money on heels and makeup to be acceptable lol.
[–]darkempress2003FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen!
[–]Express_Chocolate_60FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Butthurt much, huh? I was trying to suggest the type of boots/heels that I wear, so hey maybe she feels ok in them, maybe she didn't try chunky ones, so NO I never had the intention of forcing her to do that lol.
And for your morbid curiosity, I wear make-up out of the norm and certain clothes that are deemed "too much" because GASP I love it.
[–]Hazel-rah99FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately it doesn’t have so much to do with the thickness of the heel itself, but the fact that when you’re wearing heels, you’re spending an extended amount of time “off-balance”.
I had actually never heard of it affecting feet. I had heard about it messing up your back, knees, lower leg muscles...
If Kathpoes is a dancer, all these things are incredibly important.
Here’s an article, because I feel like I’m not expressing myself well rn https://www.hackensackmeridianhealth.org/HealthU/2019/11/08/are-high-heels-bad-for-your-health/
[–]sweetcreamycreamFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think they meant they don’t wear heels as in high-heels: pumps, peep toes, 3+ inch booties, etc.
[–]LU_7192FDS Newbie57 points58 points59 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
100% real. I had to literally fight with my ex to throw away underwear with tons of holes. So happy those days are behind me.
[–]PossibleDoughnutFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I seriously can’t stop laughing as I’ve done the same thing. 😂
[–]LU_7192FDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And I’ll add - it’s not til you get home that you find out about the underwear. Vom.
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I remember going to r/relationships after my dude chewed me out for throwing away his holey underwear cuz “my mama gave those to me.” Acting like she’s gone and they’re her treasured heirlooms and shit
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[–]calming-teaFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What is a yeezy? Is that srsly the kanye stuff, whh would anyone buy that??
[–]iliaxazFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha, weirdly a lot of people! They sell out really quickly so there’s a high resale value. I hear they’re really comfy, but I still don’t really see the point of spending $500+.
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The first two months my ex and I were dating, he dressed up to come to my house and always smelled nice. The next two years he rotated through a week’s worth of free gym competition shirts and only took showers on days he went outside. Hard to tell what he’s really going to be like when he’s working his hardest to bait you in
[–]Fetia_FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
.......only showered when he had to do outside???
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If he wasn’t coming back from a hike or some other gym thing he was in front of the TV so showering didn’t matter I guess?
[–]Fetia_FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can’t even fathom the oil spill that was his greasy hair
[–]jfarmwell123FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some guys are good at hiding it. Personally I stopped dating men who had crusty drawls. But tbh I don't find it truly speaks quality bc my daughters father was always pristinely dressed, including down to his boxers and he's still a jerk so 😂
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMAO.
[–]missgirl649FDS Newbie119 points120 points121 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s so funny too because lingerie and nice bras and underwear cost so much money compared to a value pack of men’s underwear at walmart
[–][deleted] 169 points170 points171 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ahhh 😂😂 also "Men are supposed to be the leaders here" ...sits on a musty pc chair screaming at other musty LVM whilst still living with his mother and looking as dusty as ever
[–]AlexxyaKatPickmeisha™️87 points88 points89 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No girl, he needs to find his muse to inspire him to step into his leader role. It’s noooott his fault
(/s)
[–]evil_mom79FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget, they haven't showered in 5-7 days.
[–][deleted] 92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Damn where do you girls always find these incredible memes!!! I choked/laughed on my drink
[–][deleted] 123 points124 points125 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My mom -- twice divorced -- sends them to me 😂
[–]evil_mom79FDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like your mom!
[–]TheGoodieFDS Newbie116 points117 points118 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Facts. And it’s always the ones who don’t even wash their ass and groom themselves properly. It’s the audacity for me. 🤢
[–]throughalfanoirFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The knee high socks... Yikes
They are a rly cute look but the guy I dated in highschool sexualized them so much I feel weird about it
[–]literal_salamanderFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Male Friend: "I want woman who is skinny, small, cute, no tattoos, classy"
Friend is fat, looks like a gangster, horribly crude sense of humor and covered in tattoos. And terribly self centered.
[–]-sIm0n3FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my landlord! A bald snaggletooth gut monster who always wants to tell me about how he likes his ladies to look. They must always have their hair done, straight teeth (his are beyond scary), lots of makeup, and nails done fancy. Always talking about how pretty or ugly some woman is when he is complete garbage. It makes my blood boil.
[–]missand_rycaFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah. I’ll use my comfortable, soft, no wire/padless bras and boxer undies, and leave my sexy lingerie for when I want to feel myself or for someone who actually is worth the effort.
[–]midge_ratFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My blue collar boyfriend has two wardrobes: work and not-work. All his work clothes look like this 🤣 Thank god he cares what he looks like on his off hours.
[–]Mysterious_Service_1FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Where is the lie?!
[–]amyanubisFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is funny because my ex's were the same and I wear more lingerie and sexy nightwear now I'm single than I ever have haha. I do shit for me.
[–]LU_7192FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMFG this just hit so hard. Wow. I’m crying at the accuracy 😂😂😂
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Both of my exes wanted me to wear knee high socks and stalkings, glad I never spend my money to make their perverted fantasies come true.
[–]BananaSlugGhostFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously! Where is the mangerie?!
[–]pascalinesFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I literally burst out into a snort cackle HAHAhcwnckdj. Why is it so accurate though. Why is that literally his underwear.
[–]breadandbunnyFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol! True.
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Lmao.
[–]light_workerx3FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh 😩🙄🙄🙄😑
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Bahahaha
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This speaks to how they’re conditioned. They’re told they’re enough as they are. Women? LOL don’t even get me started on the messages we get.
Lint on his chest, lol.
[–]GlaeWitchFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
OK so, what made you want to go out with someone that doesn't meet your wardrobe preferences? did you want a Ken doll to dress up? did he change his style after he was sure of you? I'm just trying to understand this. when I'm attracted to a guy it's not because I want to remake him. It's because I like who he is.
[–]ThePrettySweetyFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Tighten up. And what’s a wardrobe preference? Lmfaoo never heard of that. When did I say I want to change the way he dresses? I think everyone should replace washed out clothing if they can afford to. I obviously don’t care how my man dresses. I’m the women in the relationship. We care more about these things. But I will always suggest my man things. Going out with holes in his jeans and lint on his clothing/hair.... yeah imma say something
[–]notochordFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This made me giggle out loud!
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BYEEEEE LMFAOOOO
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Frightening in its accuracy.
[–]ijustwannabefree-FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh no, why you be calling out my past like that 😂 brutal but so true!
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