I have an ex that worked in music and was a serial cheater and the excuse was always that every (male) touring musician cheats. But although I DIDNT KNOW THEM personally i always pointed to julian and Juliet as evidence of a healthy marriage being possible in that lifestyle. People always trash talked him as being weird and speculated he was drinking again but to me having seen them in person his vibe seemed SO family oriented. And his wife was gorgeous, helped him through an anxiety disorder and alcoholism, gave him 2 kids. they were married for 15 years. And he left her for a trash 21 year old roadie. The end. And side note; julians dad was a known pedo scumbag, and julian was supposedly disgusted with that pig's behavior and traumatized by watching the devastation his mother went through. But apparently he wasn't that hurt by it since he grew to do the exact same shit. WHAT IS THE POINT OF MARRYING MEN so many of them do this. Maybe I'm crazy but IT SEEMS like when men hit 40 or so they go down this path that is way too common where they cheat on their families with unremarkable barely legal pickmes. Im looking at my guy friends who tour and being like hmmmm maybe it's true, maybe they ALL cheat and it's just about opportunity??? It seems like men are only "loyal" when they have no options. Someone please talk me down and tell me im wrong. I don't want to hate men. But why is this so common.