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[–]AliCandyBarFDS Newbie 296 points297 points298 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
When men say stuff like that it’s so clear they see women’s only value as being a partner to a man. They can’t fathom a woman NOT being with a man, blasphemy! 🙄
[–]2340000Ruthless Strategist 190 points191 points192 points 2 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
A man who's never been married is romanticized. He's a salt n' pepper bAchEloR🤢.
But women refusing to get married? Oh we're going against biology and will become an ugly spinster---
or worse -----
a lesbian😱😱
[–]ScalesHaveFallenFDS Newbie 65 points66 points67 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, noone (no woman, anyway) really believes in the silver forever-bachelor. Only LVM, because they are convinced they ARE silver bachelors.
[–]AliCandyBarFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately, pick-me’s still fawn over guys like that. A single man, so well adjusted to society and well off, such a prize!.....until they stop to think about why he’s single.
[–]Galileo_SparkFDS Newbie 30 points31 points32 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s interesting how “against biology” seems to really mean “against what benefits men.” They don’t seem to care about biology when it comes to a woman’s safety or well being.
[–]SpectralCadenceRuthless Strategist 47 points48 points49 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They only see women as their body parts and the usefulness of said body parts to them. I truly don't think men who think otherwise, i.e. think of women as human beings, even exist anymore. I had the misfortune of seeing a YouTube video yesterday (I often watch travel blogs to understand where to go) and this sexpat was just going on and on about the women in country X and how they're sooo desperate and will treat you like a king. Blegh...
[–]movethefurnitureFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had the pleasantly sad opportunity to work with at least 75 HVM once. All were married sadly. Oh and the only 2 scrotes worked on my team.
[–]joliet_jane_blues 178 points179 points180 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I saw some articles online dragging FDS because the "Dating Strategy" part doesn't "work." But being single is not a failure of the strategy. It's working just fine.
[–]ScalesHaveFallenFDS Newbie 128 points129 points130 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was pleasantly suprised NOT to find dating-obsession on this sub. There's less of it than literally any other forum I've ever participated in, including one on dogs with hypothyroidism.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s a feature not a bug.
[–]volcanic_equationFDS Newbie 250 points251 points252 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Losers always wanna threaten us with a good time. 💅
[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie[S] 121 points122 points123 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right?
“Oh no!
.... anyway. “
[–]HostileovariesFDS Apprentice 144 points145 points146 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"The way you won't tolerate bullshit is the reason why you're single"
And thank fucking God for that
[–]SearchLightsIncFDS Apprentice 21 points22 points23 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Having standards is not a strategy, that's misandry"
[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice 298 points299 points300 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If my standards are too high for anyone then they're working as designed :)
[–]TerryCrewsNextWifeFDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Honey, I am a prize not a participation sticker"
[–]Connect-Ad-9361FDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm a fan of the phrase "Participation Trophy Wife" personally
[–]CynicalSucculentFDS Newbie 299 points300 points301 points 2 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
Some woman made a tiktok about how women's standards are too high and they should lower them if they want a man.
I called her a pickme and some scrote commented word for word: "We will always pick her. We will love and choose women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like."
Like, good lmao. I don't want to have to compromise my integrity to attract a LVM.
[–]ValentcatFDS Newbie 173 points174 points175 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, absolutely! She’s like one of those bug-zapping lamps. We can chill poolside without being constantly bothered.
[–]lucidlotusFDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or is she the bug being zapped in the LVM lamp...
[–]Few_DirectionFDS Newbie 156 points157 points158 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He said that like it was an insult to you while that’s highkey an insult to HER by saying LVM/douchebags will always go for her bc she has low standards🤣
[–]TigreImpossibileFDS Apprentice 137 points138 points139 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You will NEVER know what that feels like
Feels like paying half, low effort dates, low effort sex, smelling like BO and cheetos 💁🏻♀️
Prove me wrong, Kyle.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 113 points114 points115 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Some of us do know what it feels like, tho.
That feeling is why we are here on FDS. 🤷🏼♀️
[–]sweettheoriesFDS Newbie 51 points52 points53 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he wanted to, he would! Men know if she is their dream girl within weeks, if not days (or even HOURS, my brother-in-law knew my sister was the one the night he met her). Not going to waste my time with a man who will do the bare minimum to appease me while still shopping for his dream girl.
[–]IgetUsernameScrapsFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
”We will always pick her. We will love and choose women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like."
Don’t threaten me with a good time. 😄
[–]SpectralCadenceRuthless Strategist 93 points94 points95 points 2 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
We will love[...]women like her.
NOOOOOOOPE. They do not love. They merely use.
Pick her? Yes.
Have casual sex with her? Yes.
Expose her to STDs? Yes.
Impregnate her and then bail on the kid? Yes.
Ruin her and the kid's life by not providing child support? Yes.
Make her pay rent if she lives with you? Yes.
Cheat on her? Yes.
Use her for her money? Yes.
Pimp her out on Onl*F *ns? Yes.
Use her as a free maid? Yes.
Get a free cook as well? Yes.
Free childcare as well? Yes.
Prevent her from getting a better job and/or an education? Yes.
Beat her? Yes.
LOVE? Big nope. How exactly does it benefit any woman to be picked by a man? You might get a few moments of romance, yes, but is it worth years and years of poor treatment and literally ruining your entire life? Ask any woman who has had a tragic event happen in her life and she'll tell you how it all started when she associated with some man.
[–]CynicalSucculentFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yup. Female separatism for the win.
[–]SpectralCadenceRuthless Strategist 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. I just want to exist in a world without these dangerous, predatory, opportunistic men. Life would be so much more pleasant and stress-free. I wouldn't have to think twice about nearly every action I take. Ugh.
[–]orangechickengeneralFDS Newbie 55 points56 points57 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I saw that tiktok too! Is it the one where she points at her spouse? I assume? And says as long as it's a man with a job, it's all good, and that you're not a princess, your daddy lied to you, don't believe that you deserve a special fairy tale, etc
[–]CynicalSucculentFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No this was a different one, I don't remember the username though :/
[–]kangaskhaniscubonesFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would think that someone who posts that about her husband is fundamentally unhappy. She feels the need to justify her unhappy relationship to the world because hey, at least she will be a little bit happier if she gets a ton of likes on TikTok and a ton of guys agreeing that they would pick her.
[–]orangechickengeneralFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!!! I don't know if the correct term is reverse gaslighting? Where you gaslight yourself into believing your own deception and a distorted understanding of reality? Either way, your comment is spot on.
[–]throwaway32132134 52 points53 points54 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMFAO i love this. As though he thinks you should feel blessed by his presence... The audacity.
[–]ScalesHaveFallenFDS Newbie 51 points52 points53 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
'We will always pick the lowest-hanging fruit. We will neg and use women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like."
[–]movethefurnitureFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You win the internet today!!
[–]Queenleovenus 36 points37 points38 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In reality, these LVM's don't even lower their standards. They may be ugly af, broke and have gross personality, but they want rich, submissive, supermodel type of wife. I have cousin who looks like shit, he is short and dark himself, but doesn't want wife with dark skin.
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We know that its easier to get into a relationship if you have no standards. Standards exist for a reason. Being single is better than most relationships.
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol we will love women like her. I'm sure he was laughing behind his screen when he said that statement
[–]ScalesHaveFallenFDS Newbie 24 points25 points26 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unhappy women and LVM are the only people hurling this insult so both may be immediately ignored
[–]SakuraGirl88FDS Newbie 68 points69 points70 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have neither the heart nor the gumption to be in a relationship. Singledom is great.
[–]MomNateChloeFDS Apprentice 100 points101 points102 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can do bad all by myself, thanks.
[–]dinosaurnuggetzzz 59 points60 points61 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its sad how many women settle for nonsense because they are afraid to be alone. I would rather be alone than be with a lvm ever again. Being single isn't a bad thing.
[–]thowawaywookieFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously, if they just tried it for 6 months and use the time and mental energy they used on scrotes to level up, theyd never go back to that bs.
[–]Feral_HeartbeatFDS Newbie 119 points120 points121 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Funny thing? I broke off all my past relationships. Sometimes I still loved him. One of them he did the "i am just gonna mentally check out for years and make her break up with me'. But, yeah, I CHOOSE to be single. I don't WANT to be single. I want a partner. I want a great HUSBAND. but ..... I am not willing to settle for just anyone.
[–]TigreImpossibileFDS Apprentice 93 points94 points95 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Right? I've never been dumped in a LTR. Sure, sometimes people I went out with a few times never called me again, but I consciously ended my marriage and every other LTR because what was on offer was just too lame, too little, too crappy.
And I mean, I could have faked it and had the perfect Facebook family in my marriage. My ex was very handsome and a high earner, we would have had really cute kids. But he was super controlling, viewed me as his property and our marriage was always a game where if I had nothing to hold over his head, he was cruel and dismissive of me and anything I desired.
At one point, my family was trying to convince us to move to Australia and he was all about it because we would live on easy street, almost literally, lol (they were going to let us live rent free in a house on the same street as my grandparents and an aunty). I said I wouldn't even consider it until our marriage was better. He said "but babe, if we lived in Australia, around your family, you would have the upper hand. I would have to do everything you say because you would have the power!"...
I honestly don't think he understood, or flat out thought I was stupid because I told him I just wanted him to be nice to me and consider me at all times, just because he wants to, just because he loves me, not because we live in a house my family owns in a different country!!! And I'm not moving there with him until I think the marriage will survive.
Anyway, I haven't spoken to him in 9 years, he's just ended marriage number 3. I have always made fun of his "downgrade wives" and he used to remind me, alternatively, that a) he didn't divorce me b) he would take me back in a heartbeat.
Enjoy your frozen box lasagna, bitch 💅🏼
I have two other LTR that mattered at all in my life, and they have expressed similar sentiments.
I honestly haven't met a man worth keeping. Those are the facts for you lurking scrotes. Do better.
[–]hashtaggoodvibesonlyFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣 enjoy your frozen box lasagna bitch 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
[–]nurseofdeath 44 points45 points46 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Celebrated 20 years single in February!
Life is awesome!!
[–]partypancakesbaconFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I had a friend say that during a friendly sports game when I beat her. Meanwhile she can’t stand her husband- they spend most evenings apart (with separate friends). I was married for almost 2 decades and heard this after 2 years of being happily single and dating. Unbelievable.
[–]VillanellohFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's a frenemy who is a sore loser at sports AND relationships
[–]partypancakesbaconFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, that was the moment I disappointingly realized that. We still casually see each other for group sports and outings, but she was moved to acquaintance status.
[–]VillanellohFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't blame you, she wants to drag down everyone with her
[–]Big-Respond8481FDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to know this is why I am single, now I know I just have to keep doing it! (go-to answer, am not even single btw)
[–]DPCAOTFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel the bare minimum part so hard..
[–]TerryCrewsNextWifeFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So funny story cut down as much as I can...
Dating app. Got matched. Guys profile was basically empty bar self description "nice guy" (coughfirstredflag) and we had a match of 50%. So low effort profile of 2pics.
In two messages he wants to move to WhatsApp. I decline the stranger and ask for more info about himself.
He says he's going overseas with mates for a trip and to give my WhatsApp. Again I decline. Said "dude. Help me out here. I know nothing about you, I haven't met you. Give me something to work with here"
I received a 15 separate sentence rant about how I'm going all American saying dude, that this is Australia, it's so tacky, that I need to be more feminine, and that this was the reason I was single and childless at my age.
😂😂😂😂😂
Just to clarify he was also my age, single and childless on the dating site. His low effort profile was why he was getting mad at me.
Funnily enough the negging didn't hurt me at all! I know I am single which is why I was on the app. Childless??? Oh hell no MATE I'm CHILDFREE!!!
Dodged a huge dumpster fire of a bullet that day. I'd rather be single and enjoying my distance from trash like him, than tolerate bullshit like I received within 2 messages from that cockwomble. No ragrets.
[–]Curiousquest2FDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is my whole vibe.
[–]wordy_friesFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In most of my relationships, scrotes always slowed me down in my progress. I decided to be single and happy to achieve new heights! 🙏🏼 I haven't been happier. No headache.
[–]karabnpFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1000% 🥂
[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 19 points20 points21 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For real
[–]lolmemberberriesFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know, right? Refusing to settle for less is a good thing.
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