Love the message this lady added into her post

Twolipz_78 · 2021-06-20T09:24:56+00:00

“If they’re treating you like crap, there’s something wrong with them and not you.”

My people pleasing doesn’t want to believe this and needs scientific proof. It’s still very hard for me to accept this. The self blame is extremely strong in me.

TrixieFriganza · 2021-06-20T08:21:24+00:00

For a moment I was in shock was she 12 when she had her daughter then I noticed stepdaughter. I can see it beeing annoying but good her husband is making it easier for her and that they want to support the daughter because I'm probably not wrong when I'm thinking she must be fleeing from a scrote. But I don't think the wife has to feel totally okay with the situation (specially when it's a not that much younger step daughter I get it and specially if she has health issues) but that she and her husband are both trying to find solutions to make it easier for her.

xHouse_of_Hornetsx · 2021-06-20T09:51:22+00:00

My boyfriend has witnessed me gaining 80 lbs and stop wearing makeup or dressing like a goth girl over the course of our relationship. Still loves me and clings onto me like a koala bear every night.

vvioletwwitch · 2021-06-20T11:34:54+00:00

I would say love does have to be earned, but not by acts of service or by your appearance. Love has to be earned by treating your partner with respect and care.

Edit: This article is a good example of what I mean.

pickadaisy · 2021-06-20T03:04:24+00:00

Fuck yes. Men have no standards and we need to stop worrying that we can’t meet them. We are all queens and they should be so lucky as to be honored by our presence.

Adventurous_River_64 · 2021-06-20T01:40:27+00:00

I love this her vibe is amazing ❤️

BashRunes · 2021-06-20T12:04:06+00:00

My lipedema has absolutely ruined my self esteem growing up but reading positive things by others who also have it means so much ugh 💕

TrixieFriganza · 2021-06-20T07:17:27+00:00

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amorchicho · 2021-06-20T07:02:05+00:00

Okay wait but how is this any different than being with a low level man (someone who doesn't help out at home, was admittedly not a good family person, is in a rough shape physically, etc). Because she embraces her weaknesses? So if you find a low level man who doesn't help out at home, etc etc, but admits it and owns it, he is actually a high level man?

I'm genuinely curious and not trying to be annoying!!

MadamLeFay · 2021-06-20T16:19:49+00:00

Am I missing something here? Why doesn't the stepdaughter & grandchild move into the camper? Why does she have to "hide out" in a camper while those two run her house???

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-06-20T03:36:04+00:00

I love this