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[–]heladoskyFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely, I remember one guy I was seeing started comparing me to other girls out of nowhere and telling me “but you should do this, dress like this” I was annoyed and ignored him, obviously he got mad at me, he wanted to change me completely but he believed he was perfect and didn’t need to change like he was telling me to.
[–]CB4lifeFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My hair is a dark blonde/light brown. One of my exes wanted me to dye it really light blonde, I guess he thought it would be sexier, I don’t know. You can guess how much effort he put into his appearance (hint: none). I didn’t dye my hair for him. That was like 12 years ago. I now have light blonde highlights because I like them lol. But i wouldn’t change my hair style or color for a guy.
[–]MakeURegretFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
May you learn to only listen to positive labels! May negative labels fall on deaf ears.
[–]lilpizzapocketFDS Apprentice38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Avoid NVP LVP. Avoid anyone who puts you down, no slack just because you’re “friends” or family.
The people who’ve torn me down the most were sadly other women who were too insecure to keep that shit to themselves.
[–]slothsomesauceFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This hit me hard. 😭
[–]jjlew922FDS Apprentice[S] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know!! Hit me so freakin hard, I’m with you queen!
[–]KompottkopfFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for this. Truly.
I haven't dared to sing from age 7 to age 26 because one teacher in elementary school made one comment, probably wasn't even thinking about it, and it hurt me so bad that I just stopped.
Took me 20 years and the knowledge that she died to overcome this. One comment.
[–]justme8000FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Gah I’m in tears.
[–]jjlew922FDS Apprentice[S] 32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, my ex husband did all of these things. I’ll always remember the time I sang solo in front of our congregation of 3,000 people when he told while married I wasn’t good enough for that. I’m still singing and soaring and I thank God everyday I’m out of that abusive relationship because I am good enough and so much more, way too good for il that loser!! 🤣
[–]justme8000FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, you are!!
[–]Icedmocha123FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I stopped singing because it felt like I was annoying him, bothering him whenever I want to talk about the music I like. I stopped randomly singing while doing chores/alone because I was no longer happy and my body knows that. During the latter part of the relationship, I barely listened to music altogether. I was so sad that I lost passion for such a huge part of my life. Thats when it hit me that there are people that will take you down and break you apart. Now, I have started singing again, exploring new music that resonates with me.
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