When I moved to the city, I barely knew anyone so I started meeting different guys going to dates a lot. Lot of older men like me on tinder (purchased tinder gold to save time ) but how’s your experience using app ? I noticed guys in late 30s and even 50s wanting to meet me but I always suspect there’s something wrong with them(also even in nyc, most older American men are overweight, while I enjoyed using it in London and Munich) I want to meet guys around my age, and attended meetups but no success as of yet. Where do you meet guys in nyc ? I was told that most people in nyc aren’t willing to settle down so it’s very hard to meet one.