Men know what they do. Men know when they’re doing something that’s straight up wrong or even illegal. There have been so many times in my life where I’ve seen a man do something of questionable morals, or down right insane and still gave them the benefit of the doubt.

For example things like...

“Maybe because of his background he didn’t know stalking wrong in this country”

“Maybe he didn’t know that girl was underage when he met up with her.”

“Maybe the condom really did just fall off when we were switching positions.”

“Maybe he honestly thought It was a good idea to hurt me during sex because he saw it in a porno.”

“Maybe he just lost his temper that one time he hit me.”

As women we tend to give men the benefit of the doubt, we don’t actually want believe they’re bad people, and we don’t what to believe someone we cared about did something vile to hurt us on purpose. But believe me, these ALWAYS know what they’re doing when they do something wrong. They love to pretend anything they did wrong they was by accident but if you don’t hold them accountable for their actions and forgive them most of the time they’ll actually just do the same thing again!