I came to the realization that I’ve curved 100s of men in my life and not one time was it really because they were “too nice” or “too beta” And I’m NOT SORRY!
Women are trying to spare men’s feelings, but we probably need to stop telling men this lie because clearly they’re really out here believing it.
Then they’ll be on all the men’s forums talking bout how we only like “thugs” and “Assholes” and “Chads” and what have you.
Terry Crews, Jason Momoa, Keanu Reeves are some of the nicest and most feminist guys out there and they have absolutely no problem getting women because it’s not about that.
Here’s a list of reasons why I rejected “Nice Guys”.
- Facially Clapped
- Their clothes never fit right
- Their clothes never match
- They don’t know how to use an iron
- Their beard grows in patchy
- Their fade never looks crisp
- Fat / Out of Shape
- Bad Breath
- Skinny Chicken Chest
- Hair Never Brushed like Kevin Durant
- Their Hairline is receding but they won’t accept it like Lebron James
- Their skin is ashy
- Their lips are crustier than pre - jail Gucci Mane
- Teeth yellow
- Teeth Crooked
- Teeth crooked AND yellow like James Harden
As far as the personality stuff:
- They don’t know who they are as a person
- Emotionally needy
- Boring AF with no skills or interest
- They’re just as misogynist and entitled as far more attractive men therefore not worth it
- Angry at the world
- Always Playing the Victim
- No personal drive or discipline
- Lazy
- Cheap
So basically 9/10 these “Nice Guys” are just fucking ugly, have poor grooming and negative social skills and it has nothing to do with them being nice or women preferring “Assholes”.
Feel free to print this list out and hand it to the “Nice Guys” in your life so they can check off which bullet points apply.
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This needs to be on a goddamn business card I can just hand out at the end of the date.
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This is a BIG ONE. I know society makes watching Netflix seem like a proper hobby, but it should NOT BE YOUR ONLY ONE. The GYM/WORKING OUT IS NOT A HOBBY (unless you're a body builder/competitive weightlifter, etc). EATING and SLEEPING ARE NOT HOBBIES.
I cannot tell you how many conversations I've had with men OLD who's only hobbies included, watching Netflix, going to the gym, gaming, and/or getting shitfaced on weekends. This was 98% of them. I know that society seems to have made this the norm, but it's soooo incredibly boring to a lot of women, because you have NOTHING to talk about. I had one guy tell me he had no interests or hobbies. How are you not interested in anything?! I don't drink and don't even have Netflix, soooo that removes any sliver of conversation with the majority of men I'd match with. I axed OLD because I got tired of carrying the conversation. "You're so interesting!" I know...but you aren't. Then I stop replying because they're not giving me anything to work with, and then come to me accusing me of "ghosting" them.
Cultivate some damn hobbies y'all. Please.
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UGH YES. I paint, and they're always like "I was in art club in high school lol." We are adults...full fledged adults.
They'd do this A LOT too. It falls away fast once you start asking them questions, though. I have much more respect for men who say "I've never studied/done that, but I'd be interested in learning about it." It's that simple, but no, they decide lying would be better because they think we're too stupid to notice.
This is what I'm looking for in a relationship. A partner who is incredibly passionate about actual hobbies I know little to nothing about, and can talk about them in ways that are interesting for us both. I don't need my partner to be a carbon copy of me, but he needs to have depth. I want to learn from my partner just as much as he learns from me.
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