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(Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!

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Title (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!
Author SmallBunny0
Upvotes 5563
Comments 345
Date April 27, 2021 4:15 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]chasingastarl1ghtFDS Newbie 1392 points1393 points  (31 children) | Copy Link

That's a lot of words to say "I'm a control freak" - the guy is out there acting like patrick bateman and I'm so glad the girl brilliantly called out the red flags.

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 833 points834 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

Gotta love how he said that a response like hers indicates potential for power struggles in the relationship, as if he is not the one who will create those power struggles by constantly attempting to dominate the woman he’s with 😂

[–]thehappiestelephantFDS Newbie 353 points354 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

To someone controlling, 'power struggle' is anything but smiling compliance.

[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 42 points43 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, so true. Exactly like my ex who was like this only a few months into the relationship. He would literally be mad and offended I wasn’t smiling enough when I came to the front door (probably because I was flustered as fck getting home from work, quickly exercising, getting dressed and making sure I was at his place on the dot). Or I didn’t send the right emoji. Or my voice wasn’t happy enough (in response to me being cautious because I could hear anger in his voice). They control every aspect of your life. Coercive control.

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 90 points91 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

if I had an award I’d give it to you, well said 🥇

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Aww someone did it for you

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

THIS. I had a guy I later realised was a controlling narcissist throw a tantrum, sulk and not speak to me for weeks (plus try to get me ostracised by friend group) because I didn't text him to wish a happy Valentine's Day. Even though he didn't either. This was a "close guy friend" of mine by the way, it was obvious I liked him and he did back, he knew I did and our friends would joke about us being boyfriend and girlfriend.

He was always getting into dramas with online dating girls and said he would never message one first, turning to me for advice on girls before that. I now realise he probably was used to being "spoiled" by pick mes and lost his shit when I didn't act according to script. We were always flirting and on good terms before.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 201 points202 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

This describes most men I've met in my last 20 years of dating. It still astonishes me how many men of all ages can only relate to women by trying to control us. Even more astonishing when these men have been surprised and upset to discover that I'm not interested in it.

Men really and truly do not view women as human beings with thoughts, feelings, and desires of our own.

[–]terrn1981 93 points94 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They know we have thoughts and feelings. They just don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves. Only mens feelings matter and must be catered to.

[–]jupitaur9FDS Newbie 61 points62 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

To them, dogs and horses have thoughts and feelings and are allowed to express them when not under leash or saddle, but they must be overcome and controlled to serve the master.

Women are the same. They can be given freedom, but it’s not their right. It’s a gift.

[–]lemur00FDS Newbie 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And given as a reward for obedience. Once the training is internalized, the "freedom" is of course utilized to continue obeying, but because you "want to".

[–]RowbloksFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It still astonishes me how many men of all ages can only relate to women by trying to control us.

That's really well put. When I think about it, it really boils down to this.

These crazy incels are so caught up in "maintaining frame" and being "alpha" that they lose their entire identity in the relationship if they feel like they can't be the dominant one

[–]FreshStarter0FDS Newbie 32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely, always projecting.

[–]yolosunshine 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I SHALL SELECT YOU AND THEN HOOKUP WITH YOU

Slow your roll, Hannibal

[–]xDreeganxFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It doesn't take much brain power to see this dude as a basketcase

[–]uwuwowowuwuPickmeisha™️ 1518 points1519 points  (55 children) | Copy Link

"Happy for the opportunities I create"? Imagine thinking a coffee date is an "opportunity" because if the "vibe is good" he'll bestow upon you the gift of bad sex with a cheap, no effort, and probably abusive man. As a bonus he'll string you along and waste your time for even longer.

She clearly doesn't know what she's missing out on. /s

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 553 points554 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, suggesting a place that's minutes from his place, but probably like an hour from hers is such a great opportunity. Definitely worth a 3$ coffee...

What an idiot that guy must be.

[–]that_darn_thangFDS Newbie 356 points357 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Nice of you to assume he will pay for the $3 coffee. Chances are he will show up late so that she has no choice but to pay for her coffee so she can sit and wait (instead of standing around awkwardly)

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 119 points120 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True. But hey, it's and opportunity! What a clown

[–]FreshStarter0FDS Newbie 95 points96 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

True, that's why there's emphasis on her "showing up on time" lol

[–]RegIvo 26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This made me laugh and stang a bit.. literally recall the memory of the exact first coffee date (I paid for my coffee and waited for him since he was 30 min late) after which he proceeded to keep implying that I liked him a lot and we had amazing chemistry. And we should process next time to cocktail date. He was a hot/good-looking guy but sounded very insecure. After a week of no communication the following weekend he called ( I was busy so it went to voicemail) and 30 minutes after that call he texted me an obscene message about how ugly, big-headed, and c.. I was for not picking up his call and missing out on this pure connection. Oh my, I was so happy being too busy and not picking up that darn call so I didn't have to deal with verbal vomit of his thoughts.

[–]that_darn_thangFDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes the trash takes itself out.

Honestly, I think guy have for years look online for tips on how to trick women into sex/relationships/gaslighting/manipulation and so on. I'm happy to see women finally sharing their stories/experiences/views so we can finally all learn from each other and prevent it. Guys are only going to get more desperate and aggressive for here on out so we really need to stick together ❤

[–]Notspecificc 23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hers and probably his

[–]Prideandpathet 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't attack me for travelling 40+ mins for "coffee", with him living 5 mins away. 😖 Sometimes it's not even coffee, it's "idk, where do you wanna go?" AFTER i reach!?

[–]SpectralCadenceRuthless Strategist 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

For real. Dates (I mean proper dates) involve way more investment from a woman's side. My last date I didn't even break even and I actually liked the bloke even though I ended things for other reasons. Clothes, hair, makeup, bags, shoes, grooming, etc cost money (not even including the opportunity cost of me working on my business or doing something else). Why men think women are "golddiggers" for wanting them to take us somewhere decent and pay up is beyond me. If they are as smart as they claim why can't they do simple math?

[–]waitingforsunlightFDS Newbie 203 points204 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

He really thinks a low effort coffee or drinks date should be enough for her to want to go home with him the first time they meet...

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 121 points122 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

O p P o R t U n I t Y 🤡

[–]The_PyramidionPickmeisha™️ 82 points83 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I like how he talks about his dick like he's aggressively pitching an mlm scheme. 😂

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 36 points37 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dick is the ultimate MLM.

[–]finaljossbattleFDS Newbie 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The funniest thing I’ve read all day!

[–]BluefoxcrushFDS Newbie 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m sure he’d also think the worst of women that sleep with a lot of men.

[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 160 points161 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ummmm I think I know what opportunities he creates...

ThE giRl I DaTe WoUld FuCk mE fOr $2

[–]R_U_PennybagsFDS Newbie 156 points157 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Are we gonna ignore the fact that after the amazingly low effort coffee date she’s got to WALK to his place so he can bestow sex upon her. Not even an Uber ride??? The jokes just write themselves honestly

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 97 points98 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The fact that he picked a place walking distance from his home not some place she wanted to go is so lame and low effort.

[–]eatnthrowtrashawayFDS Newbie 396 points397 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Men these days really think they’re some sort of prize with their low effort 50/50 dates, awful personalities and lack of skills bedroom and elsewhere. Society lied to them over and over again and now they have an inflated ego about their worth.

They’re not worth shit. But yet this scrote typed that shit out and thought he was doing something. Idiot thinks he’s a king just because he exists on this planet.

Their audacity is off the charts.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 205 points206 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Maybe he expected her to beg for another chance 🤡🤡🤡

[–]eatnthrowtrashawayFDS Newbie 186 points187 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

He 100% did. And when we don’t they go into a rage of pure toddler proportions. Not only do they think they’re a prize to be chased and pandered to they also think we’re dumb and they’ll lower our esteem or make us apologize and submit to them with comments about what they want and like. Please 😂

[–]lunarfulminateFDS Newbie 136 points137 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nothing is more terrifying than a toddler's meltdown in the body of a grown-ass man with all the social and legal privileges of male adulthood. At least a woman can restrain or discipline her toddler and society views it as her job, but if she dares to tell a man he's out of line, she apparently deserves whatever he decides to do to her in retaliation.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is 100% it.

[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 102 points103 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Can't wait to see them d-i-e a-l-o-n-e.

[–]Enough-Lingonberry-4FDS Newbie 52 points53 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Nothing better than sweet vengeance. I love to think about how depressed and lonely this scrote is right now.

[–]R_U_PennybagsFDS Newbie 70 points71 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The sad thing is he’s probably not alone because pick me’s have lowered their standards to the bare minimum and set a terribly low bar of what is acceptable. The fact is he thinks he’s “right” because he has found women that will stoop to his level. We have to do better as women and raise our standards

[–]SayNadFDS Apprentice 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, at least the more women we can elevate, the less pickmes there will be around. I hope at least some years in the future we can beat them in numbers.

[–]SewudFDS Apprentice 28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They think just the fact that they want to date someone is a gift to her.

[–]RowbloksFDS Newbie 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly I don't think that men really have such a high opinion of themselves, they're just looking for a woman who believes that they do. A lot of their confidence is just posturing. This guy right here was bluffing and he probably didn't expect her to have enough self-confidence to dump him without putting up a fight. He was expecting her to think "Oh wow what a dominant alpha alpha man he's so exciting I cant afford to lose him omg" and to lower her standards to make him happy.

I think that many of them know that they can't handle a woman who respects herself so they act like this to filter out women with self-respect, not because they don't want them but because they know that they won't be able to handle them anyway so they might as well make a last ditch effort to lower that woman's self-esteem and let her go if it doesn't work.

They complain about how women "shit test" men by testing men's confidence and leadership skills, but men also shit test women by suggesting the most low effort options to see how much she will let him get away with.

If the guy really likes her, he will respect her more if she shows that she has enough confidence to say "no". If he doesn't genuinely like her he'll get upset over her saying "no" because he'll feel like he's being denied the one and only thing he wants from her (sex and effortless company) and that makes her a waste of time. It might be triggering and scary for the girl to see the guy get upset over her boundary, but at least she'll know that he's trash and she needs to dump him. Knowing for sure and dumping him immediately is better than dumping him after wasting months or years being in doubt about whether that guy is the one for you or not.

So by saying "no" when we want to, women win either way. I wish that girls were told this more often to counter the lie that scrotes are constantly spreading that never saying "no" makes them get more respect from guys. Guys don't respect the cool girl who says "yes" to everything more, they just use her more and longer.

[–]CB4lifeFDS Newbie 115 points116 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

“Something good on a regular basis.” Even in his fantasy scenario he won’t call her his girlfriend friend- he doesn’t want to commit or contribute anything, he just wants her to come over to his place to hook up whenever he feels like while skirting around any attempts to define what their relationship is.

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Give me sex after a shitass coffee meet and I'll let you be my ongoing fleshlight".

[–]sweet_birthday_babyyFDS Newbie 65 points66 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Hungry for my stale breadcrumbs”

[–]SewudFDS Apprentice 39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Happy for the opportunity to go back to his place and hookup? 🤢

[–]PinkBlair99FDS Newbie 43 points44 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🙃🙃🙃🤡🤡🤡

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This, he LITERALLY writes "any other response to blah blah hooking up with me..."

Potential rapist and future abuser.

[–]unbotheredshrewFDS Newbie 896 points897 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

I dream of a world where men like this stay sexless and alone forever.

[–]superderpina_FDS Newbie 563 points564 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

we‘re working on making it happen

[–]MaingurlFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ladies, let's make it happen!

[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 224 points225 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Don't worry girl, we're on our way. Now we just need a psycho registry...

[–]azureangel35FDS Apprentice 133 points134 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

there's got to be a way to create one and keep hidden. do y'all even realize how much time we'd save naming and shaming scrotes and their audacious antics? narcissists wouldn't be able to find supply for miles 👊

[–]IgetUsernameScrapsFDS Newbie 62 points63 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There has to be a pickme somewhere thinking “but I can change him.”

[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

ahahhahahhaahahhahaha

[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know a lot of women only FB groups keep each other up to date with violent and suspicious men. I'm an expat and live in Asia and apart of the private group that's created for the city I live in. We post pics, give detail accounts and locations to where these men prey on women. It's an awesome, supportive community where we host Slumber mimosa parties, hiking and camping trips, axe-throwing. It's great to have a female support system when you are living abroad and at home.

[–]_electrafireFDS Disciple 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally we could be radfem detectives and spies👀👀👀

[–]BlovesCat 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There was an app when I was in college where you could rate men... Lulu or something? Sadly it no longer exists but it has definitely been done.

[–]_electrafireFDS Disciple 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

YES YES AND YES

[–]alien_aliceFDS Newbie 98 points99 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We’re getting there, sadly these are the same men who take it out on us through shaming and violence

[–]lightbringerlucy 154 points155 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

There's several species of lizards that only have females. They reproduce by mounting each other, through parthenogenesis- meaning their eggs don't need to be fertilized, but they still fuck and enjoy each other. There are no males. Life always finds a way. Men thinking they're needed while they continue to prove they're not fit to protect women or raise children isn't going to result in females lowering their standards, it'll just push for evolution that doesn't require a threat to its offspring. 💁‍

[–]electroloopRuthless Strategist 102 points103 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Praying i’m reincarnated into a lizard to avoid the mess of a gender that is men all together.

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Whoa! Which species are those?

And that last line you mentioned about protecting our children and keeping them safe from a threat? Wow! 💯💖

[–]Enough-Lingonberry-4FDS Newbie 77 points78 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Visit that incel website if you want to see those depressed losers crying. Its hilarious, lol.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 63 points64 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The lack of self-awareness is astonishing to me. You'd think at least one of them would eventually go: "Wow, maybe I need to go to therapy and hit the gym...?"

[–]Ms_AuricchioFDS Newbie 264 points265 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Has this attitude ever worked on anyone? I think even the most pickmeisha out there would react badly to an answer like this one.

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 165 points166 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol yes not even in my most pickme days would I have taken this man seriously after this

[–]pinkcityscapeFDS Newbie 233 points234 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

He’s been brainwashed by the scrotesphere and thought this garbage would work irl lmao even the most extreme pick me would’ve rejected him...

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For real 😂 even in my worse pickme and kink days I would have laughed him into the dirt for speaking to me like that. So delusional

[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice 94 points95 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"scrotesphere" 🤣😂💀 omg I love this and am going to use that now.

[–]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie 232 points233 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

Great tips to weed out controlling behavior very early on. Giving another suggestion, stating right off the bat that you don't want that restaurant or day or time, talking about altering your physical appearance like cutting your hair, etc. Really small things that will openly show how much the other person respects your boundaries, opinions and bodily autonomy. I love it!

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 168 points169 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely! I read another one awhile ago (I can’t find the link) about making up a small insecurity you have and see how quickly they start negging you about it. I think they called it the “Blood in the Water” test

[–]fdsThrowaway2021FDS Newbie 86 points87 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Yes, but give away something that isn’t a real insecurity of yours. So when/if he’s negging about it you won’t lose your balance. ‘Reveal’ something that never really bothered you or even something insignifiant you actually like.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes! I haven’t had the chance to try this out yet but definitely will if I need to.

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've suddenly become afraid of heights. Let the fuckery begin!

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What a great tip, I will definitely try this if I ever date again because having one of these horrible men knowing any of my genuine insecurities is not good.

[–]eveloeFDS Apprentice 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Isn’t that what “making up” means?

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah!

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow this is so true. I remember mentioning something I was a bit insecure about and almost immediately the guy started quite viciously teasing me about it. He ended up being absolutely horrible. The only problem with this technique is that the clever ones like my ex will pretend to be kind and loving for the first few months before then turning on you and being nasty and critical about your insecurities. But it would definitely weed out the average player.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup! That’s the idea. Make up something fake that you aren’t insecure about and see how fast they attack you on it.

[–]mackenzie013FDS Newbie 47 points48 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is a great idea. I’ll often do that when the guy seems too controlling.

The guy I’m dating now is so different in this regard; for our first date he made multiple thoughtful options and asked me what I’m most comfortable with. He also volunteered his information (without me prompting), so that I won’t be meeting a complete stranger.

Even if it doesn’t workout between us, he definitely set the bar higher for everyone else! 😅

[–]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wish I could take credit! These are all ideas I've accrued from FDS.

And that sounds awesome, I love when people put in the effort. Definitely a big plus when dating.

[–]Heather619FDS Newbie 83 points84 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Yep, I have to naturally do this because I work odd hours. Wanna date someone with a doctorate? Well, it's going to feel like scheduling a doctor's appointment. Stay mad.

[–]AocwannabeFDS Apprentice 64 points65 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. I give men 10-15 minute windows for them to call or FaceTime. It has been a revelation! About 50% are like, “Ok. Cool. I’ll call you 8-8:15 PM on Tuesday.”

But the other 50%😱

“I need more time to see what you have to offer me.” (Verbatim) 🤮🤮

“That is not going to work for me because you are making it a speed date and I am a Capricorn and I don’t like being controlled.” 🤮😂🤣

Those are two of the most outrageous but it has been appalling to see how many men cannot handle even the simplest boundaries around time. They really think I want to listen to strangers pontificate on the phone.

Remember ladies, talk is cheap. Some of these 🤡🤡 gets validation from talking your ear off and building false intimacy. I don’t get ghosted because I don’t allow men to call/ text me endlessly.

[–]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm an extremely flexible person and very laid back over these kinds of things. I've recently realized that trying to be so accommodating all the time makes me a total doormat for the women I'm into.

I've recently set a boundary around time: We agreed on a time, she never replied to confirm, the time came and went so I did other things, she messaged me late asking if I was still cool to meet later. I told her no and that I made other plans as she never got back to me. It was scary but felt great too, to not let myself be something someone can get around to eventually, you know, when they feel like it. Also she came back to me and apologized for not respecting my time and asked me if I'd be willing to reschedule.

The boundary setting and control testing are really great tips to hear. I'm going to take your tip as well, regarding a set time frame to chat/call.

[–]AocwannabeFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Good for you🥳🥳 Boundaries make it very clear who will respect and see you and who will treat you like a convenience. People are on their best behavior at first so if they can’t get the basics I don’t waste time blocking. They are interviewing for a place in your life so notice if they act accordingly.
Also, I’m hetero so the dynamic might be a little different but unless a man has established a time, date and location I assume that there is no date. I do not check in or send a reminder (I’m not his mom or therapist). I just make other plans as you were wise to do. FDS is great because it illuminates that when you have hobbies you love you will not let random people come into your life and disrupt the joy.😘

[–]jargon_explosionFDS Newbie 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great post! And yes that is why I love FDS.

For the dynamic, I think it is a bit different. There's more conversation and back and forth on planning, in my experience. I typically take the lead because I love finding new places to go or new things to do and I'm pretty straightforward. But many FDS principles still apply.

For the reminder, I tend to like to confirm the day of. But you make a good point.

[–]Heather619FDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Add "mention of zodiac sign" to the list of red flags, that goes for any gender.

[–]AocwannabeFDS Apprentice 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m an astronomy buff that lives in California so I’ve had to train myself to not get apoplectic at the frequency that astrology is dropped like it’s credible knowledge. 😂😂

[–]CuntWaffeFDS Newbie 194 points195 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

"Happy for the opportunities I create" You mean bad vibes, shitty coffee, and mediocre dick? No thanks.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 103 points104 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I would rather sit in a 6 hour accounting lecture than spend 10 minutes on a date with someone like this

[–]lunarfulminateFDS Newbie 91 points92 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

At least you get a certification and increased earning potential from the accounting lecture. With this guy, you're lucky you don't end up buried in his backyard.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn, you’re absolutely right!!

[–]ChocoBananzaFDS Apprentice 32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would rather sit in a 6 hour accounting lecture AGAIN than spend a minute on a scrote like this.

[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Opportunity to dump his ass.

[–]rayne_chiFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He’s creating the opportunity for him to get laid lol He said walk to his place from there; that’s why he’s mad she changed the location. Mf wants to use her and have her be happy with it.

[–]candyfox84FDS Newbie 184 points185 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

"No man wants a" BYE

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 163 points164 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Lmao do men think this is gonna fly with us now ? We never liked the traditional role that was given to us by you, you think we’re gonna tolerate bullshit like this when we don’t have to ?😂

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 75 points76 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Seriously! Also like why even bother sending that message? Did he think she was going to beg for forgiveness or something? Lmao

[–]fresiparFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

he has seen it in the movies, so it must be how that works. porn movies.

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 1023 points1024 points  (34 children) | Copy Link

"I like my girls submissive" 🤢🤢🤢 This woman dodged a bullet. Big one...

Edit: Also in what universe do people normally go for a coffee and then straight to bed!? Wtf

[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 176 points177 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Apparently those walk dates tend to lead to that. 🤮

[–]cassettinaFDS Newbie 124 points125 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

So what are these walk dates that everyone is talking about? Ever single person I've dated, even the NVM, have always suggested dinner OR drinks at the least???

I havent dated since years before the pandemic so maybe its related to that?

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 46 points47 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Same. This stuff is mostly new to me too. Sounds like standard rp or mgtow protocol! And also used as a means of keeping a woman in her place & letting her know she doesn't mean anything to you, that she has to earn chivalry, basic manners and anything nice or good. That mindset that all women are just straight up evil until proven otherwise. It's beyond just vetting.

[–]cassettinaFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hah so I recently got asked out by someone who invited me to dinner this week. No "walk dates" but I'll be on the lookout lol

[–]kortiz46FDS Newbie 135 points136 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Scrotes suggest walk dates to display their unwillingness to spend any money or commit effort to any woman. Its not even remotely romantic and then they complain when a woman isn’t interested in being physical with them afterwards. Like yes there is no chemistry because you made no effort to woo her at all and did an activity we all did with our grandparents so we could spend time with them during lockdown. It’s not sexy to walk next to someone.

[–]sashimi_girlFDS Newbie 99 points100 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

“Let’s go for a walk in the park”. Dude just say you can’t afford a date and move on...I’m not a puppy.

[–]AwkwardDisaster4150FDS Newbie 26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Once some guy asked me to go for a walk in the park with him. I didn’t realize that he thought it was a date, because a walk in the park is not a date. I thought he was just lonely and wanted someone to talk to, so I went for a walk with him, and then was talking about my boyfriend and he got kind of upset and was like, why did you come on a date with me if you’re not single? And I was like, I didn’t...?

[–]lemur00FDS Newbie 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is exactly how I would take it as well. Asking me to go for a walk is something my mom does for company while getting some exercise. Who would ever think this was a date?

[–]lunarfulminateFDS Newbie 112 points113 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

IME walk dates lead to emboldened scrotes messaging you half an hour later demanding anal.

[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 47 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I went on a walk date and the guy lectured at me the whole time, seriously...he didn’t even notice I looped around back to my car.

[–]softensonicFDS Newbie 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good lorrrrrrd.

[–]ThrowawayCompassionFDS Newbie 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

“Sure scrote bend over and I’ll get a cactus”

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously?! Wow, talk about entitlement! 🤦🤬

[–]Ancient-CucumberFDS Newbie 31 points32 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well you're just walking in a park and then you trip and stumble and the next thing you know you land in his bedroom doing spread eagle on his d.

[–]kortiz46FDS Newbie 161 points162 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He has this crazy complete narrative in his mind about her before he even meets up with her!! It goes to show he doesn’t even think of women as people with their own feelings and reactions and preferences. Just little robots to play a part in his narcissistic fantasy

[–]sleutherinoFDS Newbie 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Main character syndrome all the way. He doesn't want a girlfriend, he wants supporting characters to enhance him.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 121 points122 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls, plural. (To say nothing of infantilizing.)

Guy is blatantly admitting he wants a stable, not a relationship, and expects her to jump through hoops to ride his mediocre community dick.

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 553 points554 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

if a woman doesn’t lack basic self respect I don’t want her 😤👎

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 288 points289 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know this is a joke but I literally had a guy say that to me almost word for word 😂😂😂😂

[–]heziedFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

the casual sex part doesn't indicate lack of self respect, but meeting with him after that message probably would

[–]Cat_With_The_FurFDS Newbie 91 points92 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

“My girls” yikes

[–]FitncurlyFDS Disciple 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dogs are supposed to submit to men—not women. Outta his goddamn mind 🥴.

[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I know, right?! Unfortunately a few of my not so close pickme friends did this during lockdown. Actually, a walk first, then propositioned via text, then agreed to have the guy over. Had a few months casual with them and basically told the guy they want a relationship or they are done. So now they are buying houses and having babies already... I just don’t feel it’s going to end well

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, that's not gonna end well. I refuse to be someone's girlfriend unless they're serious about me without me having to put my foot down. I think if they say yes after being given a choice of a serious relationship or nothing, it's most likely because they would have problems finding a new woman to use.

[–]playtonotloseFDS Newbie 134 points135 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I remember reading a comment a while ago that fits here:

This ain't Build-A-Bitch.

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 578 points579 points  (52 children) | Copy Link

OMG just this morning my friend showed me a psycho's dissertation from a dating app because she suggested a video chat first thing. He was going on an on and OOOOOOOOON the way these entitled idiots do. You know what she did ... she blocked him mid paragraph 😃 I was so happy to hear that she did that! She just naturally has FDS standards.

oh and he ACTUALLY Said the words "everybody else wants to learn about me apart from you". Paragraphs and paragraphs about how it's NoT LoGIcaL to want to talk on the phone before texting. Oh and "he has a degree in psychology"

I can't imagine having a douche-nozzle like this in my life for on hour, let alone date him.

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 245 points246 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Spent half a day telling her how stupid her idea was, meanwhile they could have already have a 15 minute call and get it over with. 😄 He's aware he's a POS, but wants to have a better chance to deceive her into thinking the opposite.

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 60 points61 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I just imagine him going on and on about himself because all these women just "want to to learn about him" the magnificent. 🙄 This is why we don't say anything to them before you end it, she had said "doesn't seem like we're a match, good luck" before he went off into his word vomit before she blocked him mid-paragraph. Men can't stand rejection and will try to keep your attention while they "teach a women" why she's not allowed to reject him. Save your tears scrotes, block! :D

She was worried he might be some crazy stalker and try to find her on social media. I told her he's probably moved on to gaslighting a new woman already.

[–]bleda_princeznaFDS Newbie 47 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Very true. I used to explain in detail what went wrong and why I wanted to stop speaking to someone. I was naive enough to think they'd take it as constructive criticism and think about it, learn from it. Some of it at least.

But no, I got called all sorts of names and adjectives and was basically told my reasons make no sense. Well, what a waste of mind space and time. So I stopped replying to people. Again, name calling and I got spammed by "why are you not replying!?" types of messages, trying to guilt me into texting back.

Learned my lesson, now I block and delete. Life is peaceful again. One of the most useful things this sub has taught me.

[–]TigreImpossibileFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I went on a date at Christmas and I just wasn't feeling the chemistry or the way this dude kept trying to push past my boundaries and insisting stuff, so I declined a second date.

We had talked on the phone and texted on WhatsApp and Insta, so when I told him I wasn't interested and blocked him, I actually FORGOT to do it on Bumble... I got like 3 giant paragraphs telling me why I'm wrong like its cute and he actually told me I expect a Hollywood romance and my expectations are too high 🙄🙄😆

I replied that he proved my point; you just circumvented blocks on 3 other platforms after I politely declined date number 2 to tell me I don't know what I think and feel. I'm 42-years-old. I am very sure if I want to fuck someone or not and whether I think they are tedious. That's all. Good bye.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 159 points160 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

"he has a degree in psychology"

There's nothing in the world more insufferable than a man with an undergraduate degree in psychology.

[–]TheDameWithoutASmileFDS Newbie 40 points41 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ah, I raise you an undergrad in philosophy.

Grad students in philosophy? Wonderful. Amazing. Chill.

Undergrads in philosophy? Insufferable. Will not shut up. Think they've unlocked the universe.

[–]SmolfrendFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I second this 100%. The pseudo-philosophers are just a nightmare. Bonus if they're "spiritually buddhist". Can't stop smelling their own farts.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol just as I was hitting the submit button, I was totally thinking "except a man who studied philosophy".

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

hahah so true!

[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao

[–]ThrowawayCompassionFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol why is this so true

[–]shoesfromparis135FDS Apprentice 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Except for a psych major who dropped out of college with three classes left and thinks he knows more than “real” psychologists.

[–]sleutherinoFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dudes like this always think they are literally the most profound motherfuckers too. Yet, the ability to accurately self reflect is completely lost on them.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Men everywhere: "Oh, you're working on a doctorate? Let me teach you what I know of your subject from two semesters of community college."

[–]shoesfromparis135FDS Apprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are literally like this and I have no idea why.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my god. Sounds like she really dodged a massive bullet there.

[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist 71 points72 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

He's catfishing her. That's why he doesn't want to video chat. If a guy refuses that, block him. Better yet, don't use these stupid apps in the first place.

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yah i quit the apps for good about a year ago. My friends are still on them and it's mostly like "So I met this guy! .......... never mind".

[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ha, I found that when I was using the apps, it was never worth it to tell any of my friends about the men I met, because most of them were so awful that I never gave them a second date...

[–]Hopefully987 37 points38 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If everyone wants to learn about him why is he still single?

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

haha he probably thinks no woman is good enough for him!

[–]idiosyncraticg1FDS Apprentice 31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is a great way to dodge bullets! I have been using this same tactic. Most normal guys agree to have a call/video chat first, but I’ve had a few guys get extremely defensive and offended when I don’t want to meet them irl right away. I see these reds flags immediately and stop wasting time on them!

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They rely on in-person pressure tactics for success. You having the chance to vet them (even having the audacity to want to vet them) out of reach, enrages them.

[–]bitch_not_itFDS Newbie 30 points31 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Maybe it was one of those maladjusted incel freaks doing one of their "Chadfishing" and a videochat immediately ruins the entire thing... thats why he didn't want to do it. The dissertation.. that's just the incel's unfiltered mind on display... self important misogyny and pseudoscientific diatribes is their thing

In all seriousness, I wish that "Chadfishing" was much more well known.. I wish news outlets would cover this so girls and women know to protect themselves.

*Just for those who are familiar with "Chadfishing" - when incels use a another man's pics (usually a model/influencer off instagram which are harder to reverse image search) with the objective to :

- damage the girl's self esteem by matching and then saying insulting things to her

- get nudes, to share on incel forums or doxx her, or sending to her friends/fam

- waste her time in general by stringing her along or having her meet somewhere -- what they consider 'top tier' accomplishment is be there and take pictures of her or record her to share on incel forums

You can imagine how this could escalate with them.. how much more they could push each other to do with Chadfishing

LADIES ON OLD, PLEASE STAY SAFE - ALWAYS VERIFY WITH VIDEO CHAT FIRST!!!!!!!

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

What?! This is fucking psychotic! Literally, do they not have jobs and hobbies, a literal life!?? Recording and sharing a woman being stood up, that's just stalking and creepy. What a bunch of colossal losers, yes the news should definitely exposed these guys.

[–]bitch_not_itFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Literally they do not, and they're malignant spoiled POS... they post these tagged as "Lifefuel" in their disgusting forums

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ewwwwww. This is why men get no smiles from me. NO SMILES!!

[–]TagTrogFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I needed this today.

[–]bitch_not_itFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

❤️Im so glad! Youve inspired me to try to make a post about Chadfishing.. there seriously needs to be more awareness about this!

[–]Hoarse_GirlFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sorry for the late reply, it has been a busy week and this is my first time getting on reddit. Does FDS need a post about chadfishing? Because my seriously awful brother in law is a incel scrote who has done chadfishing in the past, he has a doctorate in psych and being his sister in law has been quite the education (and clown show). I think you and I could put together an informative post if you felt like collaborating.

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wowwwww....

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

After a very bad date a friend recommended ALWAYS having phone dates before going on any in person dates with a man. I started doing this last year and I ended up having about 9 phone dates and no in-person dates, because the phone call revealed none of them were suitable to date. One guy started instantly swearing as part of his every day language but he was also just kind of angry and bitter, another guy was way too feminine and neurotic, one guy disagreed with me on absolutely everything whilst believing he was 'correcting my views' and asked me if I'd like another phone call (no thanks!), one guy was too intense and was trying to rush me then he disappeared when I expressed my doubts, one guy wasted my time by chatting for ages before saying he actually just wanted to go travelling round the world alone and 'not be held back by anyone because his ex had held him back' and so on and so forth. I was very glad not to have gone out to meet any of them and had bad dates. A few said they just wanted to meet up and didn't want a phone call which was a dealbreaker because I don't want one of those men who refuse to ever talk on the phone. I think the man should always be focused on making sure the woman feels comfortable and safe, since dating is much riskier for us, so if they are refusing to accommodate us by at least having a phone call or video call first, and going to a location where we are comfortable, then it's a very bad sign.

[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh god help the world if he ends up as Psychologist...honestly, i think psych is very outdated anyway especially when it comes to relationships. The only good therapists are those who are trained in domestic violence and abuse, of and personality disorders.

Anyway I digress! Good on your friend for being so strong!

I once had a guy who rescheduled a date on me, and then when I hadn’t responded in half a day (because you know, like, I have a life). He ranted at me “what an arrogant, entitled and ignorant person” I was for not responding soon enough to HIS rescheduling. Blocked.

[–]TigreImpossibileFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He's probably a big huge ugly catfish. WTF is wrong with wanting to do a video chat first up? Both parties get to see the other. Great way to vet. Glad she was so swift with the BLOCK 👊🏼

[–]spinafloraFDS Newbie 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is having a degree in psychology but not being a practicing psychologist a red flag? I think it might be!

[–]i2aminspiredFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

for on hour

Dude... I wouldn't make it passed five minutes.

[–]eveloeFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He’s ugly and he knows it. Or he was hoping to coerce her into sex.

[–]madamejesaistoutFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"everybody else" -- does he mean bots? Or sex workers?

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently he's the only man online who is getting matches and women just swooning and sling shooting their panties in his directions! According to scrotes everywhere MeN hAVe iT sO hArD 🥲

[–]LadieLemonFDS Newbie 353 points354 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I like my girls to be feminine, submissive, cooperating, happy for the opportunities that I create

Translation: I'm a sociopath who hates women! Now let me abuse you, fleshlight.

🤢🤮🖕

She handled it great, though! Block, delete, next 💅

[–]NAthrowaway0613FDS Newbie 106 points107 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My dad always taught me a similar tactic to this. When a man is planning a date, change a small, insignificant detail and watch how he reacts. If he says how about dinner Friday night at 6:30 pm you change something small, like, can we do 6:45? Or I’m unavailable Friday, how about Saturday? You do this during the planning process, before anything is set in stone.

If he melts the fuck down you cancel the date, because it shows he expects you to bend and fit to his schedule no matter what. If he’s cool and accommodating he is at least worthy of a date

[–]MissIncongruousNYFDS Newbie 317 points318 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

They are out there ladies. I had a similar experience once after telling a man I did not like his first date idea and preferred another location. I got 2 pages of texts from him about how messed up I am and how he is a catch and how I am messing up this great opportunity...oh and I'm crazy and a psycopath.

All because I said "no" to going to some secluded lake where he hides a canoe and no one knows about.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 173 points174 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

WTFFFFF??? Why would any man think it’s appropriate to invite a woman to be alone with him in the woods somewhere?!

[–]-pop-fizz-clink 161 points162 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

So many of the do - it's incredibly tone deaf. I've been invited to walk in the woods, to a guys house(first time meeting/don't know this guy), to go for a drive...in his car. None of these are romantic and they all sound terrifying. They just want to do something free and see if they can get laid. It's so glaringly obvious but I think they fancy themselves rather smart (" there's a pandemic and there's nothing else to do/everything is closed" is the angle they're using for this. But setting up a nice picnic could be a lovely alternative. But that requires a bit of money and effort and that's just not what dudes want to do anymore. It's sad but this is the general quality we're dealing with.

[–]The_PyramidionPickmeisha™️ 38 points39 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

There's also that subset of guys that KNOW their low effort walk in the woods to their favorite six foot deep ditch is creepy af and then make "jokes" about how their momma will vouch they aren't serial killers or something. It's like the pandemic enables us to watch evolution in real time.

[–]-pop-fizz-clink 28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, 100%. They're only looking to get laid.

I had a guy tell me him inviting me to his basement is fine, because we know each other. No, we don't, we went to highschool together and I'm a year older. I know of you, similar of how I know of Kim Kardashian. But do I know either of you? No. He then said he'd never "do anything" because he "has a sister".

Taken from the gospel of AOC, I said "having a sister doesn't make you a decent man. And I'm not going to find out behind closed doors, with you as the only other person there, if you're decent or not." He got it. Never messaged again!

[–]Panda_player19FDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've had multiple guys make the joke about "I promise I'm not a serial killer/rapist". Like, maybe that would be funnier if I didn't have to actually worry about you being either one of those things! Why do men think it's okay to joke about the safety of women?

[–]MissIncongruousNYFDS Newbie 37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Beats me. But I'm the psychopath! Lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–]immortallogicFDS Apprentice 37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because his intentions were clearly not good. Hence the seclusion.

[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Got a psychiatrist once asked me to go on a drive with him.

On the first meet.

Blocked & deleted his ass pronto

[–]Panda_player19FDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was on the dating app scene for a while before I met my current partner. So many guys would see that I enjoyed hiking on my bio and request our first date be a hike. How do guys not realize how much of a serial killer it makes them sound like? "Hey, I know that you don't know my last name, the car I drive, where I work, or anything about me but I think we should go into the woods, where no one else is around, to determine our 'connection'". Thanks, but no thanks, I'd rather not be on an episode of Dateline

[–]mackenzie013FDS Newbie 61 points62 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Oh, this guy invited me to Hawaii for a first date ..also he wanted to rent a van to drive around and explore.

How about no? I’m not going to a foreign country with a complete stranger, exploring remote areas in a rented van! 😳

He was sooooo offended I said no and couldn’t comprehend why I’d pass on such an amazing “opportunity”. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–]Exsqueeze_mehFDS Apprentice 34 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Clearly you're "not spontaneous" enough and you definitely "take yourself too seriously" 😂

[–]mackenzie013FDS Newbie 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He actually used those two so that’s his words exactly! 😂😂😂😂

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I had a man I was talking to on a dating app message me asking if I wanted to go for a drive around in his car at night after 9pm. Quite a few of them ask immediately if I want to meet up, with pretty much no conversation at all 'because they like to talk in person rather than on the app' ugh. It's amazing how many of them think suggesting scary, dangerous and boundary violating activities would be appealing. Unfortunately some women still say yes to these sorts of suggestions when they have no boundaries and low self esteem.

[–]mackenzie013FDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that’s a real shame!!

Though I think, sometimes, it’s also ignorance a bit. A friend of mine did that once and got assaulted pretty much; then he dropped her off in the middle of nowhere and she had to walk back home (after he realized he’s not getting a bj nor sex).

After speaking to her, as I was trying to figure out why she’d agree to that; she said she never thought men could be dangerous and that they’d do such things. She grew up quite sheltered and she never really learnt stranger-danger and never had a bad experience before. We travelled together a few times and there were occasions where I was just like “nope.. let’s go, let’s go”.

[–]Chemical-Source-9600FDS Newbie 85 points86 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Apparently asking to go to a different coffee shop for a date means women are masculine... This guy is a piece of work

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 59 points60 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

only men are allowed to disagree 😂

[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 81 points82 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He'll be in her DMs, after a few weeks begging for a second chance lol.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, without a doubt 😂

[–]freelancepsychicFDS Newbie 67 points68 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

All the red flags he mentions are about himself lol

[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice 60 points61 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was about to craft a detailed response to multiple problematic sections of his message, but then decided that there is simply TOO MUCH TO UNPACK here...

So all I'm gonna say is: what a loser 🤣🤣🤣

[–]N2GenFDS Newbie 58 points59 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Happy for the opportunity to have coffee, walk to his pad, be his flashlight, probably not come for a while if at all, find herself in a situationship while he either becomes more unbearable or plays community dick with her health on the line.

Lolz, this motherfucker.

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. His entire wish is for a situation that suits him and him alone and actually inconveniences the woman. He expects the woman to have sex with him straight away on the first date, but then has no plans to commit so she just becomes some woman he can have sex with when he wants with no commitment, and she's not allowed to have thoughts, preferences, opinions or needs. He seems to have a pathologically selfish mindset.

[–]amhran_oicheFDS Newbie 54 points55 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He fr was looking for AT MOST a fwb. Of course he likes them submissive. 🙄 What a tool.

[–]PartypuppersFDS Apprentice 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I like her reply lol. That dude is on one.

[–]ProtoetypeFDS Newbie 46 points47 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is like nightmare stuff to me. I feel smothered really easily in average dating, reading that really disturbs me.. and they're not even dating!

[–]randowordgeneratorFDS Newbie 50 points51 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This dummy is looking for a sexdoll.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Getting major Ted Bundt vibes

[–]Dense_CattleFDS Newbie 49 points50 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Men will seriously call women entitled and spoiled then expect the full girlfriend experience for exactly 1 $3 cup of coffee.

[–]GutterchaosFDS Newbie 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They’ll even get mad about the $3 lol

[–]CatSweetsFDS Newbie 42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I saw the post on the nice guys sub and I knew it would appear here sometime 🤭

FDS once again is proven right by men.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL

[–]Apricot_IbexFDS Newbie 42 points43 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like their “coffee date” could’ve ended with him dumping her body at a landfill. She’s right- he’s a sociopathic POS and deserves to have his name plastered all over the internet as a warning to other women.

[–]TwirlingSquirrelFDS Newbie 38 points39 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“My girls”=no one. What an entitled loser. “Walk to my place”...low effort idiot

[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I cringed with each and every word. 🤢

Let’s review our scrote checklist:

  1. Entitlement- Feels affronted that she asked for something else than what he asked for and shows he feels entitled to have his way. CHECK
  2. Negging- calls her “masculine” and bossy, etc. CHECK
  3. Presumptuous- assumes that if she agrees to walk (🤣🤣🤣) to his place, it means she will have sex with him. CHECK
  4. Dangles carrots about a future: IF she hooks up with him, then there “might” be a future together. Barf and CHECK
  5. Narcissistic- Tells her what she needs to be/how to act to “win” him. 🤡 It never occurs to him that he needs to bring good qualities into the relationship as well.
  6. Pursue then retreat pattern- thinks that withdrawing his attention and his time will create anxiety within her and she will will be more likely to do whatever wants and accept bare minimum or less. We see how well that worked out for him.🤣😂CHECK

LVMs and NVMs are so pathetic and predictable.

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 103 points104 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Typical red pill/PUA/incel scrote.

[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 47 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if I never encounter a man who has been brainwashed by the manosphere I will be one lucky ass woman 🙏

[–]1Here4BachFDS STRATEGY COACH 153 points154 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

This is the most clear cut example of how red pill “methods” don't work. He got all this stupid shit from red pill. But if the red pill sub saw this they would say, “He got rejected because he didn't implement red pill right!” even though this is EXACTLY how red pill tells men to act.

Red pill really has men out here looking stupid and embarrassing themselves.

[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie 77 points78 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men on reddit keep saying men as a whole are more depressed and miserable than ever yet fail to see the correlation between that and the fact TRP and increasingly violent porn have become the norm for the past 15 years. You'd think by now they'd realize the very tactics they swear by DON'T WORK.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 66 points67 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I guarantee that that text message is a copy paste from a red pill page. He probably sends that exact text every time a girl rejects him.

[–]1Here4BachFDS STRATEGY COACH 101 points102 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh definitely. What he's doing is what red pillers call “Holding Frame”. He's attempt to act in a masculine way (because agreeing and compromising with a woman makes you a submissive beta /s) by being assertive and dominate about his cafe choice but instead he looks like a petulant jackass for being so triggered by her something so insignificant.

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow! Even more evidence that they need therapy and some serious maturing growing up process of some kind!

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It annoys me how these misogynists have co-oped the red pill concept from the Matrix film. Red pill just means truth, but their ideology isn't about truth, it's about manipulating and psychologically abusing women into situationships that don't work for us at all. There is nothing red pilled about their behaviour, it should be called the Misogyny Pill instead.

[–]alien_aliceFDS Newbie 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What woman would risk passing up the opportunity for a $4 cup of coffee, bad conversation, and an underlying pressure to have sex the whole time? Women these days fr

[–]karabnpFDS Newbie 29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

These days, I don’t even bother to respond when such drivel is stated/suggested. I leave them on read for days/weeks, before blocking/unmatching.

If I received that message, it would have given me a solid 2 minute laugh.

Basically, homeboy wants a child/slave as a “girl”. Not an actual adult woman.🥴

[–]WittyImprovementFDS Newbie 28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This guy is not looking for a girlfriend, he wants a subservient yes woman he can control. Good on her for taking the hints and yeeting

[–]99powerFDS Apprentice 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hints? He was throwing torpedoes! 🚀

[–]missisabelarcherFDS Apprentice 29 points30 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

"Opportunities I create"...? Laughing at the idea of a scrote thinking he's being creative or proactive when it's so laughably low-effort.

Um, yeah...contribute to the cure for cancer, build a socially responsible enterprise that employs and treats workers fairly, help foster animals, volunteer in your community gardens, organize a drive to collect food and supplies for homeless people, making real and meaningful art. Or anything that shows a genuine ability to look beyond your self-interest and create something good in the world without feeling entitled to recognition or ego-stroking in return.

Those are the real opportunities to create, not a shortcut to getting your dick wet. The entitlement and misogyny of this guy is enough to make your ovaries shrivel up from repulsion.

[–]bunsmoriaFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Exactly! I was like wtf is he on about?

[–]missisabelarcherFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"I'm the Michaelangelo of scrotes!" 🤣

[–]GreatOrchidAmbitionFDS Newbie 26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am actually aghast at the level of delusion this man holds. Tiny pp

[–]SayNadFDS Apprentice 23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

happy for the opportunities I create

What are you an Apple CEO in disguise or something? What opportunities?

[–]girludontbringhomeFDS Newbie 28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

change ✍️ the ✍️ date ✍️ location ✍️ and ✍️ see ✍️ how ✍️ he ✍️ reacts ✍️

[–]Waste-WinFDS Newbie 26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's so sad we live in the same planet as this idiot.

[–]nymira-1FDS Newbie 21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If he doesn’t take that weak male ego right back to the man*sphere. Also stop calling grown women girls... in less you’re a creep and that’s what’s you’re looking for

[–]LongluckFDS Newbie 19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Any guy who says he wants a submissive girl is just a walking sack of red flags.

[–]Woman_on_PauseFDS Newbie 20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's as if they are looking for the porn stars they watch. Hmmmm...

[–]Woman_on_PauseFDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sidebar: Do you all think that at some point men forget that they are acting? Put aside all the horrible things, but they more than likely aren't like the part they are playing. I think men forget this.

[–]SearchLightsIncFDS Apprentice 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine writing that and thinking "She wont be able to resist my assholeAlphaness"

Big win scrote! Keep advertising your assertiveness..

[–]deep_faked_beansFDS Newbie 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how his paragraph on 'look what you're missing out on!!!' is really just 'because you won't agree with everything I say, you don't get to be my regular fuck toy, if I felt like it that is'. Also a good idea to bring something like this up casually to see if you get a crazy response like this.

[–]Emergency-Feed8216FDS Apprentice 84 points85 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

What?? I'm tail end of gen x and I'm honestly baffled by what's happening with men now. It's like they've all gone trailer park in half a generation..

The gross wrinkly married old toads at work aren't complaining though. For the price of a "meh" bistro dinner and a bit of binge drinking in a "meh" hotel lobby they can get banged in a parking lot by an over-awed PickMe half their age while their wives and kids are at a Build-a-Bear birthday party.

[–]azureangel35FDS Apprentice 55 points56 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ikr? When I was in my 20s a modicum of effort was expected to be put forth for pussy. 3 decent dates at least. I feel like GenZ ladies (really any woman actively dating) should straight up go on a sex strike-men need hard consequences for acting like this.

[–]Emergency-Feed8216FDS Apprentice 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, mass moratorium.

[–]donttextme_kFDS Newbie 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They love telling us they have psychopathic traits without directly telling us

[–]jasmine-blossomFDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why do we keep letting these losers remain anonymous? They deserve to have their names and faces accompany their own words.

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

His deets are all over the twitter :)

[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie 45 points46 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Submissive, cooperative, and happy for whatever you throw at them? Ah so you're looking for either a broken dog, a person who doesn't think for themselves possibly out of prior trauma, or a person who has low self esteem and/or is desperate.

A moment of silence for whatever girl he ends up marrying.

Your friend handled it well, but I wish she would've laughed at him instead then blocked.

In my experience, the type of man who follows Red Pill theory like this is deeply insecure inside, and often hates themselves. So they put on this controlling, manipulative, borderline abusive facade. Girls who seem independent, they just label as "not girlfriend material" but if you laugh at them, it hits them where it hurts.

Shame is often a more powerful motivator than reason, and sometimes even more powerful than even threats.

[–]AocwannabeFDS Apprentice 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bring shame back 2021 🌺

[–]goldiebabyFDS Newbie 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"potentially something good on a regular basis" WTF does that even mean? She gets the privilege of being your fck buddy? Sometimes? When you are horny?

Also, his offer is to have a drink and then hook up right away? The audacity is just amazing!

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've never seen such a deluded porn-script written out. Men have truly lost the plot.

[–]FreshStarter0FDS Newbie 43 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I love her answer and this attitude is one of my level-up goals. I particularly admire it because I still have a tendency to overexplain myself to men in cases where there is really no point, such as this one. My "programmed" response would be to call him out in a way that is too specific and essentially explaining what he did wrong, which is problematic because I would essentially give him tools to better manipulate the next woman he asks out.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Totally! I used to do that too. Now I just respond “gross” and block immediately

[–]VanessaViewsFDS Newbie 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"happy for the opportunities I create" bahahaha. Like she can't go to a cafe by herself

[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haa

[–]ciciplumFDS Newbie 40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolute insanity that men are really out here thinking this is an acceptable reasonable and "rational" way of communicating. Crazy.

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Since when did being feminine mean just towing the line and going along with whatever the heck the man wants and not having a mind of your own? Oh wait, that's the antiquated version!

Having a mind of your own and having your own opinions and thoughts and feelings about things means you're being masculine?! What a doof!

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. Tell me you a pathetic small man whose only hope at sex with a woman is finding one that is broken and damaged without telling me you are a pathetic small man.

[–]ketodietclubPickmeisha™️ 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I like girls to be feminine and submissive"

"I want a doormat."

[–]mxmoonFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. What a scrote! I went on a date with a (so far) HVM. He suggested we do an activity after dinner, it was physical and I wasn’t in the mood for it. His suggestion was so unexpected that I just started laughing and asked him: “Why?” And he said: “Nevermind. Not doing that!” We laughed it off and had a great first date after that. The man from OP’s post is a psycho.

[–]Human_Summer_1709FDS Newbie 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

TIL: If you're not willing to prostitute yourself to a complete stranger for around $5, you are disinterested, disrespectful, masculine, and bossy.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

$20-40 is a stretch though, a coffee date would be like $10 total 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[–]Human_Summer_1709FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're right! Somehow I read "drinks" and thought a bar. So prostituting yourself for around $4-5 😭

[–]angry_opossum_ladyThrowaway Account 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The entitlement is so surreal! Men really treat us like free prostitutes... take his offer, hook up and regularly give him something to stick his shriveled excuse of a dick in, HELL NO! I'm just happy this queen knows her worth and calls him out on his sociopathic bs

[–]i2aminspiredFDS Newbie 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nobody would miss this dude if he just suddenly disappeared.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

whaaaaaat.

Redpill red flags being dropped left, right and centre.

The fact that he is projecting so much toxic bullshit is quite funny actually. He thinks he comes across as "alpha" but he is actually a pedant.

Even Jordan Peterson, the manosphere's patron saint, declares that you need to find a woman you can contend with. A woman who challenges you - not some doormat who acquiesces to your demands.

"This trait makes a good wife - you want someone you can contend with"

https://youtu.be/LUZtJHA7DDw

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Wow that guy's comment is absolutely awful. He'd be better off dating a sex doll as it sounds like that's all he wants. I recently saw a documentary about how men from the Faroe Islands are going to the Philippines to find wives. At first I thought it was sweet because the documentary said it was due to lack of available women on the islands, but then when the men were interviewed it turned out they were really sexist and old fashioned and wanted wives from the Philippines 'because they cook and clean too' ie they wanted 1950s submissive wives who let them decide everything and put up with everything too. It's depressing that rather than supporting female equality, a lot of men actively seek out women from poorer countries who will forego female equality when marrying them because it's an escape from an even worse situation in their home country.

[–]TMac0601FDS Newbie 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They don't know Rosemarie. She's not having that disrespect.

[–]AineofTheWoodsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Who is Rosemarie?

[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

All they have is bad dick and audacity!

"I buy you a drink, and then you have sex with me!" Gross.

[–]kycakeFDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

males really don’t even care to hide how predatory and disgusting their preferences are. lmao. though it’s good for us cause we don’t waste our time with them.

[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of men on the original Reddit post were saying his only mistake was telling her what he thought.

But notallmen, amirite?

[–]RadenoughyetFDS Newbie 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He thinks he’s somehow entitled to hook up on the first date, after meeting at the coffee shop of his choice

[–]Achange_isagoodoneFDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That man is dangerous like my ex. Good for your friend. Avoid those man at all costs! I’ve learned my lesson and I am grateful I was able to free myself from the toxic person.

[–]secularwitchFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"happy for the opportunities I create"

Well, that's a fancy word for "my needs you have to fullfil"

[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice 17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Wow. I wish the narcs I dated had been so forthcoming about wanting this, then again they had a modicum of manners telling them that actually saying stuff like this is inappropriate.

[–]khaleesiqwnFDS Newbie 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ya, I was gonna say that even narcs wouldn’t come right out and say this shit right away lol. They’re generally smarter and more manipulative.

[–]GourmayFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was wondering if this guy had Borderline PD or psychopathy, but again, these people tend to appear quite normal on first approach. It's sad that this is probably just entitlement and not even a person with a disorder.

[–]New_Article7411Pickmeisha™️ 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He wants a free hooker, but she is "disrespectful and bossy'. Yup sociopath projection. She nailed it.

[–]crapcakes0987FDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jeez, how narcissistic can a person be??? He should be grateful he got any woman to talk to him.

[–]FitncurlyFDS Disciple 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

His nerdy lookin ass needs to take a fuckin seat and think 😂. What he lacks in looks he sure makes up in audacity though!

[–]tgxbjjbbnoFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The trash took out itself 👏 I’m using this next time!

[–]Dolphin_MoonFDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

jesus christ i am...actually laughing. who is this guy lmao. glad he showed his true colors

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I may listen to too much true crime, but I’d be kind of worried he that he had criminal intentions if he was so adamant about going to that particular business. I mean this beyond him just being a controlling freak. Lol.

[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's within walking distance to his place so just the usual rape.

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Right, right...business as usual...

[–]Hopefully987 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually had a scrote IM me on here when I was talking about giving up on OLD asking ne if I'm not chubby and if I'm cooperative. Blocked.

[–]bitch_not_itFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why doesn't he buy one of those Real Dolls and just shut the fuck up

[–]cece188FDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Potential for future power struggles” these men genuinely talk about women like they’re toddlers, or even dogs. Absolutely disgusting

[–]Ancient-CucumberFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, if a girl suggests a different place for a coffee, she obviously is Hitler or Mao Zedong or something. Better run away from that dictator asap!

[–]eveloeFDS Apprentice 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would say “yes, great, see you there”

“I’m five minutes away! Order me the mimosa 😘”

Then ghost. All from the comfort of my sofa. No booty cometh.

[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Too many women have been physically attacked or killed, because men were pissed at being rejected. Among other things, I’ve been hit in the head by a man I politely declined.

I’m not taking the risk of purposely pissing him off.

[–]lessadessaFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, I gagged.

[–]AttributumFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck-a-di-fuck-fuck!

I am sure that is a pick-up-artist. He is doing this with clear intention of manipulation. 100%

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Artist implies being somewhat successful at it 😂😂😂

[–]AttributumFDS Newbie 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

:D :D :D Good point - how about pick-up-attemptist?

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That sounds more like it 😂😂😂

[–]TriniGoldFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sociopathic af. For real.

[–]xsweaterxweatherxFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

HAHAHAHAHA WHAT THE FUCK who would outright admit those things?!

[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

His whole disseration screams, Small dick energy!! ahahahhahahhahah whoever in their right mind would agree with this guy is a lost cause.

[–]Half_HaltFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not gonna lie. I want to date her now & I'm a heterosexual woman. 🙌🙌

[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This sounds exactly like my ex. Couldn’t say “sorry I’m busy, can’t go for lunch today” or if my “yes” wasn’t enthusiastic enough ooof I’d better watch out. Glad I dipped out of that one.

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like a nightmare! Glad you’re free of him

[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol i LOOOVE her response

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And what site is this on?! Yikes!

[–]stripesonthecouchFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow just straight up saying he’s looking for a submissive woman... at least he’s honest lol! Allowed her to not waste any time with him haha

[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I just saw a profile of a 32 year old that said the person he quotes the most is Kevin Samuels and he hopes we “know how a woman should treat a man”. This guy has no degree and no job listed. Lol

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Barf

[–]vintagexroseFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dear god, ew.... that girl dodged a bullet.

[–]badbadnotbuenoFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is literally something Dennis (from always sunny in Philadelphia) would say 😂😳

[–]GeorgiaPeach_94FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm just here scrolling through the comments and I have no words to express how much I adore you all. Finding this sub full of amazing Queens is one of the best things that ever happened to me!

[–]savedempathFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats the manosphere talking lol. Its great on YouTube, doesn't help you get dates lol.

[–]little_sparrow152FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a lot of words to say "hey, how DARE you to not blindly agree to whatever i say! Your wishes and needs should be MY wishes and needs! Shame on you!"

Like... what a way expose how incapable of any sort of conflict or consideration you are. If he's like this, RUN! If he can't even deal with you wanting a different date, how will he react if you disagree bout big things? How will he react if you eventually turn out to have different opinions, and different interests?? Sociopath is pretty on point.

Honestly, wtf. Astonishing how many men out there are exactly like this, mistaking any sort of agency or just... trace of having a life apart from them as "unfeminine" and unattractive. how delusional do you have to be?

[–]RowbloksFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Him: "the kind of girl I want would be happy for the opportunities I create"

Also him: only creates opportunities to go to crappy cafes that his date doesn't like while expecting her to sleep with him on the first date so that they can possibly maybe later have not even a relationship but sOmeTHing GoOD rEgulARILY

That's a lot of words to say "my cheap ass wants a fwb aka free prostitute" lol what a pathetic scrote

The trash really took itself out on this one

[–]myeggsarebigFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They really have no problem saying it out loud like it’s 1920.

[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tendency to be masculine 🤔like...a human🤡

[–]seashellsupplierThrowaway Account 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He‘s not even looking for a relationship? Just a fwb-deal. And he‘s dumb enough to say that out loud. But some pick-me will come along and think they can change him.

[–]Charming-Bee-2337 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

To be completely honest, Id be sketched out if my dad told me this like.. yeah you know that because you did it or were like that??? Idk who even thinks of that. But good thing to know

[–]SmallBunny0FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol no he actually heard it when he was listening to the radio and told me that he thought that it was a good strategy. It just came up in conversation while me and my sister were complaining about the stupid shit men say and do on dates

[–]maskwearingbitch2020FDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This left me speechless & that NEVER happens. Is this guy for real?

[–]glittersparkles212FDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

SuBmIsSiVe 🥴

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

JESUS

[–]NikiBubblesFDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I like my girls (!) to be submissive (!!!)" -- can we just banish freaks who say crap like that from society?

[–]aenema46n2Throwaway Account 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugh he's looking for a pickme doormat to manipulate, control and abuse. Boy bye!!

I love her response to this clown🤡

[–]Onextto0FDS Newbie 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck.

[–]gravedestruct1onFDS Apprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

He looks like a turtle, I can’t

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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