The way a lot of LVM use the word “sex” strikes me as really weird. Some instances of this:

-Talking about “sex” as a thing that’s desired/owed/validating outside of any context

-“Sex” existing in some magical floating world outside of other aspects of human reproduction

-Sex as a need or something that proves one manhood (WTF)

-Using the same word to describe the heterosexual male experience of penetrative intercourse with zero risk of pregnancy as if it’s the same thing as the typical heterosexual female experience (“It’s so easy for women to get sex!”)

-Saying “intimacy” to mean “sex,” describing “sex” as the only way to communicate love and caring, or asking why in return for whatever they do for a woman she doesn’t give “what I want”

-Talk of having a “high sex drive” as if...like other humans don’t? Again, without any context of what kind of sex acts one who be engaging in, when, why, or with who- and again with a vaguely persecuted whiny tone of being sooooo depriiiiiived by chicks who just don’t uuuuuunderstand ones sensitive dick related feelings

-Just the general fixation on quantity over quality (How much you have sex/ whether you’re a virgin or not/ what your number is vs. whether the sex was any good or part of a positive human interaction at all).

Any one else noticing this, especially in advice questions by men or male (and sometimes pickmesha) writing on dating, marriage, and sexuality?