Since adopting many of FDS in my overall lifestyle, I have been hyperaware of sexism, negging and societal conditioning amongst other things.

The other day that song Miss Independent by Ne-Yo came to mind and I looked up the lyrics and he's praising a women for being independent but also for turning down any help from him and I quote "her favorite thing to say, don't worry I got it" like what in the pickmeisha is that????

( btw and even kelly clarksons song by the same name is telling women to change their fierce independence to fall in love)

Any other songs that you can think of that promotes this pickmeisha behavior?