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[β]galian84FDS Apprentice127 points128 points129 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup! All the pickme friends Iβve ever had canβt get a guy to commit to them (stuck as forever gfs or FWBs or situationships). OR theyβre in an unhappy marriage where the husband disrespects or emotionally/verbally abuses them.
[β]pipeuptopipedownFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But at least they got a man! /s
[β]SayNadFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Men will never ever appreciate when something is easy and when women cater to their every whim. They would say that that's what they want, but their actions and behavior is the complete opposite. They want something they can't get - they want to pursue and conquer, that's just how masculinity is.
Case in point - literally male lurkers going out of their way to harass FDS sub members. Logically speaking, why would they go out of their way trying (and failing miserably) to "educate" the members here when they can instead "educate" all the pickmes out there willing to agree and do their every bidding? What is it got their man-panties all twisted up?
And lets not start with countless pickme wife and mommy gf out there being cheated on multiple times with women who won't cater to the man's every whim. Guess who got the princess treatment?
[β]spicyspaFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think most women maybe a good 70% are Pickmes who just won a guy any guy. Lurkers can have their egos stroked all day long by the tons of Pickmes out there. I understand the need to look though because I used to do that on incel pages. Well I don't believe in BDSM I am at my core a masochist who gets off on getting pissed off by crazy people especially clueless disgusting men. I have no idea it's my kink please don't shame it lol.
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I believe that any woman who (knowingly) gets with a man who is in a relationship is automatically a pickme though. π€·ββοΈ
[β]SayNadFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A pickme if she is desperately "in love" with the cheating guy - this one will get treated similarly shitty btw.
But some women purposely aim for married/in relationship men because it stroke their ego. They will never clean after the men or anything, and have no problem dropping him if she found him no longer "fun". Think sugar baby or something. They are often highly narcissistic too. And I observe this type of mistress got the best treatment from the cheating man.
[β][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If a woman is pursuing a married / taken man for the ego stroke (male validation) then she is a pickme because she is stooping to the lowest level to be picked π€·ββοΈ
It doesn't matter whether she recieves the "best treatment". Low value behavior = low value person.
[β]SayNadFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to go by terminology, they are considered LVW (Low Value Woman) or NVW (Negative Value Woman).
Pickme (at least in FDS) are those who are desperate to be picked up by any men - hence they often display excessive attention seeking behavior and panders to men's every whim. Hence the term "pickme".
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[β]SayNadFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely trigger their caveman brain or some shit. It is definitely a men's thing - the only women I know who does this "educating" thing are narcissists. Men though, even HVM will be compelled to "give advice" even when you clearly don't ask for it.
[β]BeautifulMadness7FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The guy Iβm currently seeing literally just told me this last night.
[β]wrice05FDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is me and it's FINALLY making sense. I could never understand why when I worked so hard to be a good girl, to mold myself into what I thought he wanted, that I always got left behind. Now, I'm going to be lazier in relationships. I'm going to do less and demand more. And ten bucks says my relationship history is going to start turning around. Thank you, FDS.
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