Porn is creating ridiculous expectations for sex.

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The title says it all, and I am sure we are already aware of this.

Due to the influence of a porn, if a woman doesn't want to participate in certain acts she is called "boring" or a prude...

Things like anal are becoming normalized and a part of sex. I am not saying anal is bad or wrong but so many men are seeing it as something all women should want and like. I remember even being with a guy that was trying to convince me to do it cause he "loved butts." Its crazy how obsessive some guys are over it.

Also, women are called boring if they don't want to give a blow job. Me personally, I love doing it for the person I love. But I can see why some women would not want to do it. Women should not be ridiculed for not wanting to do certain acts. Of course when you are married you go out of your way to please this person, but that should be from both ends. But no one should feel bad for not wanting to do something they absolutely do not want to do.

Porn is making real sex seem "boring". Making love is boring now. Of course rough sex or kinky sex is good but everyone needs to make love now and then.

Also, I believe porn shapes men to like other things as well and it effects their preferences. I remember reading a post a couple days ago about a guy who watched BBW porn and tried to have sex with one in real life but got grossed out. Does anyone have any articles on stuff like this? Please feel free to share your own experiences and beliefs.