Prior to this, he simply said “would you be interested in a sunset/dinner date?” I replied “for sure!” After that, I asked him where he lived. That’s where THIS convo stems from. He went from “lol” to getting mad at me for asking for clarification regarding the date.

Simsira10 · 2020-12-27T15:00:03+00:00

He doesn't seem mad to me. I can misread the tone of texts sometimes, but this seems fine? If your gut is telling you to steer clear then trust it 100%. But please correct me, I'm so far from the dating scene right now. Maybe this is a yellow flag situation?

caffeine_inmyveins · 2020-12-27T15:03:25+00:00

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misty-muse · 2020-12-27T14:51:46+00:00

(I only took this screenshot to send to a friend and then I unmatched him. I didn’t think to post the whole convo here, sorry.)

I joined OLD to practice what I’ve learned here and what I’ve learned since leaving my ex.

I decided to share this because THE AUDACITY. Did he really think I would go out with him after that? LOL. And on a Monday night? We matched 5 minutes prior. I knew nothing about him. But that was all I needed to know. He is aggressive and I PASS.

ETA: Old me would’ve replied “Was that necessary? I wasn’t sure if you wanted to meet up so soon. I’m not interested in meeting you tomorrow.” BUT I DIDN’T. I’m not over explaining myself. I’m not replying to unnecessary aggression. I’m not putting up with it PERIOD. I’m proud of myself for that. Small wins.