As a former/still recovering pickmeisha, this was a huge step for me in employing FDS!! So there was this guy I had been casually sleeping with. I never messaged him, but sometimes he messaged me and honestly the sex was fine so I didn't mind. Today he messaged me about hooking up and I said sure. He said he was coming after work and I asked if he was going home first to shower. His response was NO!! I was taken aback and said but you're coming from work? And he said yes but office work. and I said well there's still ballsweat. And he said "not in the winter time."

Ladies, it hit me that THIS was the nasty behaviour I had been putting up with, and for what? Just-okay sex? With a man who doesn't even consider showering his nasty balls a prerequisite to getting down and dirty? I just told him "nah i'm good" and he said okay. I know this sounds pathetic but it was a huge step for me! Old pickmeisha-me would have said it was fine just to have the attention/company. My pickmeisha ways still actually have me feeling GUILTY for rejecting this guy.... I hope it will pass, but I'm super proud. Thank you FDS!!!