Reminder please to set healthy boundaries in your life. Boundaries are extremely important. Know what you want, what your are not comfortable with and don’t compromise. Don’t let people use you as a doormat because you want to be nice!! It won’t get you anywhere

SerenaFit · 2021-01-06T04:55:03+00:00

Be nice… To yourself. Put the oxygen mask on your own mouth before you put it on your little one.

Letting someone walk all over your boundaries doesn’t only do a disservice to yourself but spreads and creates hardship for everyone involved.

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-01-06T05:31:18+00:00

Didn't ask to get roasted like a marshmallow but here we are

burpleseaurchin · 2021-01-06T10:43:39+00:00

Most of the time when I was being "nice" I wasn't even doing it out of a true desire to be kind or anything... I was afraid of upsetting people or "looking mean". I felt obligated. Never again.

featherflowers · 2021-01-06T05:34:00+00:00

I can't read her username, who is this? I'd like to check out her content and follow.

Mella_20 · 2021-01-06T17:02:19+00:00

I try to set boundaries, but sometimes the need to be "nice" and understanding is overwhelming, and I'm trying to change that. I still feel the need to take on challenging situations with people who probably don't care about me, thinking I will get their love and appreciation in return. It just doesn't work that way, but I think its the years of brainwashing and social conditioning.

shutup201 · 2021-01-06T15:53:12+00:00

This also makes you a target for all kinds of shitty people.

nondairycroissant · 2021-01-06T20:59:03+00:00

Ouch! I'm feeling attacked!! but she's right though...

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