You can’t say even the most obvious things like “make sure you know your partner is clean if you don’t want to get an STI” without it being shaming people who have STIs. I’m pretty sure most people with HIV would say the same.
I’m sure wanting to use a condom at all will be shaming next because it will make your partner feel like you think they’re dirty and their feelings are more important than your health.
[–]Pizza-n-LiceFDS STRATEGY COACH26 points27 points28 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Women shouldn't discriminate against anyone, access to women and sex is a human right. You should be having sex with everyone, no questions asked. What are you, a prude?
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
We apparently should just stand on the streets and let any passing man who wants to fuck us without a condom.
Some moron on GC today said fds was "prostitution" for having men pay for dates they ask us on and not having sex for a few months until we are comfortable and know he's not just using us. Not sure how not fucking a man is prostitution but 🤷
[–]plutunicFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
OK so by that logic, having sex without some sort of monetary exchange is rape.
...these fucking idiots.
[–]rubymoodFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
i once read this thread on tumblr that was something along the lines of, “oh well the hiv virus can be dormant in certain people so there’s no need to disclose that information!!”
and i just??? that decision should be left with the potential partner if they want to sleep with you. don’t take that decision upon yourself.
[–]perfekti0nFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
While the dormancy thing might be true, they don’t take the health and consent of others into account. Sorry, I have lupus, I’m immunocompromised, I see no reason to invite another potentially life threatening disease into my body just so I don’t hurt someone else’s feelings.