Hey I needed some advice from you wonderful ladies!
So at the beginning of quarantine I matched with this guy and he seemed genuinely interested in me and would consistently text and ask to FaceTime and was the one constantly putting in the effort to get to know me and initiate. Our FaceTimes were good and we got along well and had good conversation.
As restrictions are being lifted he wanted to meet in person and I agreed, we went to an outdoor bar (yeah ik that goes against FDS but there are not many options right now) and we had great conversation and he payed for everything. There is one thing he said that has been bugging me though.
I wish I could remember how it came up, but he said something along the lines of "I don't really go for the girls that are the supermodel type with the perfect figure and everything, I prefer girls who are more cute".
I know i'm not the hottest model type in the world, I know where I fall and I'm just pretty and cute so I wasn't necessarily offended by that because I know who I am, but I guess I'm just bothered by the fact that he said that out of principle? like even if a girl objectively isn't a supermodel type I feel like you don't say something like that, esp on a first date. I don't think he was purposefully trying to be rude but I wanted your guyses opinion.
EDIT: Oh I remember how it came up, we were playing a 20 questions style game and the question was "what do you like most about the opposite sex" and I said that I like guys' arms and then he responded with that.
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