Stop being in a one-sided relationship with a fussy baby.

threedotlove · 2021-01-05T17:12:14+00:00

Gave my ex massages & back rubs all the time (I went all in too with oils & deep tissue presses) but never got any in return. I tried hinting multiple times until finally I came out & asked and he was like “You just have to ask me! I didn’t know you wanted one too!” And proceeded to not give me one anyways ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️

LockLimePie · 2021-01-05T18:40:20+00:00

LITERALLY talked to a guy who said 'If you don't have the motivation to ask me to do something nice then that means you don't really want it anyway'. No. That's not it at all lmao. It's just that if I ask you to do things, you'll start telling people I nag you. Besides I want a man who will do nice things because he WANTS to not because he feels like he HAS to.

randomgirlimok · 2021-01-05T17:36:02+00:00

Also want to say HIRE. My ex would not fix anything around the house even though he was an engineer and more than capable. I had to hire his dad.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-01-05T20:12:09+00:00

well... the message hasn't reached the pickmeishas who are all over relationshit_advice asking for suggestions on how to tell their scrotes (without hurting their feelings, mind you) that they need to wash in between their buttcheeks.

no amount of CoMmUnIcAtIng will help there.

2021-01-06T01:37:32+00:00

If you have to ask, then it's not worth it

warinmymind94 · 2021-01-09T11:32:04+00:00

Lvms be like I'm NoT a MiNdReAdEr jUsT sAy wHaT yOu wAnT Fds: how do we explain to anyone you're supposed to care? You can't. Its the bare minimum to reciprocate, its expected to be given presents for our birthdays and taken out for holidays. If I had a long day at work or say I'm sore he should be offering things to make it better like a back rub, make me dinner etc. He has a brain and knows they just don't want to and play dumb

2021-01-06T06:24:49+00:00

Ugh how do I upvote this more than once

Title	Stop being in a one-sided relationship with a fussy baby.
Author	_xyoungbellax_
Upvotes	821
Comments	14
Date	January 5, 2021 4:50 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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