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[–]sxfjcg9900FDS Newbie98 points99 points100 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts and I cannot remember a single male host talking about going to therapy, but most female hosts I’ve listened to talk about going to therapy to become better people and stop hurting those around them.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so true although I hear it among men irl. I guess it would hurt them to face their inner demons.
[–]AocwannabeFDS Newbie236 points237 points238 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This is spot on. It’s further disturbing because these podcasts serve as substitute therapy for other men.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 149 points150 points151 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
exactly, these men never heal, they just find a new unhealthy cope
[–]Proud-PurposeFDS Apprentice84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There's a reason why they're called "friend simulators".
[–]4evanevaFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Podcasts are called that?
[–]Proud-PurposeFDS Apprentice46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. By 4chan tier males, no less.
[–]laiamartensFDS Newbie85 points86 points87 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
why improve when you can keep being a walking trashbag with no consecuences?
[–]kantarraFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sums up so much male behaviour so beautifully
[–]llamasinspace420FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? And how the fuck they get away with it is unreal.
[–]LobotomybyWaspsFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex did a YouTube channel on the only thing he cares about—his opinion on pop culture. 🙄 yikes
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
hope he has like two followers
[–]MissCandidFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually only 1 since they broke up
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ahahahahaaa
[–]umbralgardenFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hahahha fuck. In the throes of my ex's depression, after his antidepressant stopped working and he refused to go to the doctor to change it or ever see a therapist, he started a weekly podcast... lmaaaoooo. Motherfucker never goes outside.
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love a man that can shutup. So sexy.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh god, right?!
[–]CountingDownTheDays5FDS Apprentice215 points216 points217 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Because many men believe everyone else besides a paid professional and people who love them want to hear their deep rooted issues they label as helpful insight. Dysfunctional views that come from abuse, trauma, sexism, and misinformation. Men are taught they are always right, instead of the truth they like all human can be wrong.
Like this ashy knee crumb stating women prefer much older men. WRONG. Truth is he low-key likes younger women because he 1. Has some sick issues aka pedo 2. Lacks maturity 3. Is undesirable to women his own age. Most women prefer men their age, and it shows because most women marry date and procreate with men around their age. It is rare for a woman to marry someone 5+ years older than she is. But it is even more rare that relationship will last
[–]CumbersomeOakFDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Because many men believe everyone else besides a paid professional and people who love them want to hear their deep rooted issues they label as helpful insight
This guy I dated dedicated an entire podcast episode about why he couldn't date because he was 'emotionally unavailable' after I dropped him. He wasn't 'emotionally unavailable' - on the contrary, he was open about his past traumas and feelings. He was clearly emotionally available enough to the point he wanted his emotions publicly available. He also continued to actively date.
I dropped him after he didn't call/message for 2 weeks and hit me with a 'hey, what's up?' His issue wasn't emotional unavailability, it was being a lazy time-waster.
[–][deleted] 94 points95 points96 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Ugh this is so spot on. If a woman experience trauma or makes poor life choices she is disregarded as crazy regardless of whether or not she has made progress towards healing. But every other man out there walks around acting like his bullshit makes him the second coming of Buddha and Sigmund Freud. No John, you dropping out of school with a 2.0 gpa to smoke pot and couch surf did not give you some magical insight into the human psyche. 🤦♀️
[–]onceuponaseaFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoooo second coming of Buddha and Sigmund freud. This is so true.
Edit: typo
[–]salty_redheadFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Old saggy balls? No thanks. I’m 39 and I can barely find a guy my age with a full head of hair. I’m definitely not trying to date much older men.
Edit: My first gold on a post about saggy balls! I love Reddit. Thank you, kind stranger!
[–]Cool-Fill9819FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Say that last part again for the men in the back! I remember scrolling through the dating advice subreddit, and the men were going ON and ON about how women perferred older men and that life gets better once you are 30 or above. As a women in her 20's, I was on a hunt to debunk all those comments. I would never touch an older man, even with a ten foot pole -- that's just straight up nasty. I remember there would be guys in my then retail banking job in my early twenties that would hit on me. These men were a decade older, NASTY. At one point I recall one of my customers saying "want to go grab some coffee with me?" I laughed and said "aren't you old enough to be my uncle?" My goodness. Now that I think about it, that was savage. I keep it real though, always.
Say that last part again for the men in the back!
I remember scrolling through the dating advice subreddit, and the men were going ON and ON about how women perferred older men and that life gets better once you are 30 or above.
As a women in her 20's, I was on a hunt to debunk all those comments. I would never touch an older man, even with a ten foot pole -- that's just straight up nasty. I remember there would be guys in my then retail banking job in my early twenties that would hit on me. These men were a decade older, NASTY. At one point I recall one of my customers saying "want to go grab some coffee with me?" I laughed and said "aren't you old enough to be my uncle?" My goodness. Now that I think about it, that was savage. I keep it real though, always.
[–]gilianabananaFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think one reason why this will keep kn happening is because men are usually not called out like that in real life because of fear what the guy would do. I applaud you for being brave and giving him a reality check!
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 48 points49 points50 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
spot on.
ring ding ding
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The way men engineered society (patriarchy) is a big, long cope.
[–]TempDetectFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So maybe I'm the exception here but I prefer younger men because 1. More emotionally available (haven't been pining for the one who got away), 2. More giving because less jaded, 3. More mobile. I don't want to give up my beautiful life and men my age typically haven't grown at the rate that women have.
[–]thinktwiceorelseFDS Newbie87 points88 points89 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They think it makes them interesting. They also hope there is a pickme who will "cure" them.
[–]ALISHAISHERE123FDS Newbie130 points131 points132 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They gotta spread their dysfunction.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 76 points77 points78 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
while expecting equally disturbed men to join in and confirm they are not fucked up in the head. something similar to their little echo-chambers here on reddit.
[–]Proud-PurposeFDS Apprentice87 points88 points89 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Because men externalize while women internalize. Men would rather force their maladaptive mindset on someone else than introspect and fix it. Introspection is inherently painful to most males.
This is why I'm tired of the men go to therapy meme. Therapy is not effective for males. Read Lundy Bancroft.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
read his book, loved it!
It takes a man to know a man.
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think a lot of it is if a man spreads their dysfunction around it becomes normalized so that they never have to change.
Yep, yep, yep.
[–]solitaireloverFDS Newbie86 points87 points88 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Is this a direct call out of Joe Rogan because I am HERE for it
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
or any male who should be in a mental institution.
[–]99powerFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Is Joe Rogan that guy that wrote an article about how to emotionally manipulate your girlfriend into “kinky” sex? Oh wait, that was Adam Savage. Rogan is equally bad I’ve heard, though.
[–]FeminineImperativeFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did he really write something like that? I guess I shouldn't really be surprised after his sisters rape allegations.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
To be fair, Rogan hates porn.
[–]solitaireloverFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can’t fault him for that.
[–]blissandblossomFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or Joe Budden and his narcissistic woman-hating ways!
[–]caramelthronesFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kevinnnnnnnn 🧐
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[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
OMG I watched that vlog every now and then because I'm a masochist. The man parades his insecurity as masculine security. Well wait a second I guess masculine security is insecurity. He's so afraid of shallow "gold digging" single moms when he only thing he appears to have going for him is having a lot of cash on hand. And the whole fake black "hello brother from another mother" cringe.
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[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep.
[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’d guess because a lot of them are narcissists.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are, the malignant type.
[–]joannapwns6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol my fuckboy ex literally just started a podcast this hit me so hard 😂😂
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Right-wing Radio served the same purpose in the 90s. The Fox Network does the same thing for men of a certain age.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
no wonder there is a pandemic of NVMs
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well yeah, all they do is reassure themselves that they're right and they deserve their outrage. What's the difference between any of this shit and 4chan?
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
what's 4chan like? I heard a lot about it but never dared to venture there.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's toxic nerd man/inc/red pill crap. Guys marinating in their own discontent and competing with each other on who gets to be the biggest misogynist.
Oh, and there's a lot about gaming, comic book movies and porn.
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ah you mean their intellectual interests, gotcha
so basically reddit 2.0
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much.
[–]blissandblossomFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do Twitch streamers count too? 😂
[–]solitaireloverFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’ll count them, I know soooo many guys trying to “monetize their skills” and it’s like “Chet, you playing GTA for 8 hours a day and pissing in soda bottles is not entertainment”
[–]blissandblossomFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Facts! I think what I enjoy most is my ex is on stream, with all the furniture I had bought in the background. I miss my couch and my lamps lol, not him! (Long story but basically my ex was violently abusive and I left the home and most of my household items, and in return, got freedom and safety!)
[–]solitaireloverFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m so glad you’re out and safe!! And pissed that he got your furniture. He sounds like a total narcissist, especially with the twitch stream.
[–]BabyBlankieieieieieFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha damn this is it, right here! I need this question answered. NEED 🤣
[–]eaucitronFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well perhaps even their therapist (likely female), who’s getting paid to listen to them whine, maybe even she has fucking heard enough of their bullshit 🤷🏻♀️
[–]Descendant_of_InnanaFDS Apprentice[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she does but she'd not deal with them if possible
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I'm out of the loop. What is the post about?
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