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[–]whatisfunemploymentFDS Newbie307 points308 points309 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
LMAOOOO but also 😞
Babes. If you find yourself groveling, begging, or just generally in distress because of any one person and what they're doing to you (and trust me, it IS intentional)... get.. the fuck... out.
Just do it, for you, your sanity, your future.
[–]Flums666FDS Newbie[S] 73 points74 points75 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wish I knew about this sub when I was begging my ex not to break up with me after telling me I’m not good enough, why can’t I be more like his ex-fuckbuddy that was a party animal and drinking every day, that I’m not doing enough in the relationship (when I was initiating literally every single activity/fun stuff / trips that we did together) and then beat myself up for years to come until I finally got my confidence back somehow. Poor 22 year old me... but lesson learned.
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah they lie lie LIE. when they say "its not you, its me" they really do mean that lol
[–]lunan4FDS Newbie82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Isn't it shocking how easy it is to see it only when you're out? At least it was like that for me. Spent to much time struggling without realizing how unhappy I was...
[–]FDStrategistFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yess!! It’s incredible how differently you see a situation once you are outside of this, and not even just romantic relationships. I’ve experienced this in a professional setting too, looking back I’ve no idea how I found the strength to get through it
[–]BlondeVsTheWorld2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually feel myself getting embarrassed and blushing just thinking about the way I used to act. 🤦🏼♀️
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[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly! And even if you don’t find them - it’s better to be alone!
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
absolutely
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good point
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This. This. This. The depression these lvm can take you to is beyond words how hurtful and suffocating it feels. Only by leaving them behind and removing yourself from the situation even if it is painful., Will you feel free and happier
[–]BabaAuRhumOhlalaFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex admitted things he did were intentional.
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep, men are psychos.
[–]whatglasses5FDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AMEN <3
[–]sisterfunkhausFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. And say something. I would say, "Really? This is the special place? It doesn't seem very special." Then I would leave.
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[–]Flums666FDS Newbie[S] 41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Excuse me what the fucking fuck?????
[–]taele1996FDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I REMEMBER THIS. Omg I wonder what happened to her though.... and the fact that he taught his brother how to nab his own gf using the same technique is ever more creepy (fact check me. I can’t remember the details correctly)
holy shit...
[–]InterestingMango0FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I remember that post as well, it still gives me the shivers
[–]Flums666FDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Was it on this sub? Can anyone link it?
[–]InterestingMango0FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g4a5ny/husband_stalked_wife_until_she_married_him_but/
It’s in this sub
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex boyfriend did something like this to me too. I’ve wrote a little about this in prior comments but here’s the meat of the story:
He slithered into my life again, and I caved in out of loneliness and agreed to see him, but only to do casual dating. He agreed, or so i thought. One day, after he started bragged about his dating encounters during our breakup time, showing me pics and all, i let him know that i was dating other people and showed him pics too. It was at that point that he changed to a psycho and started to do break major boundaries. He did many things over a two week period - sent me a pic of my ex husband his new wife and baby with my son(said he only sent it to me to compare the pic with another one), responded to one of the OLD guys i chatted with while i was sleeping, - but the worst thing he did was getting his friend to catfish me in order to “keep me available” for him so he could have time to get himself together and “make me his.“. When I found out I was so devastated that I got major PTSD, and my life went totally downhill because I couldn’t believe anyone would do that to me. It happened less than a year ago, so I’m still recovering from it with therapy and self improvement goals. This experience made me re-evaluate my whole LIFE.
...but in a nutshell, a lot of men(i wanna day MOST MEN) are really controlling and possessive. I had dated that guy for 4 years. I did ignore a lot of red flags, but I NEVER would suspect he would attack me like that. I learned that you can never let your guard down, not even if you know a guy for YEARS.
[–]hyacinthgirl95FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely terrifying. I remember this post.
[–]oreooreooreosFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus... was there an update?
[–]woadskyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember it, but I think many commenters thought it was fake. If it was real -- just awful.
wow, i hate this planet.
[–]sabifiedFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What he says: I know a place we can be alone
What he doesn't say: it's by the dumpster behind the shut down Arby's off Main Street.
Lol. Walk away, sis... Like a Olympic power walking gold medalist.
[–][deleted] 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been there, done that!
[–]F1shB1rdFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂☠ funny because its horribly true! 😫
[–]InterestingMango0FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feeling sad/ be stressed when you are with someone is a red flag .
[–]septemberfinesttFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMFAOOO
[–]highONdaisys6669 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True story
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha too perfect
[–]Lightbeing999FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit 😂😂😂
[–]Parking-ActFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the damn truth!!!
[–]kevinsmicrodongs1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is annoyingly accurate for me.
[–]Flums666FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same
accurate lol
[–]wakeup23111 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This, and then they'll ask you to remember and be grateful for the bare minimum they've managed to do for you lmao
[–]breezee961 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell them you know a place and take them to a therapist.
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