They can only handle casual sex IF the girl wants a relationship more, and they can dangle a carrot in her face. The joy for them is in the manipulation, the chase and the qualification. The affirmation that all women want a piece of their precious commitment.
But if not? Lol.
Most, if not all, men can’t handle casual sex. Tell a man you truly want something casual on your terms and watch him crumble like a Nature Valley bar.
But how does that make sense, you ask? Isn’t the dating scene so conflicted because our biological drives are diametrically opposed, aka women want relationships, while men want sex?
Yes, our biological drives are diametrically opposed... in some respects. But in many other respects, they are aligned. Both sexes have dual drives. Fuck some, marry even better. We all want to do our best in this game which is fair.
But men have always given themselves a pat on the back for their dual drives. It’s always been acceptable for a man to sow his oats and then settle down with a good girl.
Meanwhile women have been ** literally murdered** for being seen talking to men, let alone sleeping with them. Legal, financial and cultural shackles have been forced on us so that we can’t deal with men entirely on OUR terms.
We’ve been denied access to even the knowledge of our duality, that we can value casual sex AND commitment... just with different men. Why? Because men, as the disposable sex, have been running away from the fact that they are disposable their entire existence.
They are socialised to believe that ALL women desire relationships at ALL times. They are socialised to believe in an artificial valuation of their desirability; in fact, most men have this shared psychosis that they’re sexy. 😂😂😂
After all, why would our sexualities and choices be so harshly punished if they didn’t truly fear what we could do with it?
So when you tell a man you want something casual with him, it shatters his fake worldview that he is the prize and you, just the commitment-crazed NPC.
Have you ever noticed when you were emotionally unavailable (for good reasons like school or bad reasons like trauma) men tried harder?
Have you ever noticed when you were just focused on sexual pleasure, you got more of that AND emotional goodness?
More amusingly, have you ever noticed that RP men’s biggest fear is the cock carousel? Or having to pay for endless dates but another man getting it in after 1 Long Island and a kiss?
Not even STDs or paternity fraud but coming second to other weenies. I HAVE TO LAFF.
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