This is why I don't date.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-10T20:53:28+00:00

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Amelania · 2020-01-10T20:52:13+00:00

Eh, block/unmatch and move along. Looks like he has literally no one else on Earth to talk to and was trying to harass you into responding by being rude and confrontational.

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-01-10T21:08:35+00:00

lol from what I've heard most men swipe right on every chick and see what matches, so it's not like it's a huge compliment.

2020-01-10T20:58:35+00:00

He wants a reaction from you, since his first "polite" attempt didn't work. Don't reply and unmatch.

hoIds_up_spork · 2020-01-10T21:00:36+00:00

I had a guy Superlike me, send me a message, send a follow up "????" no more than 20 minutes later. At this point I'd obviously lost all interest in him but I wanted to see if he'd do anything else. He sent another angry text in French basically asking why I was on the app if I wasn't going to answer and then he unmatched a few hours later. From when he swiped to when he unmatched was at most 6-8 hours. Men be desperate.

Barnabas1993 · 2020-01-10T21:18:07+00:00

Some people have a life outside of Tinder, yikes. And some people - me - have turned their notifications off because I don’t want to feel pressured into answering when I’m at work. Unmatch and “swipey” on!

slha1605 · 2020-01-10T20:59:29+00:00

I also enjoy the irony that his ego is hurt by my lack of response so he tries to take a swipe at my ego.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-10T21:19:02+00:00

I joined a really goofy app today. They either send me so many back to back lovey texts and scare me into blocking them OR they don't respond to my replies. Fucking weirdos

He didn't even give you a reason to reply. That first message looked like negging.

TotalOrganization3 · 2020-01-11T20:59:58+00:00

I was on Tinder and changed my pictures to a totally different woman than the original person (me) and not one person I was actively talking to for 2 days noticed. So then I made the pics blonde women - 3 completely different blonde people in the same profile and no one noticed, everyone still matched me and kept talking, asking me out.

randomgirlimok · 2020-01-11T16:02:11+00:00

I don’t like apps where you have to swipe. It gives men the idea that you think they’re hot, and i would rather be mysterious

Title	This is why I don't date.
Author	slha1605
Upvotes	35
Comments	15
Date	January 10, 2020 8:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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