Once you show him you’re open to being used as a backup by accepting the reschedule, he will continue to use you more and more loosely (meaning, you are not backup #2 anymore, but you go further down the list, as you become demoted to backup #3 and then #4) until he simply ends up standing you up or stops replying. A few messages into the conversation I stopped expecting him to actually schedule anything, and boy was I right😂


I unmatched him immediately after sending the last message cause I could tell he was gonna pop up a few days later to ask me if I would do him the honor of being his 6th backup in case his 5 other options didn’t work out. (And no he was not hot, he was short, chubby and hairy)