This post is sort of geared towards the younger users here. Long time lurker here, I kind of just wanted to share some observations that I noticed while I was dating in my younger years (senior in high school - Soph college). I’ve seen a lot of post about vetting for high value men, but I feel like the same standards are more difficult to apply to younger guys (18-20). I would like to share my thoughts on how to vet for hvm while you’re still in HS on college, that’s is if you choose to date at a younger age.

  1. First date location. Does he ask you to any of the chain fast food restaurants such as McDonald’s, Wendy, Taco Bell, DD, etc? Yes, even tho it is technically not a drink/walk date, it still shows low effort. These are the type of guys who “graduate” to drink/coffee dates when they get older. I know a lot of HS, college students are not making bank, but they can show more effort by asking you on dates to a cute desert place, places where you paint mugs/plates and you can pick it up the next day after they put it in the oven (idk what’s the technically name for places like this ), the local aquarium or whatever exhibition. Basically anything that shows he puts in effort into dates and want you to have fun and not be bored during the date whilst getting to know you more.

  2. Chronic weed user. I’m not saying weed is the cause of lvm, but There’s is a high correlation between stoners and being a scrote.

  3. How he treats his younger siblings. Such as sharing time with them on console or driving them to the dentist. How much effort he puts into helping o sibling is an indication of how empathetic the guy his.

  4. Does he get along with sisters? Scrotes hate women, and generally treat the women in his life poorly.