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[–]slicedgreenoliveFDS Newbie 188 points189 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They really are dusty, with their lack of skin care and moisturizer

[–]bringtwizzlersFDS Newbie 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My ex told me he hadn't washed his hair in 5 weeks, I'm.... still speechless.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, I agree. Yikes 😶

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 171 points172 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Is it just me ... I get upset after a breakup for like a week or 2 then I feel sheer relief because I’m seeing the ‘relationship’ for what it really was, from a clear objective more rational viewpoint, away from them. And I realise- wait did I even WANT that? Did I even want him and his lifestyle? It’s amazing how boring they look when the specs & fake lovebombing wears off. Lol then I just get a surge of happiness & remember who tf I am again hair flick FREEDOM

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 94 points95 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Not just you, hun! I resonate with everything you said here. Reminds me of the quote- “People look so different once you don't care about them anymore... You begin to notice how ordinary they are, how it was your love that made them special; that placed them on some sort of pedestal.”

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

💯

[–]Skillfulskittles 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

love that quote!

[–]vballchic79 45 points46 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Right! Most of the time you didn’t even want to be there. And it’s so relieving to have someone else’s bullshit lifted off your shoulders.

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 56 points57 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes because they tricked you into wanting them back by mirroring all your good qualities - when they can no longer trick you...you will find you do not want who they really are. And the ‘relationship’ gets very stale & stinky because their mask dropped off. You do not want their mediocre stifling lifestyle they fluffed up with lies & smoke either. You will realise they didn’t deserve the chance you gave them.

Like the lovebombing etc- it isn’t real. You’re in love with the act. With who they pretend to be. When that falls away you start to see how small minded, controlling, boring, insecure & monotonous they are! It makes the breakup 100 x easier! You just saved yourself a whole lot of bullshit.

[–]vballchic79 32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes to all of this! After my relationships I felt bamboozled and hoodwinked...like this is who I was crying over? A clown that can’t even fend for himself 🤡🤡??

[–]ComprehensiveAmoeba9FDS Apprentice 31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just broke up with someone because he was drinking alcohol on his lunch break at work (he had five drinks). I saw that as a huge red flag so I called it off, it sucked at first but now I feel so much relief not having to deal with him being low effort and last minute with his plans. Now more stuff about him is coming out because his friends starting telling me all this stuff about him. I realized I dodged a bullet

[–]Chemical39 29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I call it separation elation 😉

[–]MadamLeFayFDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this term!

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m adding it to the list sis!

[–]swaylynFDS Newbie 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I loved this comment! Especially the hair flick haha 💅🏽

[–]swapThingFDS Newbie 51 points52 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I sadly try and un-dust them. Stop them from using 3-in-1 or 2-in-1, have them use lotion and washclothes. Without being in charge of someone’s grooming, life is better

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It really is haha

[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Put that energy in a hobby you love. Believe me, it's much more rewarding

[–]Br0ther-FingerFDS Newbie 32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Can’t wait!

I’m still in my house, but I’ve basically stopped talking to him. Grey rock conversation only, started therapy, stopped drinking AND I’m looking at an apartment next weekend.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m happy for you, queen! 👑♥️

[–]yggiwtmiihFDS Newbie 38 points39 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Broke up with him 3 days ago, and yes, I'm a little sad, but honestly what a fucking relief. I'm so happy he's gone.

[–]fdsThrowaway2021FDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It gets better. Hugs

[–]yggiwtmiihFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you, the support you ladies give at FDS is so appreciated. ❤

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

virtual hugs I’m happy you did what’s good for you ♥️

[–]yggiwtmiihFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you, that means a lot. It's hard but I know I made the right decision.

[–]phb2999FDS Newbie 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

my bestfriend and I went thru our breakups six months apart from each other and our life has never been better. Showed this to her and we had a good laugh over beers after working on our garden. Forever grateful that I’m surrounded by HVWs and working on being one myself.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Kudos to you!! I’m glad y’all could have a good laugh over this ☺️💕

[–]breadandbunnyFDS Newbie 28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

🙌🏿

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

♥️

[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is so true - I can feel my close girlfriends getting stronger now that we are all working on levelling ourselves up.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good for you & them!💕

[–]LurkForYourLivesFDS Newbie 50 points51 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

And you know that’s poop dust.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For sure hahah

[–]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

😂😂😭😭

[–]adalovelace1793---FDS Newbie 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes! This! So much! The periods that I felt most alingned to my goals were scrote-free times.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so damn relatable, wow. You spoke facts 💯♥️

[–]ConfusedPanda17FDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This time last year I finally got my shitty ex to move out after I ended things on January 2020 and the relief I felt when he was gone was amazing. A month later I moved somewhere else and the energy was so different in a place that didn't have his presence at any point.

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So happy for you! 💕

[–]karabnpFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

💯🥂

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

💕

[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Facts

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

OH YES ♥️

[–]DinaslabyrinthFDS Newbie 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And brighter ✨

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yesss🥰

[–]dominicanpowerhouseThrowaway Account 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Giiiiiirl~

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

🥰

[–]mymindmybrainFDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

FACTS ❤️❤️🙏

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

YUPPP :) 💕

[–]Dexaroo5716FDS Newbie 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Word 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

♥️♥️

[–]ShondaGivesFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

FACTS!!!!!!👏🏾

[–]Pure-Organization-26FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

YUPPP🥰

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