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December 11, 2019
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Title Well god damn.
Author Liz_Lemondrop
Upvotes 3921
Comments 89
Date December 11, 2019 10:20 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/well-god-damn.687117
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e95cez/well_god_damn/

[–]smarfetteFDS Newbie310 points311 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention how quickly they drop their "she was with me when I had nothing" woman for women who wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire back when they were broke. That is why I laugh when the red pill crybabies whine about women being hypergamous. They are pissed the average woman has more options than they do, but also observe how the few men who gain more access to women (usually via fame/status) react.

[–]circescircusFDS Disciple264 points265 points  (3 children) | Copy Link


Also, I love it when average Joes complain about gold diggers. It's so funny. What gold digger is going after a guy who makes $60k/year? Gold diggers have much bigger fish to fry. Men call paying for an Applebee's entree "gold digging" these days. They keep sinking to lower and lower levels.

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist79 points80 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I honestly cry with laughter when low earning men claim the woman is a goldigga cos she wants to be taken out for once (because the low value loser has 'anxiety' that requires him to stay indoors 24/7- sure)

Amazingly the low value male's anxiety will suddenly 'disappear' when he's in the mood sex. Astounding, one could call him a SEX digger, since he's very tactile at digging for that. I'd like to make a documentary on this special species of couch creature: 'the anxiety riddled broke bullshitter, who uses his self induced mental health issues to avoid pleasing his mate'

Goldigging on what? More like charity, you stingy stagnant losers.

[–]mintpuffyfluffsFDS Newbie64 points65 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep! Left an ex after no proposal for seven years and he had just paid 10k cash for a motorcycle when one of his excuses was that he was saving for a really nice ring. When I was packing he barked “ I was just a meal ticket for a girl like you.” I was shocked. I had been a waitress, attending CC, living in an average apartment in an average suburb, driving a used economy car, hardly ever taking vacations, always buying clothes from the sale rack, playing housewife while still attractive and in my 20’s. I was too surprised to say anything back but to this day I wish I had retorted “um yeah, I’m a real gold digger wanting to marry a guy who makes under 70k after taxes and spends most of it on himself.” Even my brother laughed and scoffed when I told him about this and was like “yeah, right, you were REALLY living it up with him.”

[–]circescircusFDS Disciple34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He was the one exploiting you, for something more valuable than money-- time. I'm glad that you left him.

[–]woke_avocadoFDS Newbie224 points225 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Which is why Reddit hating on gold diggers is hilarious because broke young men of course hate older men with means. Wait until that 50s midlife crisis sets in — they have zero issue dating a woman in their 20s and helping them support themselves.

[–]Fireball2010FDS Newbie103 points104 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yup. Truth. And before they get to that point, they are using their SO for their financial support. Lived it. He financially abused me for years and then poof gone to be with the 22 year old college student from Russia. Hmmmm....wonder what she wants?

[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist353 points354 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

My ex was even like this and he was living paycheck to paycheck. He thought I was after his money when he and I made the same thing!!!!! DELUSIONAL He'd brag about the things he was going to buy me and then NOTHING.

[–]ThatsWhat__I__SaidFDS Apprentice67 points68 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Way back in the old days, when personal ads were 6 lines in the newspaper, I met up with a guy. The moment we met I knew he wasn't for me (smoker, dirty, baked bean teeth, functionally illiterate).

But I was polite enough to finish my coke.

In the first 10 minutes he started lamenting that "Once a gal finds out I got a nice house, they're all over me trying to get married".

He told me the street he lived on, and a few days later, for shits and giggles, I drove by to see this magnificent mansion, this chick magnet... this grand estate. I drove up the street until I saw his baby-blue rusted out Chevy Luv parked in a driveway. Behold! There it was - his crappy, rotted, falling-apart shack... junk everywhere, and the cherry on top - there was an old toilet on the front porch. Probably the throne from which he observed the goings-on in his kingdom.

[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

bahahahaha WOW delusional no matter what decade it is😂

[–][deleted] 104 points105 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Every boyfriend I had back in the day was unemployed and every single one claimed I just used them. Even tough they knew my parents are quite wealthy. Never understood how they came to that conclusion.

[–]grimreapersdtrFDS Disciple27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Even tough they knew my parents are quite wealthy.

Yes. I think some guys purposely latch onto women who appear to have wealthy parents. It's as if they think some big payday is coming for them. Joke's on them when girlfriend's parents turn out to be tightwads.

[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist69 points70 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are all perpetual victims haha

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can’t breathe I’m laughing so much.

Men. Honestly.

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 176 points177 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh yes. "Talking a big game" is one of the major plays in the bum ass loser handbook.

[–]thisisanonymouseFDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish i knew this before dating my ex for a whole ass year

[–]katmomofeveFDS Newbie7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My ex said this and I made more than him!!!

[–]darkhorse8419FDS Newbie408 points409 points  (23 children) | Copy Link

Men are hilarious. “ How dare she not want me for my personality! Even though I don’t want her for hers !” So pathetic

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 68 points69 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

Right? Lmao.

[–]darkhorse8419FDS Newbie112 points113 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

You can’t win anyways. I had a guy yell at me through the internet that men don’t care about women who have careers either. All they want is a hole with a pretty exterior

[–]azngirl7689At-Risk Pick Me Youth79 points80 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

But FDS is immoral for asking men to pay for dates? MMK.

[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bahahaha!!! Fuck em!!

[–]penelopekittyFDS STRATEGY COACH211 points212 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

These are the same guys that will put pictures of their car, boat, house, exotic vacations on their dating profile but have nothing interesting or amusing to say and usually aren't even good looking to boot. Dude, what exactly are you doing? We know you're using your supposed wealth as bait and then you get angry when you catch what you've been fishing for? Why not try being an interesting and kind person? Oh, I know - it's because all you want is to get laid. So stop your bitching and whining. Lol!

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

SERIOUSLY. Don't lead with money, flash wealth, promise you'll buy things for the women you're courting and then act SHOCKED at the kind of women you attract. If money is all you have to offer and you don't even actually have money, what is you doin'??

[–]themissdaydreamerFDS Disciple106 points107 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

if a guy uses pictures of cars, motobikes etc on his profile I assume he's a fucking Transformer and swipe left hard

[–]talaxiaFDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd date a transformer

raw me Megatron

[–]leftclicksq2FDS Newbie19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're not wrong! Your comment cracked me up. I'm not one for YouTube channels, but h3he made a fantastic -albeit hilarious- video based on a couple from 90 Day Fiancé called The Honest Golddigger.

If you don't have it, don't put it out there.

[–]ihavebigBob8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh boy i have a story about that a guy i went on just one date.When he saw i was just normal becky ghosted me here is the fun part he is middle aged morbidly obese bald fucker with wannabe slave fetish and we met on FetLife his profile pretty much says two things he works in it ( i have cash wink wink) and he looks for an owner. For those who don't know FetLife is essentially old style social fetish network that means you can add people as friends .

Every single one of the chicks he added were at least 10 years younger ( including me) and with professionally done photos read pros/ sex workers/ cam girls. Que 2-3 years later to me posting some picture and him commenting how women want him only for money . This guy was boring as hell didnt pay for even a coffee, is bald ,fat and old complains with a straight face about women hustling him . I slapped his bitch tits back as hard as possible telling him to stop bitching when he adds obvious professionals and start going into his own weigt category ( heh). Every single guy past 35 is like this

[–]ResponsibleCharacterPickmeisha™️27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They can’t be an interesting and kind person lol. They are not capable. If they were broke they’d get no pussy, they should be thankful for the gold diggers willing to take a job no one else wants

[–]grenadinegardenFDS Newbie24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My ex to a T. He lost his job and I stayed and supported him through it all and he had the fucking nerve to say that he didn’t know if I would love him without his money BITCH I PAID THE BILLS FOR 6 MONTHS YOU BORROWED MONEY FROM ME WHAT

[–]TheEldritchHorrorFDS Newbie53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And these are usually the same guys who whine that they’re being “emasculated” if a woman can pay her own way or, heaven forbid, makes more money than them.

[–]Babenyc79FDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Then they start blaming the woman for having her shit together because they are jealous and have zero confidence. They start to tear you down to ma me themselves feel better.

[–]themissdaydreamerFDS Disciple166 points167 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

YES SHE PUT INTO WORDS WHAT I WAS TRYING TO SAY ALL MY LIFE. whenever I see some guy complaining about how women don't want them because they're broke, I assume they're actually complaining on the fact of being broke.

[–]WhatprophetssayFDS Newbie240 points241 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 THIS. Whenever I hear men complain that women only want money, I literally laugh because you just outed yourself as broke and now I have to leave this date/conversation.

I also have a very low value ex husband who INSISTS I’m obsessed with him because I always want his money.

Child support. He’s referencing the fucking child support he’s required to pay 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 154 points155 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Aren't kids free??? You absolute money obsessed wrench!

But seriously. My ex who owes me money (from before I stopped dating trashcan couch creatures) acts like I'm money obsessed because I expect him to pay me back the money he owes me. "All you talk about is money!" UH YEAH why the fuck else would I be talking to Oscar the Grouch, King of the Trash and Small Dicked Losers?

[–]WhatprophetssayFDS Newbie130 points131 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

It’s so true!!!!!! My ex cries in open court about how I want him to be homeless and I like taking his money, and how hard life is for him and how he just can’t get ahead. (He only works 16 hours a week and refuses to get a regular job because then, and I quote, “she would just take it all anyway” 🤣🤣🤣)

And I stand there, as a single mother to the 2 toddlers he abandoned, who works 60 hours a week and goes to school, and I bite my tongue.

Sometimes I want to get mad but me and my family literally leave court and burst out laughing in the car. Honestly if you can’t find the humor in these LVM, they’ll drive you crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 62 points63 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad your babies have one good parent.

[–]WhatprophetssayFDS Newbie60 points61 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

❤️ thank you! Honestly it’s a lot of pressure because I don’t allow myself any room for error. His whole existence is an error. I have to constantly outweigh his shitty parenting and it’s exhausting lol

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sorry. Hopefully you have time to just be yourself.

[–]WhatprophetssayFDS Newbie61 points62 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

😍 I’m making it. In little bits, but it’s there. Today the kids are at school and I’m off work so I’m taking myself out to breakfast, getting my nails done, going shopping, then probably taking myself out to lunch too 😍😍😍😍😍 I date myself better than any man dates me 🤣

[–]WhatprophetssayFDS Newbie23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]ifragbunniezFDS Newbie10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Trash can couch creatures.” 🤣🤣🤣 dead. Love this.

[–]CillakhaFDS Newbie16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

These are also sometimes the same guys who will appreciate a woman dating them when they have nothing to their name (see: “rude or die; loyal) and as soon as they get money and start buying material objects they dump their women for obvious gold diggers. Very strange logic.

[–]shellshocked8FDS Newbie78 points79 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Right? It's never a problem when some old crusty pervert with a few bucks only wants to date hot young chicks, but as soon as those hot young chicks date said crusty old pervert, she's the problem and labeled a gold digger. I have personally never been impressed by men who flaunt their money. When I was really young I dated a few, and always found them creepy and socially inadequate. Not only that, but you can pretty much bet that when you date a wealthy guy, especially a hot one, you will NEVER be the only woman, so if you are okay with that then cool. That's why I think a lot of girls who date ugly rich guys are able to do so, because they aren't emotionally attached and don't give a shit if they are cheaters, in fact they probably welcome it so they don't have to sleep with their old ass as much. I personally need to be physically and mentally attracted to who I date, money can never be the only factor for me.

I have a friend, well she's not my friend anymore because she has gross standards, but she messaged me and said I have a new boyfriend! I was so happy for her until I met this chump. She is 28 and GORGEOUS, she could of had her pick of many HVM...but nope.. she chose this guy for his money. He wasn't old, maybe around 34, but my god he was a fat disgusting sweaty loser (picture Chris Farley if you know who that is). He probably weighed like 300 pounds, and he had a lot of money and loved to flaunt it. My friend wanted me to meet him, so they invited me to a party he was having on the rooftop of this penthouse overlooking the ocean. Okay, cool the guy has money and is fat and gross, but MAYBE he has a good personality? HA! Nope, the guy was a perverted cokehead, he kept trying to get me and all the other women there to show him our boobs. He was so fat and just sweating everywhere...I'm like so this is your PRIZE?? This is what you are settling for? You have sex with this thing at the end of the night because he has a few bucks in the bank? He also invited me to go to strip clubs with him and her several times...I'm like sorry not interested.

One day for his birthday he rented a yacht and I was invited but he told me I wasn't allowed to invite my boyfriend who is very good looking HVM....he didnt' want him there because he didn't want the competition and wanted to be the only guy on the yacht with several women. At this time i was still friends with my friend and she was begging me to go, I'm like yeah I'll go, but I'm not going without my man. So he "allowed" my man to go lol. We ended up having an awesome time on the yacht, but the fat boyfriend with money was mad as hell as my boyfriend was getting most of the attention, lol. Anyway, i ended up dropping the friendship as she became addicted to coke and just dropped all of her standards by being with this guy. She tried desperately to get me to join in on the debauchery, the drugs, the strip clubs etc...I literally couldn't believe she would sleep with this loser and sell out because he had money. There is not enough money in the world for me to ever drop my standards for someone like that. EWWWW!

[–]Succubus_Sin24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Only broke men complain gold diggers.~

There is no gold around them...of course they’re mad.

Nobody wants their paycheck to paycheck coppers.

[–]lullabypersonified33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I made more money than my last ex and was constantly buying him food and concert tickets and whatnot, and I even put down the entire security deposit and first month of rent on a house and had him and our roommates pay me back over the course of a month, and at the end of the relationship, when I decided I was tired of it, he still acted like I was the reason he didn’t have any money! He was literally in debt telling people that he has so much more money now that he’s single.

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like you lost a winner

[–]lullabypersonified17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh absolutely! He decided he wasn’t going to give me my part of the security deposit back either when I got off the lease either so he was a real keeper!

[–]coconutismyreligionPickmeisha™️11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Laser-Pig20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Some new money men love gold diggers. Once you get burned by a few then your preference starts changing. I have a very very rich friend that I’ve seen go through this and as a result his love life is extremely hard. When you have as much money as he does you never know someone’s true intention so it becomes a search to find someone you want who has their own money too. He actually envies the rest of us who have found our partners. True Love: one of the things money really can’t buy.

[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

But is it money he earned or his parents money? And how does he act on dates? Where does he look for these women? A lot of rich men complain they can't find a 'real one' but actually they are vapid and selfish themselves. They just can't find a stepford housewife that will tolerate them fucking women on the side& respect them....I think that's a bit delusional & definitely not a 'high value' characteristic. A high value man would respect the mother of his child/his life partner- regardless of his wealth. Wealth can make a lot of men feel they can get away with things other men can't - like their career gives them a pass to act however rude they want. That's not going to keep a woman of substance /standards around. The only type of women sticking around that- are in it for the money cos he has nothing else of value on offer.

Some rich kids who are the beneficiaries of a very hardworking father can be rather dull personality wise- since they haven't had to earn it. I have been friends with a few like that...classy people but ultimately dull & it does grate after a while. That can lead to them being quite entitled/cold people with literally nothing of substance to talk about...so naturally they tend to attract people with nefarious interests as people of substance get bored around them. For some of them, the shit they buy and brag about replaces their personality.

Some of them just end up plain dim as well- like sons of fathers who own their own company and earn a decent income...the son will just remain an immature manchild until the father loses his patience (being a hardworking boss) & has to give his useless son a job because otherwise he's not going nowhere. I have met guys like that and their ego is ridiculous & undeserved. They will have flopped school, fucked around & daddy resentfully gave them a job so they have some type of ego/sense of entitlement. I have to remind them: that's your daddy's business- you didn't work for it punk. Daddy handed you the job that he worked to give you. They don't have shit they worked for financially/spiritually/mentally- which is why they think they are higher value than they truly are. They're just vapid & entitled.

I also think it is not hard to find a high value woman who wants more than just money....so I would question what kind of vibe he is giving off himself? If all he is doing is splashing the cash and acting smug/like he owns women, then naturally he's going to put off women with substance.

I very much struggle to believe high value men with money cannot find someone who loves them for more than their money since far more women are willing to commit....if they are indeed 'high value' outside of being rich.... as in trustworthy, interesting, loyal, mature people.

[–]Loiacono3137FDS Apprentice6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]kaylafakenameduhhhThrowaway Account2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Men love gold diggers depending on the scenario.

[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Aka if they have money

[–]EllieBellie222FDS Newbie1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good old you tube, why pay for anything? Lol

[–]Suravik3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What a healthy outlook on life

[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They LOVE talking women out of their standards to get their dick wet cause how else would they have sex without being charged with rape?🙄

[–]chiggs4994Pickmeisha™️3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is to the many of men who insist on paying for everything when I offer to treat them to a date. Aka “women expecting the man to pay, but then if the woman wants to pay it hurts their ego” like come on now I’m not saying you’re broke I’m just saying I wanna take care of the bill.

[–]Flex10060 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same argumentation: Poor people "love" social security systems because it helps them. But if they were rich they would "hate" them because it doesn't benefit them. So do Poor People now actually hate social security systems?

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