I'm appalled by all the romcoms I've watched growing up. When I was filled with nostalgia and wanted to rewatch some movies, I've realized the movies are shit. Some of the movies support such stalker like behavior in men like what the fuck. No wonder why so many women date such abusive men? Because they made it seem like when a woman stands up for herself that shes a bitch and mean. But in reality when a woman stands up for herself it's because she is holding men accountable for the torment and manipulation and damage they've caused! Like we just want equality and these movies without a doubt, influence the way men and women behave. I am so tired of looking for a decent movie where the man isn't given the lowest bar of standards. Where the fuck are some good rom-coms? Even a book? I just want to enjoy a romance based on a healthy relationship.