Here’s another winning thread on TwoXSex from a woman who has unprotected sex on a one night stand with a man who ghosts her in the morning
Sis in the OP I linked didn’t use a condom AT ALL but rather than conveying the severity of that poor decision, everyone is giving her high fives in the comments and calling her a “strong independent woman”.
Of course I chime in to be the wet blanket and remind everyone about the true potential consequences of that decision, but like that really should have been a standard response, right?
What gives?
FYI - here’s a list of STDs you can get even while using a condom:
https://www.self.com/story/these-are-the-stds-that-condoms-dont-protect-against
There’s nothing strong and empowering about HPV and Herpes, nor spending a week feeling like shit on the morning after pill, nor having to travel miles to an abortion clinic, scraping up hundreds of dollars, and fighting through crowds of people calling you a baby killer if the pill doesn’t work.
And if she’s the type to keep the baby, good luck hunting dude down for child support given that he ghosted before she even woke up.
Assuming the guy isn’t actually a complete psycho you wouldn’t want around your child anyways. And I’d be HIGHLY concerned about the kind of man who doesn’t use condoms with strangers.
By contrast, we don’t high five people for drinking and driving, even if they made it home safely. We tell them that it was an extremely irresponsible decision that could have irreversible consequences and to do better.
But when it comes to drunk unprotected sex with strangers, we’re supposed to cheer it on for some reason...?
WHY are feminists pushing this pretty objectively poor decision that could have severely life altering consequences as empowerment?
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