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Why can’t men get this through their brains?

October 14, 2020
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[–]Acbc0077FDS Newbie[🍰] 254 points255 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

They be like ' she won't text back so they deserve the bad treatment of society they all sluts'...

[–]asteria2002FDS Apprentice93 points94 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol this. Inc3ls in a nutshell be like🥴

[–]buy_me_cookiesFDS Newbie3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And then they act like total douchebag dumbfucks if they do get your attention and affections. Audacious garbage.

[–]Acbc0077FDS Newbie[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg yeahhhh... They're like take attention - give attitude...

[–]fiftycamelsworthFDS Newbie87 points88 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It's all about who controls women's bodies.

"I hate men" because they're trying to control my body and get something from it.

Men "hate women" because they can't control their bodies and get what they want from it.

It's the difference between saying that you hate robbers and you hate the people who have locks on their doors. Just not comparable.

[–]thedevinefemmeFDS Newbie20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the best analogy

[–]buttercupcake23FDS Newbie15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is it. It's also the difference between people who hate their oppressors because you know...they're being oppressed. Vs the people who do the oppressing because they hate.

Misogyny results in oppression. The opposite results in...hurt egos.

[–]mshourglasssFDS Disciple423 points424 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

more so “women refuse to have sex with me and so all of them are whores and I hate them”

[–]mostdefinitelyntursFDS Newbie92 points93 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Crybabies lol

[–]sorrywhatttAt-Risk Pick Me Youth43 points44 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Whores who don’t have sex huh!

[–]PollyannaPennyFDS Newbie36 points37 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Whores who don’t have sex huh!

The Prude-Whores are the most oppressive & evil of the man haters! They are demons capable of being both frigid virgins and massive skanks at THE SAME TIME!!!!

[–]idhavetochargeFDS Newbie20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Its what they want too, virgin pornstars. They accuse women of being what they want them to be, not sure if projection or some broken attempt at reverse psychology. 🤷

[–]buttercupcake23FDS Newbie11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Also, they have the ability to both be attractive/worth fucking and vile ugly undesirable loose whores at the same time and it isnt until the incel is rejected that he knows which one she is. Shroedingers whores, so to speak.

[–]noscrubsdotmp3FDS Newbie3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

And when you DO have sex with one of them because they manipulated and coerced you into it, the only way they know how to finish is by calling you their little whore anyway because porn has brainwashed them into only being able to get off through verbal abuse and degradation.

Meanwhile, they’re the ones relentlessly cheating, catching STDs, and gaslighting you to hell and back. You know, #justLVMthings 🤪

[–]sorrywhatttAt-Risk Pick Me Youth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I need a long shower after reading this lol 😂

[–][deleted] 159 points160 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“bUt ItS BiOLogY”

[–][deleted] 186 points187 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Not all hate is the same. People who think hating men is the same as hating women lack critical thinking. Murdering a serial killer is not the same as murdering an innocent child. So even then, “murder is murder” is BS. Context matters. History matters. Motivation matters.

[–]umbralgardenFDS Newbie42 points43 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

YES. Exactly. People who believe it are the same ones saying reverse racism is just as bad.

[–]feminologie_FDS Apprentice10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Reverse racism implies that there is a "correct" form of racism, that by default racism should only happen to a certain group, which in and of itself is problematic

[–]SDTazRocks21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"reverse racism" is a ridiculous term and anyone who claims it gets the boot

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It will never get through most men’s heads for 3 reasons:

  • they harm women themselves.

  • they blame women for men’s bad behavior.

  • they don’t care.

[–]mostdefinitelyntursFDS Newbie90 points91 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They just do stupid shit and that alone makes them untrustworthy

[–]flowers4uFDS Newbie24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So much dumb shit, mind blowing

[–]mostdefinitelyntursFDS Newbie21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And they rationalize their shitty behavior. Im not ya mama!

[–]HamwiseGamgee88FDS Newbie5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Some, I assume, are good people.

[–]QueensJujuFDS Newbie17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think men don't understand, they know exactly what they do. But even if a man isn't a rapist or murderer, a woman who holds men accountable for ANY of their male specific shitty behavior is a threat to them. "uR sO sExIsT" is either pretending men aren't a threat to us or is communicating that they don't care men are a threat to us.

It's especially baffling and hurtful when other women make this garbage argument 😣

[–]Eat_Pant_b0ssFDS Newbie55 points56 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

PERIOD PERIOD PERIOD. Misogyny and misandry are NOT equal and not the same, for anyone. Stop pretending it is.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Misogyny is systemic, baked into the cake.

[–]caytj444FDS Newbie26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally. The two are not on the same level.

Woman hatred most definitely comes from their inability to engage sexually/romantically with us. Or//and it’s the fear that men are being robbed in some way while women get all the advantages, all because society is waking one eye up.

I have never hated men until I was aware of the violence and the misogyny frequently attributed in men towards women. That hate even has some sensitivity and fear to it. It’s hard to uncover, but it’s there. I’m still really sensitive.

[–]SilkyPurpleFlowersThrowaway Account23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am literally contemplating giving up on men. They have done such low things, my gas tank called TRUST has pretty much run empty.

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they view us not bending over backwards for them as an insult.

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just going to throw this out there. Most women are PMs and ready to settle and are desperate for any relationship. It would be like a woman not being able to find someone to hookup with. How can’t they get a gf? Like how is that even possible? They have zero interest in women who physically are on their level.

[–]dahmerloveszombiesFDS Newbie8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I got trolled for retweeting this lol

[–]buttercupsparklesFDS Newbie6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If men had the brains to understand this, the world would be in a much better place than it is today

[–]foxfaebaeFDS Newbie24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My dad raised four girls. He recognizes this everytime wd get our heart broken.

[–]ihaveabadaura2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I said this this every I’m harassed or it’s a possibility I will be

[–]princessofthekingdomFDS Newbie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say 'I hate women's is more like 'women don't deserve rights'

[–]Sharkwouale2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

well said :)

[–]AKittyPurrPurr2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can I just put out here how much I do feel unsafe, often on a daily basis? Why do I have to feel that way? Moreover, why do I have to explain this when I meet a guy? 'So babe I was stalked for 5 years, I need your understanding' 'Everyone has baggage' Uhh, no.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No man says “I hate women” out of a place of fear for their life because rape, murder, torture, and death. They hate women because they fear child support, responsibility, accountability and no sex. Completely different. Misandry is a reaction to misogyny.

[–]LionorasFDS Newbie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, this is one thing I wished people would understand about FDS.

Like when you hear people outside talk, most of them believe FDS is a hate group against men. And I can understand why. It's because most are men and can't relate to our thinking.

They don't understand that it's not "I literally hate men for being men". I mean, sure, every group has their extreme subgroups (Ever seen the babyhaters on r/aww?), but generally we mostly have a reason and background. However, we of course can't write an extra explanation to how we "actually mean it" every time on every post. (It's hard enough that r/TwoXChromosomes has to fight with that.)

[–]McWhiskeyFace3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think we are all afraid of men, but isn't that a reason why we should talk about how we can defend ourselves? Like buying firearms? A lot of women I talk to are afraid of guns, but in truth it could possibly save their lives or at least make then feel safe. I know it worked for me. Felt so much better staying on my own with one. Especially when I had a neighbor who I was sure wanted to harm me

[–]idhavetochargeFDS Newbie5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You need an ongoing training regimen if you own a firearm. Even more important than owning one is the muscle memory of loading, aiming, and firing. Training is important so you don't fumble or hesitate in close quarters. Field training is important too, so you have skills in aiming and in making judgements on if someone is a threat. You can see the intent on their faces if you know what to look for.

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Truth. My boyfriend fully agrees that men as a whole are to be distrusted until firmly proving themselves otherwise. My boyfriend describes himself as half female because he’s so not your typical male. He didn’t even know what an incel was, he’s had problems finding and keeping girlfriends just because he’s so different and maybe a little overly enthusiastic early on (I love it). He is so gentle and innocent and cares so much about my every feeling. Maybe if more men would be like him they could also get a devoted girlfriend. There are so many women out there just waiting for a man they can trust won’t harm them in some way or harbor dark secrets or whatever. I think if I hadn’t met a man that is so in tune with women on every level, I was going to be done even trying with men. My best friend is also a gay man who is very much aware of what women face on this planet on a daily basis. I’m very blessed to have these amazing men in my life who get it. Even my dad said all men are pigs haha. Well I can say that’s not true because my bff and bf are definitely anything but pigs but I get where he’s coming from. It’s getting worse as they glom onto each other and their toxic belief system through online communities. Best to find a guy who is really into a specific hobby that doesn’t involve the internet. It’s become a haven for these ignorant misogynists.

[–]idhavetochargeFDS Newbie6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just want to mention this to you. "Don't trust men till you know them super well" "Oh, Im not like those other guys, lets move the relationship along super fast" "he’s had problems finding and keeping girlfriends" these are serious red flags. Just keep an eye out for the bad behavior, any attempts at making you feel guilty, any signs he is controlling, and any times you feel something is wrong but you don't know what. He could be extra special, but telling you how extra special and misunderstood he is, thats HUGE red flags for future abuse. Please be safe.

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for your reply! I definitely don’t take any shit from any men anymore. He definitely knows that. If I am remotely upset about some dumb thing he said he fixes things right away. I’ve got him wrapped around my finger, but I also respect him and it’s just a really great dynamic between us. The girlfriends weren’t all bad but there were a few workplace romances that ended badly. And I think being so deeply into his hobbies didn’t help him meet women. He’s very quirky and boyish and this would annoy some women but i personally love that in him. He has moments of extreme brilliance mixed in with his idiosyncrasies, and barring a few minor changes, he’s the perfect guy for me in every way.

You are right though in that I should be vigilant for those signs, he just hasn’t displayed any to me. He tells me often that he’s kind of clueless and to please let him know if he ever does or says anything wrong. I’ve moved things along as much as he has. We are both hopeless romantics. It was going to unfold this way. He’s never said he was misunderstood. He just doesn’t have tons of self awareness but that makes him really loveable too because he is fearless and youthful.

I can appreciate your message for sure but I’m 4 months in with him, probably spent 90% of my days seeing him at least for a few hours, and he has always treated me with so much respect. We just happened to be kindred spirits. I haven’t had the best luck with men, in fact, it’s been a pretty hard life trying to make things work with my exes, so I try not to judge too harshly someone’s track record. I do remind him not to take me for granted. But no, he’s super proud to have me as his gf but is absolutely not the controlling type. I’m lucky I’ve never really had a controlling partner. Would definitely kick them to the curb though. Seen enough with my friends’ partners to know the signs very well.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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