Since FDS I’m so picky about who I date. I don’t emotionally attach like I used to because I’m so focused on myself and my happiness, I date from time to time and keep my options open. I went on a date with this guy, and we ended up going to a local concert after. It was a great night and it went on for a while.

He kissed me and then I went home. Two days later he sends me paragraphs about how he’s so overwhelmed and hopes that I’m okay with him taking a breather before he asks me on a second date but that he has a great night. He also said he’s not “ready” cause he’s still dealing with a breakup from over a year ago.

He seemed way more into me than I did him, saying he wants to see me soon and all that. I didn’t even want him to walk me to my door or anything.

Then I get this message. I actually haven’t really thought about him nor did I give off vibes like I’m looking for a relationship with him. Why do men convince themselves we are in love with them? In fact I got more friend vibes from our connection.