Why do some men seem to bond over how poorly they can treat women sexually/romantically?

forgivemefashion · 2020-03-22T01:23:58+00:00

Because that’s all they have. They don’t have a personality past anything that tastes like cardboard, they have no achievements, they didn’t work well in school, they have a mediocre job, they have no ambition, dress like shit and won’t change anything about their lives to make it better. When you have so little about your life, you have to grasp at anything and everything to make yourself seem better to get away from the reality you made for yourself.

RedRetrograde · 2020-03-21T23:54:55+00:00

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2020-03-22T00:27:19+00:00

Because how women are valued is an indicator of the general health of the planet.

Men entertaining themselves with heterosexual maltreatment hacks playing at Lord of the Flies treatments of their sexual “conquests” worship destruction on a biological basis.

Selfishly fucked in the head, locked and loaded with blinding anger, dickmatized to believe in a penis standard society- it’s manifest destiny and imperial colonialism post modern style. Women will always be a frontier to subjugate.

And/or

Having been hypnotized by hero quest fables imbedded in all media portrayals of band of brothers type men they’re doing as programmed using evolutionary excuses to deflect.

Basically it’s “individual” men achieving man-mythic points by destroying what gives life because of false Odyssey narratives.

Imo.

curlygirl507 · 2020-03-22T18:51:24+00:00

Because deep down, men desire to dominate. That's why so many of them rape and then kill women - it's the ultimate form of domination, and they love it. Domination is their form of morality. They don't care about being a decent person, trying to get along with women, uplifting each other, making the world a better place, or anything along those lines.

The way you think is probably something like this:

I want the world to be a better place.
I want things to be as peaceful and harmonious as possible.
I want to be a super nice person all the time, and go above and beyond for others whenever possible.

The way men think is generally the opposite. Of course there are some exceptions, but most of them think like this:

She seems like a nice girl. What can I get out of her?
How can I fuck her as soon as possible?
If I don't spend money on her, will she fuck me?
If I don't answer her texts, will she fuck me?
If I play her hot and cold, will she fuck me?
If I *openly* make her my side chick, will she fuck me?
Can I get her to give me money?
How much money and p*ssy can I get out of her, and for how long?
Can I get her to cook for me?
Can I get her to clean for me?
I am THE MAN. I deserve every single p*ssy on the planet. If I'm getting it, that means I deserve it!!
I can't wait to tell all my friends about how I've dominated all these women so I can WIN!!!

What you wrote makes perfect sense in this context.

2020-03-22T01:59:44+00:00

Makes them feel like it's ok. Like when macho war dudes talk about how war is cool and good.

PharmacyThumbprint · 2020-03-22T23:43:06+00:00

They’re so afraid of being called a simp. So the trend is to instead, show how much of a simp you AREN’T by detailing how ( badly) you treat women. The more callous and depraved the behavior, the better. The winner is the man who can show the most callousness and depravity, while also not spending even a dollar

Title	Why do some men seem to bond over how poorly they can treat women sexually/romantically?
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	75
Comments	12
Date	March 21, 2020 11:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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