Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.

_mooness · 2021-11-09T14:35:54+00:00

“Hi I’m looking for a female human companion pet, she must be obedient, compliant, and wear pretty dresses. I have no other standards bc I view female human companions as nothing more than dogs doing tricks for men.”

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-11-09T15:07:50+00:00

Once they get the submissive woman, they don't even want her. I can't stop laughing at all the white guys who realize their foreign (usually Asian) wives expect them to stay with them forever, and will leave with the children if he screws up or expects 50/50.

I also feel bad for the women because they thought they were getting an alpha western man... and they got Jake from State Farm who can't make eye contact with them but still wants sex all the time.

avocadobarbie · 2021-11-09T14:29:29+00:00

“I need a woman who knows how to communicate” - I need a woman who lets me break down her boundaries and let me convince her I’m always right and she’s overreacting. Anything other than agreeing with me is being “argumentative” not communicating.

Sage_Planter · 2021-11-09T15:27:48+00:00

Oh, but don't forget, she has to do all these things and also contribute 50/50 to the family's finances!

You want me to be your submissive little fuck pet who cleans up after you without complaint and says yes to everything you say while also working 9-5 to pay half our rent? I'll have to go with "no" on that one.

bleda_princezna · 2021-11-09T15:30:44+00:00

How about no, Mr. "Alpha".

SnooCookies487 · 2021-11-09T15:38:32+00:00

Beauty??? These bros don't even want to floss let alone do 90% what it takes it be "beautiful". I read that some of these boys don't even want to wash their ass because it's "gay" 🤢🤮.

scorchedsouI · 2021-11-09T15:38:11+00:00

Men are making an unreasonable request. It's impossible for me, or any woman in her heart, to look at the most respectable and competent of men and see a leader, as far as relationships are concerned at least.

Women will never think of their male partners as leaders, or as the most valuable among the two, because they're not meant to be. They will be considered equal partners and caregivers, a member of a team, at best, and only if they're considered fitting for such a thing. This reality is only becoming harder to deny as women earn their own money and have the power to be more honest.

At the end of the day, a man is a man, he's there to serve a specific role nature gave him in a woman's sexual and reproductive life, and nothing more than that. They need to either make peace with this reality, or stay celibate. We don't mind either way.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-11-09T15:57:03+00:00

Few things women ask for:

Respect
loyalty
keep your dick in your pants

The bar's in hell.

honestlyidkfr · 2021-11-09T19:07:00+00:00

Men want feminine, submissive women until the bill for rent comes or the waiter gets his order wrong, then they want “equality” or “independent, outspoken” women 🤪

slayeroftruth · 2021-11-09T15:43:27+00:00

lol at the Alpha part while having muscles. I guarantee that's fantasy. "alpha" men don't go around announcing it.

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-11-09T14:09:31+00:00

If he was replying to Rich Cooper then it’s clear this was all a red pill circle jerk of mediocre male podcasters that make a living out of publicly voicing their misogyny + support for abusive dynamics

modernmedusaa · 2021-11-09T14:24:28+00:00

Lmfao if you need anymore evidence the men saying this are spineless undesirable predators

Go look at the increasing number of pompous rejected white men who are moving abroad to impoverished patriarchal countries to buy wives to exploit

The veneer is so thin - I feel sorry for those women.

They are having to BUY poor women & force them into dealing with them & they’re even proud of it - no shame . Meanwhile the woman is only with them because she has no money

The men demanding this aren’t even remotely attractive partners themselves

They are average looking (at best) but feel deserving of super models & nothing less yet they expect women to take sympathy on their poor looks, wages or personality

They are hyper critical of women’s looks, frequently change the goal posts ‘love curves’ ‘too thin not thick enough’ ‘too big’ & rarely satisfied even when they land a beautiful woman but expect endless sympathy from us

They aren’t mature men willing to provide either - they scrunch their faces up at women having any basic expectations of them such as paying for dates or proving themselves . They see this as manipulation though they have no qualms manipulating a woman into bed, lying about themselves, pitting her against others & wasting her time or abusing/ using her for self gain

They are scared of goldiggas & hypothetical ‘divorce rape’ even without any gold to dig - just plain selfish & expect a divorce in their future- we know why.

They gloat about wanting a stay at home housewife but when you ask how they could realistically provide for the wife and six kids THEY want- crickets. They realise their 30k job won’t cut it. Didn’t get that far ahead- must pass muh seed & trap woman

They claim they want loyal agreeable feminine women yet cheat on & abuse those women & expect them to play nice & jump on them every time they get back from disrespecting her

Why would a woman want kids with men like that? How is that healthy for kids either?

Even if they land a beautiful woman their insecure ego can’t handle it & they will belittle, abuse or triangulate her against other women or get cocky & cheat

They deliberately antagonise a woman till she has no energy left to give & doesn’t want to play ball anymore - then label her difficult, harsh & ‘masculine’ as if he’s not forcing her guard to go up

They just want a woman stripped down, trapped & solely dependent on them so they have more control - that’s what it’s really about

That’s why men defined ‘femininity’ within these constraints- it serves their interests to ‘dominate’ & belittle passive, forgiving, agreeable women - they’re easier to steam roll & bend to their liking

They want a woman to make herself small, convenient & palatable- take a good kicking with a warm embracing smile on her face everyday - delusional fantasy.

Most men wouldn’t take 15% of what women tolerate & still want the bar lowered

And what do women or their kids get out of this? He might treat her better (temporarily & superficially) as shes compliant & fits into his fantasy but in the longterm he will get bored of the novelty & exploit her given the chance

I’m not saying women need to be aggressive wreckless brutes like men & constantly shouting in peoples faces etc (though in some cases it’s warranted) & understand some women had harsher upbringings so find it easier to stick up for themselves or be independent

But really when you look at what men CLAIM they want and how they TREAT those same women when they get it- it doesn’t add up. It’s a thin veneer for what they really want - control over you. Their way or the highway. Put up with my shit or else you’re….undesirable, difficult & ‘masculine’.

Also it’s not truly in women’s best interest or nature to be endlessly naive & passive as it could get a woman or her children killed. Women need boundaries to keep themselves safe

Women can be fiercely protective - look at how a mother yanks her child away from a busy road & disciplines them to avoid danger. Is that too aggressive & masculine? Are we stepping out of their sweet feminine fantasy?

Is it aggressive & masculine of a woman to say ‘no I am not your slave to abuse & infect with STIs. Why don’t you help me with these kids? Why do you treat me like shit & expect me to repay you with gratitude?’

Or is that a perfectly reasonable, human, defensive response given the hostile conditions he’s pushing on her - when he manipulated his way in.

Where’s the line drawn with this? Where’s the reward? Men tend to keep things deliberately vague. When she’s 6 feet under the ground by playing too nice? For too long?

Then she just becomes another forgotten statistic and is blamed for her death? When does responsibility get pushed on emotionally volatile violent men with uncontrollable anger, nonsensical hypocritical demands and sick twisted porn fetishes?

In fact it does ‘add up’ for a man - he gets to have his cake and eat it at her expense. Work a woman like a mule whilst disrespecting her & never giving her what she truly wants always making her chase the carrot stick - then toss her to the side for a younger model when she’s had his kids and got too ‘masculine’ & ‘difficult’ Aka stood up for herself.

Funny how men defined masculinity as leadership, getting what you want, being served & dominating etc whilst for women it’s be a slave, tolerate disrespect & never complain. Funny that. Almost like it’s deliberate.

Always question to who this all truly benefits - it’s not women.

And if women find it difficult to maintain good mental health or even look happy whilst living up to this absurd never ending fantasy performance men cooked up in their head….perhaps it’s because it’s purposely designed so that women stay weak, exhausted and compliant. Perhaps they don’t want us happy

Perhaps it’s because the conditions they create are unhealthy for women & their kids. Perhaps it’s because they don’t think women need an incentive to stay with them. Perhaps their warped perspectives on relationships are THE problem.

Jay-Qualin · 2021-11-09T16:05:15+00:00

First red flag: he calls himself aLPhA

preppykat3 · 2021-11-09T18:13:45+00:00

These lowlife scrotes are stuck in the 1950’s yet they don’t even have anything to offer. At least men back then paid all the bills and took care of their women. But these incels want all the benefits of a 1950’s housewives, without contributing a penny in return, or even having proper manners and respect.

Lower-Sherbet4153 · 2021-11-09T14:10:48+00:00

.Gross.

xfelugirlx · 2021-11-09T14:32:25+00:00

Amen to that. The submissive part is real and fucking disgusting

jijitsu-princess · 2021-11-09T14:39:26+00:00

I swear to God Red pilled men are today’s MGTOW.

IrenesQueendom · 2021-11-09T14:14:57+00:00

And that's why women are single by choice.

Muffcakelord · 2021-11-09T15:09:19+00:00

How is it not difficult to be submissive and cooperative? How come men fail to be this?

revengeofgivingtree · 2021-11-09T16:49:20+00:00

Oh cool. Here's how he can meet those "needs" 1 & 4. Get a dog 2 & 3. Clean his nest and add some floral print.

//S

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-11-09T17:13:20+00:00

he is tomorrow's fucking alpha!

and then that tomorrow never comes.

of all that, cooperation strikes me as the shittiest, because I always imagine a hostage situation:

if you cooperate, we won't hurt you.

it's basically obscuring your intuition and all the gut feelings that point you to a way out.

ububTkuc · 2021-11-09T14:18:43+00:00

More like "Tommorow's Incel"!🤣😂🤣

Competitive_Bar8657 · 2021-11-09T17:56:50+00:00

They want these things to gaslight, use, and abuse women without them asking questions or fighting back.

ItsFreezen · 2021-11-09T18:44:52+00:00

Scrote should of saved himself the time writing this bs and just say "Enjoys Being Abused"

katiekat0214 · 2021-11-09T21:19:35+00:00

Super happy to say I have utterly failed at all of these, my entire life, and now at 53, it is way too late to "reform" me. I win!

radfem_babe · 2021-11-09T16:52:05+00:00

I want a wife by Judy Brady.

miwamus · 2021-11-09T18:52:12+00:00

He forgot "50/50."

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-11-09T21:06:40+00:00

Can we just take a mo to appreciate his twitter handle? “Tomorrow’s Alpha”. Not even “Today’s Alpha”. Nope, right now he’s a dad bod-having Verizon store sales rep who’s terminally online, and hasn’t has a date since community college, but that’s okay. It’s all part of the plan, see: he’s building his empire, and by the time he’s 45, he’ll have his pick of all the “good” women who exclusively date older successful men. At least, that’s what the instructor of the ten-day How to Be Alpha course he paid $4k for told him, and why would he lie? Now he’s only gotta wait twenty years for that course to pay off, and when it does, all those bitches that broke up with him because they insisted on being respected will see. They’ll all see!

corkymuu · 2021-11-09T14:14:17+00:00

I’m pretty sure you can’t be submissive and cooperate at the same time.

miiju86 · 2021-11-09T18:38:05+00:00

Go try the same with men.....

WestAtmosphere · 2021-11-09T22:52:44+00:00

The irony is they'll soon be displeased with their pregnant wife for not looking like a supermodel anymore. Justify their cheating and then dip for an 18 y/o.

aurelia_86 · 2021-11-10T04:11:15+00:00

"Not that difficult".

Ok Mr Alpha, then why don't you give it a try and show us how easy it is to be a perfectly f*ckable constantly smiling doormat? Go on, show us girls how it's done, we'll be waiting for your report.

LadyM2 · 2021-11-09T20:10:09+00:00

Yeah, I no longer think being feminine is a compliment anymore. It just means that you fit into the male projection onto women, which only means being weak and easy to be exploited.

Odd_Construction6742 · 2021-11-10T02:32:13+00:00

What pisses men off the most is when a woman is beautiful and feminine but not submissive or corporative. It really gets under their skin lmao.

Sewud · 2021-11-10T01:20:57+00:00

Women cooperate just fine. It's more like... you can't submit to and cooperate with an idiot leading you to an oil field on fire! Of course if he was HVM with good ideas and positive leadership he'd have less problem finding women willing to follow him. But why would any woman willingly submit to him when he's untrustworthy?

MagickalChilde19 · 2021-11-09T18:39:48+00:00

Few things women ask for-

Honesty, integrity, good hygiene, and faithfulness.

Not that difficult.

Paris_dans_mes_reves · 2021-11-09T19:13:45+00:00

This man is describing a poodle.

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-11-09T21:14:17+00:00

"Be hot while I abuse you while telling everyone it's your fault."

pukubr · 2021-11-09T16:50:21+00:00

dont forget loyal - never looks at better men and will settle for you no matter how much you screw up, disappoint or abuse her

PotatoAlternative947 · 2021-11-09T18:29:14+00:00

And women ask for respect, which is not difficult either but “Submissive” tells you that respecting you is the last thing they want to do.

Same with men that have to inform you that they’re “Alpha” or “dominant,” these men are looking for something to subjugate. I have never, nor will I ever decide I need that in my life.

myousername · 2021-11-10T12:20:24+00:00

"Not that difficult" oh yeah it's not that hard to please a man, all you have to do is completely renounce your personhood and suppress your self preservation instincts and devote your entire life to serving his penis wants instead!

ConsistentTip6508 · 2021-11-09T18:54:19+00:00

"Submissiveness"? Just *cringe 😬

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-11-10T23:58:46+00:00

I read a thing where they Man who originally came up with the term "Alpha" for wolves, has admitted that it is outdated and miss-leading term. It doesn't apply to wolves and it certainly doesn't apply to human men. I get that men will align themselves with this term, but it translates to = Stupid and Insecure

kaleidoscope471 · 2021-11-09T17:22:36+00:00

This is like my co-workers who think collaboration is automatically agreeing with them.

MissApplication · 2021-11-09T20:21:37+00:00

uthurpendragun · 2021-11-10T13:40:45+00:00

One thing most men fail to be: good men