“Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.

SnooEagles9138 · 2021-03-04T18:58:05+00:00

Oh god, I will never get, when guys are like " I prefer ...." . Its not like they have a shot with those women anyway.

chasingastarl1ght · 2021-03-04T12:40:17+00:00

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justforfds · 2021-03-04T15:24:30+00:00

I haven't worn a bra since last March. Not going back.

vowelsareimportant · 2021-03-04T12:00:07+00:00

I’ve been wearing mine less and less. I’ve always been a sporadic bra wearer because I have small breasts and it’s not as noticeable when I go without. I used to limit it to when I wore sweatshirts or structured tops that already did some holding in but now I just throw a tank top under a lot of my outfits. A tank top undershirt gives me the nipple coverage I want without the discomfort of a bra. It’s a game changer.

Gerltofen · 2021-03-04T12:00:25+00:00

There could two women wearing the same fit modest outfit, one being very thin with a rectangle figure and the other being chubby with a hourglass body and SHE will be the ones being slutshamed even though she is covered head to toe. It's like women are being punished for daring to have a body, like how dare we have bigger boobs and a figure, we are such sluts for existing. That's why I wear hoodies all the time and men still try commenting that I'm "hiding" my true beauty....

barbedwiredaisycrown · 2021-03-04T12:52:47+00:00

I really appreciated this video as a braless large breast woman myself. I was definitely shamed for having a body growing up. As a teenager I swam in crew necks and board shorts. I worked at a store with majority male clients for a while and they'd stare at the lumps on my front while I was wearing a hoodie AND a coat. Men are just fucking gross ogling perverts and I've always felt like an animal in a zoo being stared at by people who want to take me home and keep me as a pet. I can see the depravity in their eyes and then they pretty much resemble personified pieces of shit to me after that.

All cause I've got fucking breasts. Didn't your mother teach you not to stare?

16February2021 · 2021-03-04T18:01:06+00:00

My only problem going bra less is guys starting at my nipples :(

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-03-04T12:54:53+00:00

Since I left for college, I’ve been braless with a few exceptions, like going to court with one of the male judges that throws a fit if you don’t wear a skirt suit and hose.

Don’t believe the myth that it’ll cause saggy boobs or desensitize your nipples. It’s all just propaganda shoved down our gullets to scare us into hiding our female-presenting nipples to act as modestly as society can shame us into acting. Sagging is caused by genetics and factors such as smoking, weight gain, and tanning. After going braless for over 12 years, I have impressive pectoral strength (I can pop them like Terry Crews!) compared to my friends that constantly wear supportive undergarments and my nipples are absolutely an erogenous zone still.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-04T15:48:33+00:00

She’s an awesome person. I laughed so many times watching this

angryclarinetist · 2021-03-04T17:58:00+00:00

See, I am fairly new to all of this. I think it is awesome that women are more comfortable with their bodies like this and don’t care what men think about. However, is it also valid to dress “modestly” because I don’t feel like random men deserve to see my body? I am not trying to slut-shame in anyway (obviously slut shaming is a gross patriarchal concept). I just feel like the average man is really gross and I don’t want to expose myself to that

favoritesound · 2021-03-04T15:44:36+00:00

As if people love testicles which also naturally sag.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-03-04T21:36:10+00:00

So breasts have muscles and ligament strength. Bras make your breasts weak. ESPECIALLY if you are larger breasted you WILL NOT be able to go a whole day braless over night. Your tits will hurt something fierce. You need to work up to it.

If your nipples point more down than out, I found going braless to be a HUGE improvement on how my breasts looked. I wish I had before and after photos.

pineycitrusforest · 2021-03-04T22:22:57+00:00

I never wear a bra and I have C's. Sometimes I forget this is something people judge me for. Not my problem.

gutsandgorey · 2021-03-04T23:03:55+00:00

Never going back to wire bras. EVER.

Fantastic_Ad680 · 2021-03-05T01:11:58+00:00

So amazing to see her speaking on this! I have large breasts too and I HATE bras. I hate how they feel and everything they represent. It’s more comfortable for me to be without them (big boobs are uncomfortable enough as it is). I haven’t worn a “real” bra in years, only wireless, pad less bralettes, and that was a huge adjustment because yes, men stare. I’ve considered reduction just to divert attention and the need to wear bras not to be gawked at. I truly think small breasted women are lucky. When I try on clothes I’m always annoyed if it’s cute but that line where my breasts meet is poking out, because I know I’ll get stared. I just want to feel wholesome and since I developed breasts at age 11 I’ve been forcibly sexualized. I realize this is still pandering to the male gaze, albeit in attempt to divert and I should do what I want. But it makes me feel very unsafe.

waddamelone · 2021-03-05T08:43:40+00:00

Yesssss! I discovered her a few days ago because she popped up in my recommended videos. Love her.

dkwantsdk · 2021-03-05T08:57:01+00:00

Ooh! Going to do braless tomorrow! I'm inspired!

Title	“Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.
Author	fierce_and_mighty
Upvotes	270
Comments	41
Date	March 4, 2021 10:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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